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How to Visit Many without lying?
« Reply #550 on: April 12, 2019, 02:32:14 PM »
The taxi money is a MOB industry thing.  . . . A good girl doesn't ask for money.


No, that's incorrect.


A UM will always either escort his date home, or give her taxi money.  That's been the case since my MIL's time.  She may not have money, and Kyiv, for example, is a far less safe city than it was when I lived there.


Before we married, the better half always escorted dates home, but he gave female friends who had visited money for cab fare.  It's not considered a "big deal" there. 


krimster's advice on this was the best.


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« Reply #551 on: April 12, 2019, 05:55:24 PM »
Lesson #1 Dump a girl as soon as you see a character flaw or discover
this is not the future Mrs _______________ (your name here)

Lesson #2 Don't chase 20 something girls. 
If you are 30 then maybe 25 and up.

Lesson #3 Avoid prodaters by making your own arrangements, picking the venues,
pursuing girls outside the MOB hotbed and not opening your wallet to win over a girl.

In addition to this, always ask yourself the question - if this woman is so good why hasn't a local guy snapped her up? There's often a very good reason why UM shun them.

I'd also suggest that if you spend 2-3 weeks in Ukraine again that you visit one or two other cities (or go to Russia instead). In the world of dating Kyiv is like a den of thieves with garottes just around the corner with your name on it if you're not street smart.  You've survived to tell the tale but don't be marked again.

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« Reply #552 on: April 12, 2019, 06:11:21 PM »
if you believe that your success is controlled by outside sources
then you believe that about failure as well
and thatís what youíll blame

people who believe events in their life derive primarily from their own actions tend to praise or blame themselves and their abilities as opposed to blaming others

based on mr beards report
we see which side of THAT sandwich he put the butter on...

вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

вот как я могу создать американскую личность
Я могу взять напрокат

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« Reply #553 on: April 12, 2019, 06:17:46 PM »
In addition to this, always ask yourself the question - if this woman is so good why hasn't a local guy snapped her up? There's often a very good reason why UM shun them.

I knew a UW who was kind, attractive (not beautiful, but very attractive), and shy.  She was sort of intellectual.  Had never even dated at the age of 28, because she just didn't put herself "out" there.

Don't jump to conclusions.  If a woman is really beautiful, even some lunk headed UM will marry her, even if she has a poor character.  I've seen that more often than I care to state.

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Re: How to Visit Many without lying?
« Reply #554 on: April 12, 2019, 11:40:30 PM »
We simply cannot generalise about people who haven't married - or after a failed relationship - do not want to remarry

Aside of SC - I know several FSU women in the their late 40's and early 50's that are attractive, have good figures and attract guys 20 or more years younger

They would rather live alone and be independent ...   It will take one lucky guy to get them to change their minds ..

They aren't perfect - we all have 'expectations' and different likes / desires ..and the longer one lives as one,the harder it becomes to be patient, to share




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Re: How to Visit Many without lying?
« Reply #555 on: April 13, 2019, 07:18:03 AM »
Hi. I think many of dating sites ar fake. Whats the best way tonarry an ukerainian or russian gursll.

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Re: How to Visit Many without lying?
« Reply #556 on: April 13, 2019, 07:37:51 AM »
Fdating.com seems to be what most of the recent guys who are looking/ travelling use (including myself). Itís free and although you find the occasional scammer, almost all of the women I talked to seemed genuine.

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Re: How to Visit Many without lying?
« Reply #557 on: April 13, 2019, 11:42:46 AM »


They would rather live alone and be independent ...   It will take one lucky guy to get them to change their minds ..

I think it will be an 'unlucky' guy that gets them to give him a try.
Winston Churchill.  ďThe best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.Ē

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Re: How to Visit Many without lying?
« Reply #558 on: April 14, 2019, 12:53:24 AM »
I think it will be an 'unlucky' guy that gets them to give him a try.

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Re: How to Visit Many without lying?
« Reply #559 on: April 14, 2019, 07:21:24 AM »
I think it will be an 'unlucky' guy that gets them to give him a try.


Gosh, I really know what you mean!

 

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