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The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« on: July 10, 2018, 10:27:25 AM »
Does the type of picture a woman sends matter when first communicating ? What is wearing,etc.

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #1 on: July 10, 2018, 10:47:07 AM »
Does the type of picture a woman sends matter when first communicating ? What is wearing,etc.
If you are being sent near naked pictures from someone you have just started communicating with then you have reason to be concerned. Normal people donít do that.
Itís more than likely Boris on the other end.

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #2 on: July 10, 2018, 12:21:43 PM »
Does the type of picture a woman sends matter when first communicating ? What is wearing,etc.

What appeals to you? A girl dressed in 2nd hand clothes with the poorest section of town in the background or a girl wearing designer clothes standing in front of a million dollar yacht while on vacation at an exotic place? Maybe something in the middle?
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #3 on: July 10, 2018, 06:37:50 PM »
Does the type of picture a woman sends matter when first communicating ?
It matters in the sense that you can feed it to Goggle Images/TinEye and see if she appears anywhere else ;).
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #4 on: July 14, 2018, 10:10:40 AM »
Does the type of picture a woman sends matter when first communicating ? What is wearing,etc.


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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #5 on: July 14, 2018, 07:09:42 PM »
It depends on which brain you are using and which site you are communicating with or via.

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #6 on: July 24, 2018, 11:18:53 AM »
The photos should be pleasant to your eye. If you want to die for it, then this girl is worth attention ;D
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #7 on: July 24, 2018, 11:59:34 AM »
Does the quantity of photos she sends or has on a dating site matter? Some women have only 4 or 5 photos on a dating site other women have 40 or 50 photos.

Is the vastly larger quantity of photos indicative of anything?

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #8 on: July 24, 2018, 12:57:03 PM »
The photos should be pleasant to your eye. If you want to die for it, then this girl is worth attention ;D

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #9 on: July 24, 2018, 12:59:05 PM »
Could mean that she is obessive over having her photo taken a lot Dave. It was kind of weird for me, but apparently a lot of girls are like that and I have seen a fair amount of posing from girls when in Odessa.

I like a nice array of photos, a pro one or two is ok but must be non pro photos in there also. Facial photos & full bod ones are nice also. Sometimes you get where she looks nice in a few then see one where the lighting is not ramped up and she can look terrible so a good few photos can tell a lot I think.

I'm also not at all keen on women that dye their hair different colours. I nearly always prefer natural and like to know what I am dealing with, a natural blonde, brunette, etc.

If she is posing on a catwalk/in front of fashion brand advertising this is a likely sign that she will be high maintenance. These girls I personally just avoid these days, I'm done with all of that.

Would just add that if she is into wearing either dresses, skirts or jeans/trousers her preference is likely to feature a fair bit in photos. In Ukraine they have shops that just specialize in Jeans so I tend to find some girls are really more into those shops or they aren't depending on whether their a mainly jeans girl or not.
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #10 on: July 24, 2018, 02:59:18 PM »
The photos should be pleasant to your eye. If you want to die for it, then this girl is worth attention ;D

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #11 on: July 24, 2018, 03:42:47 PM »
It would be best if the woman included one up to date, very clear pic of her standing up wearing only bra and panties (OK bikini would do also).

This would go a long way toward avoiding disappointment for the man several months down the road.

Even better would be two pictures, a la arrest photos, so we could see a side view also.
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #12 on: July 24, 2018, 03:59:41 PM »
By the same token, a man should send a woman a notarized copy of his investment portfolio and current bank account, again, to avoid disappointment several months, or years, down the road.
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #13 on: July 24, 2018, 06:22:33 PM »
By the same token, a man should send a woman a notarized copy of his investment portfolio and current bank account, again, to avoid disappointment several months, or years, down the road.

One can not help but to note the irony of your tagline in contrast to your post.

I don't know how to notarize Grandma's set of silver that's buried in the garden.  Should I just tell a girl I am a homeless bum and surprise her with the silver later?  God brought me into the world as he intended me, naked, penniless, and hungry.  She'll still love me like that, won't she?

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #14 on: July 24, 2018, 06:59:48 PM »
It would be best if the woman included one up to date, very clear pic of her standing up wearing only bra and panties (OK bikini would do also).

This would go a long way toward avoiding disappointment for the man several months down the road.

Even better would be two pictures, a la arrest photos, so we could see a side view also.

Europeans have also told me that Americans seem to be very concerned with the state of our teeth and the expense of fixing dental work, teeth cleaning, teeth whitening, etc.

Perhaps women on Russian dating sites could also include detailed photos of her teeth? It probably wouldn't be too difficult for her to take photos of her molars, uppers and lowers, to determine if she needs dental work done. At a minimum a photo with her smiling and teeth exposed. After all dental work is expensive in the US.

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #15 on: July 24, 2018, 09:31:21 PM »
Europeans have also told me that Americans seem to be very concerned with the state of our teeth and the expense of fixing dental work, teeth cleaning, teeth whitening, etc.

Perhaps women on Russian dating sites could also include detailed photos of her teeth? It probably wouldn't be too difficult for her to take photos of her molars, uppers and lowers, to determine if she needs dental work done. At a minimum a photo with her smiling and teeth exposed. After all dental work is expensive in the US.

Yes, this is a very good idea also.
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #16 on: July 24, 2018, 09:45:42 PM »
Firstly, WELCOME to Naj.julyia !

Great thread and some of the tongue in cheek comments are probably quite serious ? ....

I'd have always said 'avoid' the women with lots of bikini photos...

Funny how someone can change your mind ...


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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #17 on: July 25, 2018, 02:41:56 AM »
One can not help but to note the irony of your tagline in contrast to your post.

I don't know how to notarize Grandma's set of silver that's buried in the garden.  Should I just tell a girl I am a homeless bum and surprise her with the silver later?  God brought me into the world as he intended me, naked, penniless, and hungry.  She'll still love me like that, won't she?

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #18 on: July 25, 2018, 03:19:25 AM »
Could mean that she is obessive over having her photo taken a lot Dave. It was kind of weird for me, but apparently a lot of girls are like that and I have seen a fair amount of posing from girls when in Odessa.

I like a nice array of photos, a pro one or two is ok but must be non pro photos in there also. Facial photos & full bod ones are nice also. Sometimes you get where she looks nice in a few then see one where the lighting is not ramped up and she can look terrible so a good few photos can tell a lot I think.

I'm also not at all keen on women that dye their hair different colours. I nearly always prefer natural and like to know what I am dealing with, a natural blonde, brunette, etc.

If she is posing on a catwalk/in front of fashion brand advertising this is a likely sign that she will be high maintenance. These girls I personally just avoid these days, I'm done with all of that.

Would just add that if she is into wearing either dresses, skirts or jeans/trousers her preference is likely to feature a fair bit in photos. In Ukraine they have shops that just specialize in Jeans so I tend to find some girls are really more into those shops or they aren't depending on whether their a mainly jeans girl or not.
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #19 on: July 25, 2018, 05:46:53 AM »
Dostoevsky was not referring to anything as pedestrian as physical attributes.

Or full asset disclosure?

Late night, Bo?  Normally you're a pretty sharp gal, but that went right over your head.

I was pointing out that your post about asset disclosure (and ML's about pics) implied that love was not a part of international relationships, and was strictly a business arrangement.  (Besides, everyone knows that the most important pic is the pic of her mother so you know what the lady will look like in 25 years.  Oh wait, most of these guys aren't going to be around in 25 years.)

While tongue-in-cheek, both of your posts did contain a lot of truth.  Men want youth and beauty (fertile eggs and/or trophy wife) and women want a man capable of supporting them and their child[ren].  Love unfortunately often gets cast by the wayside.

[note to Trench: Did you catch that part about the mother-infant dyad? Women are not looking for a man who can support just her, but a man who can support her and her future infant child.]

Perhaps this begs a bigger question?  Does love exist in relationships between Western men and FSU ladies?  Or are these marriages simply business relationships?

Or is it something even more specific?  Is it first marriages that pursue love, and second or subsequent marriages that are business relationships? (Often the Western/FSU marriages are people beyond the childbearing years, which is the traditional reason for marriage to begin with.  So what exactly are the reasons for middle age and later marriages?)  Are first marriages idealistic and pursuing love, but once those rose colored glasses have been broken by failed relationships and divorce, do people then pursue relationships which are more akin to business relationships?  Something shallow which just maintains the appearance of something deeper?

Does love even exist anymore?

And notarized asset disclosure?  That suggests that no trust is present, if one needs a 3rd party guarantee of honesty.  Even ML recognized that the lady needed to keep a token amount of clothes on - you have to leave a little bit to the imagination.  (I advocate understating one's assets, both financial and physical.  That makes it all the much better when they are finally and privately revealed.)

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #20 on: July 25, 2018, 11:00:12 AM »
It would be best if the woman included one up to date, very clear pic of her standing up wearing only bra and panties (OK bikini would do also).

This would go a long way toward avoiding disappointment for the man several months down the road.

Even better would be two pictures, a la arrest photos, so we could see a side view also.

Especially on a cold windy day! So the everything could be properly evaluated.

However, the OP asked about first communication and most girls won't send
photos of the pointer sisters to a guy they don't know.

If you actually receive photos of side boob1,2, underboob3 or the
pointer sisters 4 in the original letter, you are probably corresponding with a dude.

1. http://i.pinimg.com/originals/5f/f1/5e/5ff15e79fad06ed4934a82a4b3265f8a.jpg
2. http://i.pinimg.com/originals/b9/ab/a7/b9aba72f02f7cca53942b2df1743967e.jpg
3. http://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/79/590x/Kendall-Jenner-flashed-some-serious-underboob-829447.jpg
4. http://www.thesun.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2016/03/2317084.main_image.jpg?strip=all

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #21 on: May 09, 2019, 02:04:49 PM »
It matters in the sense that you can feed it to Goggle Images/TinEye and see if she appears anywhere else ;).

Also Yandex, Baidu, and Bing Images.
I have had good luck with Yandex Images catching pics stolen from FSU fashion sites that the other image searches missed.
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #22 on: May 09, 2019, 02:36:00 PM »
It is best if she sends current pictures.
One woman I was writing to many years ago had sent me a lot of pics, one or two with each message. I knew some of them were older pics, so I asked if she had a current one.  When she obliged me, I nearly fell out of my chair. Ms. Smoking Hot's fire had went out a couple of decades ago.
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #23 on: May 10, 2019, 11:11:46 PM »
Well, on checking this thread NO 'Russian' lady has answered the OP and I am as quilty as the other guys who have.

Only Boethius qualifies and Trench's 'advice' should come with a one has to be able to pull a Russian woman ...any woman to try to post like one knows....:headslap:



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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #24 on: May 10, 2019, 11:36:53 PM »
Well, on checking this thread NO 'Russian' lady has answered the OP and I am as quilty as the other guys who have.

 

Did you really check this thread properly? You can apologize to reply #6.
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #25 on: May 11, 2019, 01:58:12 AM »
Did you really check this thread properly? You can apologize to reply #6.

I apologiSe 
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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #26 on: June 07, 2019, 04:42:24 PM »
If you are being sent near naked pictures from someone you have just started communicating with then you have reason to be concerned. Normal people donít do that.
Itís more than likely Boris on the other end.

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #27 on: June 07, 2019, 04:42:56 PM »
Does the type of picture a woman sends matter when first communicating ? What is wearing,etc.

If shes sending naked pics it's best to post them here for us to judge...LMAO

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The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #28 on: June 09, 2019, 12:29:21 PM »
By the same token, a man should send a woman a notarized copy of his investment portfolio and current bank account, again, to avoid disappointment several months, or years, down the road.

I always advise sending a photo of your mothers basement and
the highest stack of pizza boxes you've managed to build. My
advice is somewhat hypocritical since my Mom's house is built
on a slab, hence no basement.

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Re: The type of pictures a woman sends matter ?
« Reply #29 on: June 09, 2019, 03:00:40 PM »
Considering how many guys ask to SEE bikini pics and feel the need to post genitial images...many FSU must be slapping their foreheads
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