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What is your net worth in USD - - - Assets minus liabilities - redu

Less than $10,000
$10,001 to $100,000
100,001 to $300,000
$300,001 to $500,000
$500,001 to $1,000,000
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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #25 on: November 29, 2018, 01:01:22 PM »
Does wealth matter to prospective brides?

An ability to provide does matter.   
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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #26 on: November 29, 2018, 02:55:42 PM »
BTW love Heinlein. 

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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #27 on: November 30, 2018, 09:08:07 PM »
Does wealth matter to prospective brides?

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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #28 on: December 01, 2018, 07:32:51 PM »
Does youth and beauty matter to prospective husbands?

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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #29 on: December 01, 2018, 07:56:16 PM »
Does wealth matter to prospective brides?

As a lawyer let me give some free legal advice. If the bride or groom has money a prenup is a good idea. If either has a lot of money a prenup is a great idea. If either has a lot of money and children from a past relationship a prenup is pretty much mandatory.

Wealth or lack of matters to prospective brides and grooms. Would you want to marry someone and find out they have hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt?

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What is your Net Worth in USD - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #30 on: April 14, 2019, 01:36:36 PM »

What's  far more important and what you're probably lacking, is a disposable income.


It's no good owing a house if you can't feed your kids or dress your wife in seductive attire  ;)



Erm... I'd say it's no good having a wife who can't dress herself the way she wants.


...and having a house is always good, IMO.  :rolleyes:
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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #31 on: April 14, 2019, 03:03:21 PM »

As a lawyer let me give some free legal advice. If the bride or groom has money a prenup is a good idea. If either has a lot of money a prenup is a great idea. If either has a lot of money and children from a past relationship a prenup is pretty much mandatory.


I'd say in any case prenup is a good idea.



Wealth or lack of matters to prospective brides and grooms. Would you want to marry someone and find out they have hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt?
Surely not.

A question is: at what stage of relationship would you consider discussing of prenup appropriate?
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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #32 on: April 14, 2019, 06:01:55 PM »
A question is: at what stage of relationship would you consider discussing of prenup appropriate?

After you're engaged. 

Most men aren't going to balk at a prenup, so I don't think it's really an issue for a woman to introduce.

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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #33 on: April 14, 2019, 10:48:53 PM »
A question is: at what stage of relationship would you consider discussing of prenup appropriate?

A few days after the engagement, well before the wedding announcements are sent.
Nobody wants to be alone at the alter if their partner disagrees.
Also the courts may throw the prenup out if  the parties don't have enough time for adequate review and legal consul.

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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #34 on: April 15, 2019, 12:58:41 AM »
After you're engaged. 


Don't you think that shortly before engagement would be wiser?  :rolleyes:


After all, knowing what his \ her partner owns - and how he \ she plans to manage income - can be a decision making factor in saying "yes" (or "no"...)
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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #35 on: April 15, 2019, 03:35:34 AM »
I detest prenups..period


To me - if you want one - you shouldn't be getting married ... 

This is from someone who had more to lose

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Right time for discussing the prenup
« Reply #36 on: April 15, 2019, 03:49:20 AM »
To me - if you want one - you shouldn't be getting married ... 


To me - if you are wise - you discuss the terms of the deal while ashore, before starting to swim.
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Re: Right time for discussing the prenup
« Reply #37 on: April 15, 2019, 04:05:32 AM »

To me - if you are wise - you discuss the terms of the deal while ashore, before starting to swim.

The 'deal' is all that I have is yours to share, my dear ..  I do not care if you are rich or poor ;)

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Re: Right time for discussing the prenup
« Reply #38 on: April 15, 2019, 05:06:51 AM »
The 'deal' is all that I have is yours to share, my dear...  I do not care if you are rich or poor ;)


Having heard something about Moby's past business practices with some satellite TV, this "all I have is yours to share" might look like a lot of shared trouble in the future  :rolleyes:
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Re: Right time for discussing the prenup
« Reply #39 on: April 15, 2019, 05:22:07 AM »

Having heard something about Moby's past business practices with some satellite TV, this "all I have is yours to share" might look like a lot of shared trouble in the future  :rolleyes:
:ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL:

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« Reply #40 on: April 15, 2019, 06:01:06 AM »

Having heard something about Moby's past business practices with some satellite TV, this "all I have is yours to share" might look like a lot of shared trouble in the future  :rolleyes:

Tut, tut, 'Olya'

The kind  financial institution that put me in the crap has compensated me - not nearly enough - to cover the gossip of  internet loons who still think they 'know my life better'...




Here's a 'clue' ..

That 'Sat TV firm' is STILL a client and I am a client of theirs - we do well from each other... 





There was me thinking you liked to impress with your wit  and intelligence ?...



Perhaps, it's time to concentrate on finding a soul mate - as the 'bating' is making you a mite nasty ..   ?










« Last Edit: April 15, 2019, 06:10:34 AM by msmob »

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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #41 on: April 15, 2019, 07:25:12 AM »
"as the 'bating' is making you a mite nasty ..   ?"

I wonder if the nastiness is what caused her to be single
or a result of it....

I think it's a crime for Russian women NOT to have sex
but it's not a serious crime
more like a "misdemeanor"
because the more they miss it, "de meaner" they get
my wife is just the sweetest cheeriest woman ever (draw your own conclusion)
« Last Edit: April 15, 2019, 07:31:37 AM by krimster2 »
вы думаете, что любой из этих людей, даже российских, подозревает, что я русский?

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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #42 on: April 15, 2019, 09:46:03 AM »
Don't you think that shortly before engagement would be wiser?  :rolleyes: 

No.

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After all, knowing what his \ her partner owns - and how he \ she plans to manage income - can be a decision making factor in saying "yes" (or "no"...)

Posted like someone who has never been married.


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« Last Edit: April 15, 2019, 10:02:32 AM by Boethius »
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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #43 on: April 15, 2019, 10:31:53 AM »
I detest prenups..period.
To me - if you want one - you shouldn't be getting married ... 
This is from someone who had more to lose>

Who wrote this earlier?

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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #44 on: April 15, 2019, 11:03:07 AM »
Who wrote this earlier?

"I cannot vote as minus options are not included ))"

Of course ..that's because I didn't sign prenups ;)


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Re: Right time for discussing the prenup
« Reply #45 on: April 15, 2019, 11:43:54 AM »
:ROFL: :ROFL: :ROFL:

Mobys fame precedes him.

Dear Olga, you have a fantastically sharp wit. Love it.
You’re one of my favourite posters so it’s nice to see you here and elsewhere.


Dear John, thank you so much for complimenting my writing skills.


Your appreciation is all the more important for me because during the last 8-9 years I was communicating mainly in German, and have completely forgotten English.  :rolleyes:
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« Reply #46 on: April 15, 2019, 11:49:31 AM »

Tut, tut, 'Olya'


Да тут, тут я :rolleyes:

The kind  financial institution that put me in the crap has compensated me - not nearly enough - to cover the gossip of  internet loons who still think they 'know my life better'...

:popcorn:

There was me thinking you liked to impress with your wit and intelligence?


To tell the truth, impressing anyone with anything has never been my main aim. But if you say so...


Perhaps, it's time to concentrate on finding a soul mate - as the 'bating' is making you a mite nasty?
Though I am not really a multi-tasking genius, messaging guys from fdating.com and posting on a couple of forums can be done within the timeframe of the single day... even by me. But thank you very much indeed for caring about my marital status and emotional balance  ;)
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What is your Net Worth in USD - Assets minus Liabilities - reduced
« Reply #47 on: April 15, 2019, 11:52:53 AM »
No.
Posted like someone who has never been married.


I guess 2TallBill's sister might disagree with you (referring to a recent discussion on "due diligence vs. staking" in a parallel universe...)
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Re: What is your Net Worth in USD - - - Assets minus Liabilities - redu
« Reply #48 on: April 15, 2019, 12:17:47 PM »
Stalking, not staking.  "To stake" = marking an area to claim ownership, or to assertively defend a position.

I went to read Bill's post, and it doesn't negate what I posted.  She is prescreening potential suitors.  Would I do that?  No.  But, I've been with my husband for well over half of my life, before the days of google.  Furthermore, from the day I met my husband, I knew we would marry, and I also knew there would never be another man for me, no matter what happened.   I can't blame women over, say, 35, doing this when they first meet a man.  Bill's sister is doing this before she even dates the man, I assume, so she doesn't waste time with ne'er do wells.  That's far different from bringing up a prenup on the excuse you want to know how a partner will spend.  If you are at the stage of discussing prenups, you should already have an idea of your partner's assets, and know how he/she handles money.

If you bring up a prenup before a relationship is serious, you are going to scare many WM away as some sort of desperate to be bride.


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« Reply #49 on: April 15, 2019, 12:34:47 PM »
Bla bla bla, excuses, more bla bla bla..


Olya,

A simple, ''DUH, indeed I am busted for posting bollox, I know f all about''', would have sufficed..

You 'welfare' was not my concern....Your 'Repuation', perhaps..?...

 

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