The new guy

[BillyB]

This isnt the USA, where you have to sell yourself to win over a beautiful lady, she will be be trying to win you over

Most men who go to the FSU to meet a woman remain single after meeting her. It's not a slam dunk where the women are so desperate to marry the first loser to come along.

[GenMish]

Most men who go to the FSU to meet a woman remain single after meeting her. It's not a slam dunk where the women are so desperate to marry the first loser to come along.

I would argue that most serious men are remaining single because they want to, and not that they are 'losers.'

In fact, it looks like shopping a FSU bride has become a hobby for many men especially from Europe. FSU women are smart, they can tell the hobbyist from a serious man. The OP is clearly serious. I think the OP is the decision maker in this upcoming meeting, and the Ukrainian lady will be trying to win him over


Be rational Billy, the OP puts his left nut on the line once the K1 process begins. The OP has to be sold on her. If you didn't notice, he thinks there isn't more risk dating a FSU woman than an American one. Date an American girl, you dump her anytime you want with little or no cost. That isn't so with a K1 Visa. Once he realizes the process, he will understand how high the risk is and important it is for him to be sure


imo- The burden to win over is on her, not him