Another w.t.f. moment.

[Sting23]

Eich, I had a few women write "F you" in their first letter to me. I communicated with many women at any given time and was dating regularly at home so one rejection by way of insult didn't bother me. Communicate with lots of women so when one rejects you, especially in an insulting way, you won't feel as bad.

wow, some women would write "F you" in their 1st reply?  Pretty rude but maybe what you wrote to them triggered some kind of angry reaction.  That's why writing as a medium isn't as preferable to face to face talking.  But in this age of online internet it's needed.

[JayH]

wow, some women would write "F you" in their 1st reply?  Pretty rude but maybe what you wrote to them triggered some kind of angry reaction.  That's why writing as a medium isn't as preferable to face to face talking.  But in this age of online internet it's needed.

Not hard to understand at all-- if you read BB  a few times  you too will pick up why they responded that way !

[BillyB]

what you wrote to them triggered some kind of angry reaction. 

I wrote to them "I seen your photos baby. You have nice legs. What time do they open?"


Actually I used a canned introductory message or letter. Hard to write thousands of women without a canned message or letter. Some women probably didn't like I was American or even half Asian. Some women went off on how bad America is. It's what happens when you use Mamba.ru. Most girls there are looking for local guys so when a foreigner writes, they may get upset.

[Maxx2]

It's definitely a test question that you need a prepared answer for.

When I lived in North Dakota, I would explain that I moved there
for the oil boom along with zillions of other men. The Williston
Newpaper reported that there were 70 men for every woman.
That includes 8 year old girls (not my type) and 80 year old
Babushka's (not my type either).

I could go to a nightclub and even the 60 year old crones, who
were 160 cm and 115 kg that were missing 7 teeth with facial
tattoos and an ankle bracelet to keep their parole officer aware
of their location had a circle of men around them.

It takes 24 hours to drive back to my home town in Oregon but
only 18-20 to drive and fly to the FSU so that I am flying to the
FSU because it's closer!

I had a different stories when I lived in different areas, but I
always had a story. Then I would turn it around to them.

Why is such a beautiful woman still single? are all the FSU
men blind? How do all the blind men drive? Did you kill
your last 7 boyfriends? Did you poison their soup?

These girls want to be pursued, they want it to be about
them, not their FSU sisters. Her FSU sisters can find their
own man, this girl wants me or will before I am done talking
to her.

What is the purpose of her question? It's multifaceted,
Is this guy for real? Is he serious? Will he get on a plane?
Will he love me? Will he ___________ enter a thousand
other questions here.

Your goal is to get her at ease and thinking of you and her
together. You still need to discuss thousands of things but
you need to break through the ice and defenses first.

Udachi!

Bill

A world class post! 

[Maxx2]

Letter writing in short, sucks. So easy to get misunderstood and not being there to quickly put out the unintentional fire adds to the problem. Like what the Bible says, "Don't go to bed angry." The smartest approach in my opinion is just send an introductory letter and go there. Don't even let a week go by.

[msmob]

. It's what happens when you use Mamba.ru. Most girls there are looking for local guys so when a foreigner writes, they may get upset.

sighs,

NEVER ... not once did I get such a reaction

Can it be I'm not American or BillyB's writing style ?

[msmob]

Letter writing in short, sucks. So easy to get misunderstood and not being there to quickly put out the unintentional fire adds to the problem. Like what the Bible says, "Don't go to bed angry." The smartest approach in my opinion is just send an introductory letter and go there. Don't even let a week go by.

Hmm,

I'm really not sure I agree there, Maxx

May be, those are the words of someone wanting you to get on a plane and spending money to set up dates ?


The opening letter is all important - then you may get the chance to video chat and THEN the first meeting will be even more exciting ?!