meeting fsu girls in OZ

[andrewj]

Hi,

I was married to a russian lady and now I am looking again.
I wouldnt mind looking to see if there any FSU ladies in OZ who also want a family. I looked at Elenas models and saw just 40 of them scattered around the country.

Are there any other websites or places to meet FSU ? Doesnt have to be dating sites.
Thanks

[Trenchcoat]

Possibly look up any Russian Orthodox Churches or groups, English Language learning, any city that may have a Russian cultural quarter and/or Wikipedia big cities/the country to see if any have a large Russian migrant population. I'm guessing as western Russia is off the seaboard it may be a possibility. You may find joy doing this but I think dating sites will likely be the easiest way. I mean Russian Orthodox Church services may not be everyone's idea of a place they would wish to hang out holding a big placard saying 'Hottie Russian Girl Wanted'

Seriously though I think like said in other thread a lot of these girls will be inundated even on EM by lazy guys who just don't want to do the fuss of the importation work. No harm in trying I guess though.   

[andrewj]

I have done the importation documents before and I have been to eastern orthodox near me before which I really would stay clear of to be honest. Anyway thanks for the tip

[msmob]

Trench is our resident dating expert re finding FSU W ...how could you ignore his 'advice' ?

Seriously, andrewj..finding the right person for you involves diligence and patience and sometimes luck comes into it.

Dating sites are your best bet as it is a sure sign the lady is looking for a partner

[Davo2]

Have you been dating lately in Australia?
You probably have an advantage as you know a lot more  about FSU women than the average guy, but you will have a lot of  competition. I briefly dated a reasonably attractive Aussie girl who was 10 years younger than me, until she found I had a vasectomy, she wanted kids too. Before we met she was on tinder for a  month and she had close 500  guys message her.
Probably an attractive FSU woman would attract even more  interest.
I've had mates who have been single for 3-5 years and not even been on one date despite trying many avenues to meet  women. It seems most of my single friends are absolutely disillusioned with the dating scene here, but I haven't done too bad so hopefully you have some luck 

[Trenchcoat]

Before we met she was on tinder for a  month and she had close 500  guys message her.
Probably an attractive FSU woman would attract even more  interest.
I've had mates who have been single for 3-5 years and not even been on one date despite trying many avenues to meet  women. It seems most of my single friends are absolutely disillusioned with the dating scene here

Quite, that's exactly the sort of intense competition I mean that I and many men in the UK are up against.

[msmob]

I briefly dated a reasonably attractive Aussie girl who was 10 years younger than me, until she found I had a vasectomy, she wanted kids too.

As someone who had the snip, I made it VERY clear that I did not want any more kids...( rather than couldn't - that can be explained later)

If we are honest in our dating profiles...we might get less dates, but surely find a partner more suited ?

I would have thought it obvious that a woman in her twenties / thirties might be more likely to want kids than a guy ten years old - in his thirties / forties.

[andrewj]

hi,
No not knocking the tips given here as this is why I am here.


I have enjoyed reading the posts here thanks for that.

[andrewj]

Possibly look up any Russian Orthodox Churches or groups, English Language learning, any city that may have a Russian cultural quarter and/or Wikipedia big cities/the country to see if any have a large Russian migrant population. I'm guessing as western Russia is off the seaboard it may be a possibility. You may find joy doing this but I think dating sites will likely be the easiest way. I mean Russian Orthodox Church services may not be everyone's idea of a place they would wish to hang out holding a big placard saying 'Hottie Russian Girl Wanted'

Seriously though I think like said in other thread a lot of these girls will be inundated even on EM by lazy guys who just don't want to do the fuss of the importation work. No harm in trying I guess though.

good to meet you trench anyway. sounds like you are the guy to speak to about remarrying

[msmob]

Quite, that's exactly the sort of intense competition I mean that I and many men in the UK are up against.

Trench,

I was about your age when I first came onto the dating scene..I was already the father of two kids, divorced and my ex-wife lived in the family home - not able to have more kids  ...  NOT an attractive proposition - you'd think

I had NO problem getting dates in the UK /FSU...   

6 years ago - I (sadly) ended up on the scene, again...   Tinder was JUST kicking off - but I never went on it !  STILL had no problem getting dates.. 

Has the scene changed so much in 4 years ?  I doubt it ... 

I'm no Adonis, so WHAT are you doing wrong - given you claim such 'competition' ?

I think many of us on here figured out why ..yet you constantly hand out 'advice' to newbies on here...?!

good to meet you trench anyway. sounds like you are the guy to speak to about remarrying

I seriously hope you had your tongue firmly plated in your cheek...

[Trenchcoat]

Trench,

I was about your age when I first came onto the dating scene..I was already the father of two kids, divorced and my ex-wife lived in the family home - not able to have more kids  ...  NOT an attractive proposition - you'd think

I had NO problem getting dates in the UK /FSU...   

6 years ago - I (sadly) ended up on the scene, again...   Tinder was JUST kicking off - but I never went on it !  STILL had no problem getting dates.. 

Has the scene changed so much in 4 years ?  I doubt it ... 

I'm no Adonis, so WHAT are you doing wrong - given you claim such 'competition' ?

I think many of us on here figured out why ..yet you constantly hand out 'advice' to newbies on here...?!


I seriously hope you had your tongue firmly plated in your cheek...

Well we know from what you tell us before your FSU wife did rather well out of you bringing her here.

There may be some element about you that is attractive to women. After all you've had a family and kids and most guys that have tend to do well enough on this search.

Weather that is down to knowing what women are looking for, how to handle them or delivering what they want etc who knows. I do know though that some members on here seem to make out its all down to the wonderful person they ate then I later find out they are quite wealthy. Some people I think delude themselves that it's something other than their wealth that is attractive to their girl. Occasionally it may be but often it's just the wealth doing it for them.

[Davo2]

As someone who had the snip, I made it VERY clear that I did not want any more kids...( rather than couldn't - that can be explained later)

If we are honest in our dating profiles...we might get less dates, but surely find a partner more suited ?

I would have thought it obvious that a woman in her twenties / thirties might be more likely to want kids than a guy ten years old - in his thirties / forties.

It was very!! brief.. 2 weeks. In the second week that we really started discussing what we were  looking for. She already had 2 children so at I took it for granted that she probably wouldn't want anymore.

[msmob]

Well we know from what you tell us before your FSU wife did rather well out of you bringing her here.

How so ? Do tell - you are proving my point to andrewj.

Some people I think delude themselves that it's something other than their wealth that is attractive to their girl. Occasionally it may be but often it's just the wealth doing it for them.

 

Trench manages to post dafter by the day..

 Ex-Wifey to be had plenty of offers from guys who were better off than I  - before choosing me...   At the time I rented a property -  as my main asset - a not inconsiderable percentage in a former family home - was unlikely to be realised until my youngest daughter - then 4 years old - finished full-time education

[Davo2]

I hope my post didn't come across as being too negative, I'm just stating facts for a vast majority of middle age men looking for women in Australia, but if you don't bring baggage from past relationships, are happy in yourself, positive and enjoy life, women find that attractive. I seem to have more luck with women when I'm out having fun and doing my own thing than when I'm specifically going out with the intention of finding a woman to date and over thinking things. Dating anywhere is not so hard with the right  attitude. It makes you stand out from the other 500 guys : )

[msmob]

It was very!! brief.. 2 weeks. In the second week that we really started discussing what we were  looking for. She already had 2 children so at I took it for granted that she probably wouldn't want anymore.

My apologies - if interpreted as coming across as 'aggressive' - I should be careful - having just dealt with Trench;)

At the time I paid close attention to women's profiles - making it clear - before we met - that not wanting kids was 'non-negotiable'

[Davo2]

 No offence taken 


 

[msmob]

GREAT ! ))

[Anotherkiwi]

...I'm guessing as western Russia is off the seaboard it may be a possibility.

Is this the crowning glory to Trenchcoat's idiocy? 

Australia has now moved to somewhere in the Baltic Sea!  Is there anything more that CAN be said?

[ML]

I also had the snip many years ago.
I was surprised to learn that several very well educated FSU gals had basically never heard of it.  But they were very happy to know of my condition once they understood.
One gal told me she did research on Internet (after I had told her) and talked to me later in an almost giddy manner about my condition.
She said that many FSU gals on the discussion sites she found had talked about it and how happy they were that there man had done it; but that most said their men would not even consider it.
She told me it was a wonderful thing that I had done for my former wife.
She told me that FSU doctors told the females to jump up after sex and run to bathroom to basically splash water into the area.  Not surprisingly that on their mind didn't help when setting the mood, enjoying, etc.
I laughed and told her such splashing around accomplished nothing.
She said, yes that later she understood, but it was all they were taught at the time.
So now she was able to go from X to . . .  well that's a story for another time.

[msmob]

I recognise the reaction, well..

Men having the snip in a FSU country was just about unheard of and 'research' was done - often finding reports of 'erectile dysfunction' issues

[ML]

Men having the snip in a FSU country was just about unheard of and 'research' was done - often finding reports of 'erectile dysfunction' issues

ED is not related to the snip at all; except if a man gets it into his head.
Except for teenagers and young men, erections can become a psychological issue.

Men, of course, can have true ED which is mostly related to restricted blood flow to the penis.
That is where See Alice and her cousins are useful.

For men who have erection problems because of psychological issues . . . the best cure is a hot chick . . . young or older.

[ML]

Men having the snip in a FSU country was just about unheard of and 'research' was done - often finding reports of 'erectile dysfunction' issues

Funny story . . . maybe.

All men experience enlarging prostates as aging goes on.
Some only slight enlarging which they don't even know about since no problems caused.
More commonly enlarging progresses to where urine flow is restricted which is a very big problem.
Two basic helps:
1) Finasteride will promote shrinkage of the prostate; but its effectiveness will vary from man to man.  Nice side effect is that it promotes growth of hair on the man's head!!
2) Tamsulosin is an alpha-blocker that relaxes the muscles in the prostate and bladder neck, making it easier to urinate.  Silodosin is a relatively new competitor to Tamsulosin.  It may be more effective, but is much more costly.

Taking 1 and 2 together provides a lot of help for many men.

Anyway . . . on to my funny story.

A late 30s gal I was spending time with knew of my usage of Finasteride and told her father about it as he was experiencing the typical problems.  She and her father were quite close, and she could discuss intimate and sexual things with him much easier than with her mother . . . so she told me.

Her father began using Finasteride . . . but after a couple of weeks he spoke to her with alarm saying that his penis was shrinking.  She knew that he was sort of a hypochondriac and had always imagined many things about his health forever (despite being a near genius re IQ).

So she sought to reassure him by saying:  "No finasteride will not cause shrinkage because ML has been using it for several years and his penis doesn't suffer from shrinkage."