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Online 2tallbill

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« on: November 16, 2019, 11:21:34 AM »
You even cant imaging how man can be parasite and
waste time on barren messaging asking attention and
so on and nothing more.

Aha!

You've crossed paths with a few Keyboard Romeos.
You should come up with a few questions asked early on
when exchanging messages to determine who is sincere
and who is playing on the computer in their mothers
basement.

Such as
Do you have a passport? When does it expire?
What foreign countries have you visited?
When can you leave?
How much vacation per year do you get at your job?
What is your favorite video game?

I'm sure that others here can suggest questions as well.
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If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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« Reply #1 on: November 17, 2019, 10:41:28 AM »
I expected others to join in but I was obviously wrong.

There are all sorts of men who like the idea of an FSUW
wife/girlfriend but will never actually get on a plane.
How do you figure out who is serious and who is only
interested in a fantasy?

I've never had a problem convincing a woman that I would
get on a plane to visit her.
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Nano's thread
« Reply #2 on: November 17, 2019, 11:47:31 AM »
I expected others to join in but I was obviously wrong.

There are all sorts of men who like the idea of an FSUW
wife/girlfriend but will never actually get on a plane.
How do you figure out who is serious and who is only
interested in a fantasy?

I've never had a problem convincing a woman that I would
get on a plane to visit her.

I recall with the first girl I met in Kiev I decided after about two Skype's and a month's worth of messaging to go. I think she was kind of moving the discussion in the direction of that, not directly asking but I knew at the time it was time to make my move or risk losing her interest and her moving on. It had just got to that point in our discussions that to go on discussing stuff would just be filling time aimlessly.

Other girls I have decided after one Skype session, if I had a good feeling that there might be chemistry and the Skype went well, i.e she did not look disinterested, no awkward conversation, etc.

One girl I went to see just through messaging though that was not the best move I ever made as I'm sure you recall 2tallbill, lol.

Anyway, I guess I would say to Nano is that after a few messages get them to Skype if you seem to like them. Give it 2-3 Skype's then start motioning in conversation about visiting. If they won't jump at this hurdle then they probably won't and you're probably better trying another guy.

I would say that by the same token don't expect guys to travel thousands of miles on the back of little messaging, etc. I've had it where girls who are anxious to get to the point with guys take it too far the other way and expect him to travel at the drop of a hat. For most guys it would be silly just for him travel as ever girl says so. A guy must also feel motivated enough that he wants to get up our of his chair and meet the girl, so looking decent and well toned can help here.
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