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Online SteveInBoston

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Re: Visiting a Ukrainian girl, need advice
« Reply #25 on: June 10, 2019, 03:54:23 PM »
Krim,

He already visited her in May, you dingbat.  Met her dad even.  Next week will be his second trip.


Datingabroad,

Hope it keeps going well.  In autumn or winter have her come visit you.
« Last Edit: June 10, 2019, 04:30:28 PM by SteveInBoston »

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Re: Visiting a Ukrainian girl, need advice
« Reply #26 on: June 10, 2019, 04:20:19 PM »
he didn't say nuffin about kissin her, so I assumed he had not...
was that an incorrect assumption?
I never know with you guys whether to assume the best or the worst
usually, it's the worst, so that's what I went with...

two weeks...
i've usually completed the 64 steps of the Dharma, a.k.a. Kama Sutra by then...
you guys are virgins in comparison...


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Re: Visiting an ukrainian girl, need advice
« Reply #27 on: June 10, 2019, 07:39:57 PM »

then...after 3 days (important...3 days! not 2 not 4!)


Oh sheeeeet !!!

To think how I screwed up on days 1, 2, 4, 5, etc. !!!
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Re: Visiting a Ukrainian girl, need advice
« Reply #28 on: June 10, 2019, 07:44:44 PM »
i've usually completed the 64 steps of the Dharma, a.k.a. Kama Sutra by then...
you guys are virgins in comparison...

There are actually only about 6 or so positions.
The rest are just slight modifications.

One gal told me that her young husband came home from University (they were both still students) with mimeo copies of Kama Sutra.

She was game for everything . . . which lead to him dropping her on her head in trying one position.
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Re: Visiting a Ukrainian girl, need advice
« Reply #29 on: June 10, 2019, 08:39:31 PM »
those whose relationships blow up
dwelleth in denial

a marriage cannot EVER survive hostility
once you are hostile to your spouse
your marriage is done for...

so whatever it is about your spouse
that pissed you off so much
if you can’t live with it or get it under control
then walk away...

I’ve done this a BUNCH OF TIMES with girl friends
and yes, IT WAS A HUGE PAIN IN THE ASS TO GO THROUGH
but the alternative, as you found out, is 100 times worse
and eventually, you will find someone you CAN connect with
and over time, the connection just get stronger and stronger...
I have achieved relationship Nirvana
and live in a glorious state of bliss and calm
but it took me a lot of hard work
to train my wife to get her to behave this way
because of the PTSD culture she came from
I just became a shock absorber, and made sure she never, never felt even the slightest disturbance
and in return my wife became a very specialized person
someone who could reach into my mind
extract my basest sexual fantasy
improve on it tremendously
and then slowly present it back to me...
hmmm, delicious.....
and this was the second phase of our relationship
we are now probably on phase 12

ML,
as I’m sure you know, the Kama Sutra is totally “OLD SKOOL”
if you’re like me, you passed through that phase in the first year of your marriage
and moved on to more esoteric practices

I call them “sex hacks”
and I've gotten pretty good at it


« Last Edit: June 11, 2019, 08:35:59 AM by krimster2 »

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Re: Visiting a Ukrainian girl, need advice
« Reply #30 on: June 11, 2019, 05:42:18 AM »
Ah well, at least one lady has responded ;)
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