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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #75 on: May 16, 2020, 11:01:20 PM »
I don't know how many times fellow posters tell this guy, but it doesn't seem to sink in.   Go to Elena's models.   Go to FDating.  These are not ripoff sites.   You'd be able to create an online relationship with these women having so much time on their hands.   

But pay-per-view and pay-per-chats are simply rip offs whereby women (and some men operating women's profiles) are there solely for your money.

Evven though you give me good advice in that I should try Elenas models and other good sites you have found
(and it is appreciated  :clapping: :clapping:)
it's funny to me that the first thing I find about this FDating site is that it is filled with scammers! Just as much
as you say about your so called PPL ukranian marriage agency !!
And I agree with the poster of this review as going to just any dating site that is free sets you up to finding
just about ANYBODY there, the good ones and the bad ones, even the WORST ones. In this case, the scammers.
I feel that paying for a membership or the sole act of having to pay for something makes it more valuable and to the
eyes of most ladies(note that I use "most")  it gives them the impression that you are more serious in your intention
of meeting a woman. Not that it is a guarantee of anything, like many things in life of course, but at least they get
an idea about you and your resources.
I know this can be a topic of great controversy for most people, so I'll leave it like that, just check out the
attached picture.
Cheers
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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #76 on: May 16, 2020, 11:05:16 PM »
Long ago, one member here  dated an agency girl who said she or another agency girl(can't remember) carried dozens of phones with her everywhere she goes. On each phone was a label with the girl's name she's supposed to answer for. If you buy the contact info and you get a girl to respond, don't break out the champagne. They have figured out ways to keep guys on the hook longer. There are much better/productive ways to spend your time. Just saying.

Thanks for the encouragement ... :(     :-[ 😖
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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #77 on: May 17, 2020, 12:54:22 AM »
Evven though you give me good advice in that I should try Elenas models and other good sites you have found
(and it is appreciated  :clapping: :clapping: )
it's funny to me that the first thing I find about this FDating site is that it is filled with scammers! Just as much
as you say about your so called PPL ukranian marriage agency !!
And I agree with the poster of this review as going to just any dating site that is free sets you up to finding
just about ANYBODY there, the good ones and the bad ones, even the WORST ones. In this case, the scammers.
I feel that paying for a membership or the sole act of having to pay for something makes it more valuable and to the
eyes of most ladies(note that I use "most")  it gives them the impression that you are more serious in your intention
of meeting a woman. Not that it is a guarantee of anything, like many things in life of course, but at least they get
an idea about you and your resources.
I know this can be a topic of great controversy for most people, so I'll leave it like that, just check out the
attached picture.
Cheers
IMHO scammers are not the worst ones. Most are pretty obvious so that only the stupidity of the men allows them to obtain money.Professional daters are worse, they can act along to waste a lot more time and money than any scammer.When you evaluate an agency do not look at the procedure for men only but the whole business model. Paying for membership just allows the agency a stable income, it does nothing for the seriousness of the agency, the women or the men.If the business model is on exchanging contact information or additional services at least they need some constant stream of work to obtain money.But the best way is to see if the women need to pay an entrance fee. What? Woman paying? Yes. Serious women often use a local agency to weed out the letters from men they are not interested in, and to translate for them. And pay for that.This will show if there is genuine work done and the agency is not just a cash cow.
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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #78 on: May 23, 2020, 12:13:44 AM »
Hey guys, new update on this site. Turns out Victoriya Club.com shares many of the girls
ladadate has in their "inventory"!
Look at this heavily photoshopped photo on the LEFT. The girl is obviously the same one
and you can clearly see that the one on the RIGHT, the real photo, looks much older and
her chin looks more "manly". The left photo has a younger looking girl, finer facial features
and perhaps a bit whiter. The hair on the left also looks different, you can see a difference
in color and lastly look at the hair strands in between the fingers on the photo on the LEFT.
Where did they get those transparencies?
NOTE Im not implying LADA doesn't use photoshop as well , it just happens that this particular
lady was left untouched by the photoshoppers at lada and was heavily worked at Victoriya.

Im attaching another lady from LADA. This blonde is heavily photoshopped to give a false impression
of her ... intelligence!
Look at the photos and the huge difference in volumes.
I'd like to know if these girls are aware of how their profiles are being displayed. Seems to me that
these agencies are more like escort services, the pictures looks nothing like the girl displayed
on the websites!

And last but not least, look at this other beauty. It seems as if a bra of some sort was photoshopped
over her naked breasts. It takes a bit of practice watching hundreds of these pictures but when
you finally get it, no one can fool you with FAKE pictures!!
Life won't get easier. You just have to get stronger.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #79 on: May 23, 2020, 12:23:22 AM »
Hmm, someone needs to spend more time looking on sites with women seeking a partner, rather than analysing ( and failing) on what's 'photoshopped'  ;)

I realise you may have more time on your hands, possibly, but this 'obsession' is unhealthy .

I have found girls who didn't know about the photos being used of them and they were mostly five or more years out of date ( like your nude model ) 

That should be a BIG clue to search elsewhere.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #80 on: May 23, 2020, 06:07:16 AM »
iloveuk,
You seem to be falling into a trap many before you have. It appears you are obsessing over pretty pictures and dating sites much like a kid peering through the window at a candy store. Photos and dating sites, nefarious and legitimate are simply window dressing and mean exactly dick. Get past that, start writing to the women that interest you. Contact and writing is the first step in developing a relationship. A relationship that really doesn't exist until you get on a plane and go meet them.

You also seem to be drawn in by the PPL sites, beware as they are full of vipers and traps to separate you from your money. They are counting on you doing exactly as you seem to be doing, obsessing over the pretty pictures.

BTW, while they all appear photo shopped.  That is not a shopped bra

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #81 on: May 23, 2020, 06:23:11 AM »
When Mr Mistake reinforces and agrees with ALL all I just said, beforehand .. it's sl. worrying   :welcome:

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #82 on: May 23, 2020, 06:41:51 AM »
When Mr Mistake reinforces and agrees with ALL all I just said, beforehand .. it's sl. worrying   :welcome:

I am merely pointing out to iloveuk the obvious.

Quit trolling

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #83 on: May 23, 2020, 07:03:33 AM »
There was a large element of humour implied, Mr Mistake...

'Sorry' if you filters are askew


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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #84 on: May 23, 2020, 09:05:50 AM »

Good detective work iloveukrayinkas but we already know those sites photoshop their girls to suck suckers in. That is why we don't recommend those sites. There are real girls elsewhere that are looking for quality men. Quality men would not be spending much of their time at those sites once they spot or are told of the deception.
Fund the audits, spread the word and educate people, write your politicians and other elected officials. Stay active in the fight to save our country. Over 220 generals and admirals say we are in a fight for our survival like no other time since 1776.

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #85 on: May 23, 2020, 06:21:26 PM »
Evven though you give me good advice in that I should try Elenas models and other good sites you have found
(and it is appreciated  :clapping: :clapping:)
it's funny to me that the first thing I find about this FDating site is that it is filled with scammers! Just as much
as you say about your so called PPL ukranian marriage agency !!
And I agree with the poster of this review as going to just any dating site that is free sets you up to finding
just about ANYBODY there, the good ones and the bad ones, even the WORST ones. In this case, the scammers.
I feel that paying for a membership or the sole act of having to pay for something makes it more valuable and to the
eyes of most ladies(note that I use "most")  it gives them the impression that you are more serious in your intention
of meeting a woman. Not that it is a guarantee of anything, like many things in life of course, but at least they get
an idea about you and your resources.
I know this can be a topic of great controversy for most people, so I'll leave it like that, just check out the
attached picture.
Cheers


You seem to be floundering in the easiest stage of this journey...... finding genuine women to correspond with. I’m a newbie too, so I don’t pretend to know a fraction of the other guys who have replied do. Much of what I’ve learnt over the last few years has come from listening to members like them. The biggest lesson is never use PPL, which only leaves you with free and monthly subscription sites, both I’ve used and met genuine women on.

In my opinion as a guy who’s been using FSU dating sites recently and been successful as far as corresponding with lots of honest  women and spending time with several in real life, you’ve made basic mistakes using what’s hands down one the best dating sites to meet genuine FSU women..... fdating. In my experience 95%+ are genuinely looking for a man, with no hidden agenda obvious during the online correspondence stage.

In my time on fdating, I met a handful of visa airfare scammers and probably 50+ women who showed all the right green flags during early correspondence. You will come across more of these scammers in the early 30 age group, but as shadow said ..... what’s the best option? .... organised scamming at a multi million dollar level, or low level scams that you find on every dating site in the world. The scammers you met on fdating are so obvious that it shouldn’t take a second longer to pick they aren’t genuine if they addressed their initial message with “Svetlana the scammer”. You will face bigger obstacles than basic scammers, even when things are going relatively smoothly.

I’ll give you a recent example of how easy fdating is to attract genuine women. I met a fellow countryman of yours in December, who’s the same age as you. He posted on a single fathers site and asked if anyone had real life experience with Russian women. He was besotted with a FSU woman who contacted him on zoosk in the states, but had some concerns because he couldn’t lock her down to video chat. I took one look at her first message and it was obvious he’d spent 3 months chatting everyday to a visa / airfare scammer. He was disappointed, but he now had an interest in meeting a real Russian woman online, so he signed up to fdating. I recruited another member from here and we gave him some advice on the basics and he nailed it in less than a week. He dealt with 2-3 scammers and met approximately 10 genuine women who like my experience, showed solid green flags. One girl in particular, an attractive, petite blonde with an 8 year old son captured his heart. While their online “romance” was a little too intense for two people who had never met, they spent countless hours video chatting, messaging and calling every day, exactly what an honest woman who genuinely likes you does. He’d even spent time talking to her parents and closest friends. If it wasn’t for travel bans they would have spent 2 weeks together earlier this year and I’m certain he would have had a great time with her even if she wasn’t the one.

This is what you haven’t experienced yet and why you’re still playing with PPL sites. There’s something wrong if you have to ask a woman to hold a sign up to see if she’s genuine. A genuine fsu woman has a lot of pride. If you asked one to degrade herself like that, she’d politely tell you to f%ck off and block you. Once you’ve  met a genuine woman, had an online relationship with her and experienced how real FSU women behave online, you’ll realise what a waste of time even just searching for scammers on PPL sites for amusement is. Right now you could be experiencing something amazingly unique, rewarding and real!! compared with what you’ve experienced on PPL sites or even online dating at home. For most first time guys dabbling in FSU dating with some online dating experience, fdating is a wtf life changing moment. The reviews are from men who have made basic mistakes, have problems that make them un-date-able no matter what culture a woman’s from, or have been chasing the unrealistic pretty pictures of prodaters and visa scammers.

You’ve commented that fdating has anybody there...good, bad, worse etc... that’s the best thing with fdating, it’s a realistic cross section of the community like a real dating site should be. You have to find that sparking gem who ticks all your boxes. PPL is just a glossy skin that prevents most guys of breaking through to the real women. On that note, when you meet a real woman it’s not about spending money to find quality women, if you mention you spent money on PPL it’s a red flag against you. Women are aware of the scam industry and the gullible men who fall for it. Obviously you don’t want to look like a gullible man who’s frivolous with his money.

Most competent men are successful on fdating after a little trial and error and find nice genuine women during the online stage.... If you’re putting in a genuine effort and being realistic in the women you’re messaging (women who don’t look like those on PPL sites), but having no luck, you need to change what you’re doing or give up and date at home.

Fdating is as easy as it gets when it comes to meeting  genuine FSU women. I’m an average middle aged guy.....If I signed up now, I’d be chatting with an attractive, intelligent honest women in less than an hour and that’s no exaggeration. 

« Last Edit: May 23, 2020, 08:48:21 PM by Davo »

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #86 on: June 01, 2020, 08:33:15 PM »
I mean, I'm aware I'm still talking about this website knowing that there are some red flags
with many of the women's profiles that shouldn't be ignored. At this stage I was just pointing
out my discoveries, as one of the other members, I don't recall who exactly, asked to keep him posted
on my experience or with whatever my results were on this site.
For some reason I feel I'm being bashed and I was even told I "have this obsession" with the site in question
just for posting that last post which I had already researched
about a month ago and I wanted to share it with the other members who would be interested !
I mean, is this "PPL Shaming"? Anyway,  i'ts not like I'm obsessed with the PPL site or any other
site in that regard!
But what if I liked a particular lady on the site and the girl has 15 videos there(one does) and I want to buy them
all because I enjoy it??
then nobody can tell me not to do it, it's my money anyway, Im in no way affecting anybody elses economy
purchasing those videos or photos if it was the case, even if we suspect they're just models and that it's some sort
of money scheme, then it's my risk.
I'm not discarding any good advice i see here and honestly exploring the sites that the guys have recommended here but anyway
I don't think you can get huge results with just a couple of times you use a site. You have to dedicate some
time there, post some good pictures or get new ones and have patience in your search, just like anything worthwhile in life.
That's pretty much all wanted to write about this so there you go!
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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #87 on: June 01, 2020, 08:54:43 PM »
If only I had £10 for every guy who feels the need to explain why they cannot leave a PPL site behind ...

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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #88 on: June 02, 2020, 04:54:47 AM »
I mean, I'm aware I'm still talking about this website knowing that there are some red flags
with many of the women's profiles that shouldn't be ignored. At this stage I was just pointing
out my discoveries, as one of the other members, I don't recall who exactly, asked to keep him posted
on my experience or with whatever my results were on this site.
For some reason I feel I'm being bashed and I was even told I "have this obsession" with the site in question
just for posting that last post which I had already researched
about a month ago and I wanted to share it with the other members who would be interested !
I mean, is this "PPL Shaming"? Anyway,  i'ts not like I'm obsessed with the PPL site or any other
site in that regard!
But what if I liked a particular lady on the site and the girl has 15 videos there(one does) and I want to buy them
all because I enjoy it??
then nobody can tell me not to do it, it's my money anyway, Im in no way affecting anybody elses economy
purchasing those videos or photos if it was the case, even if we suspect they're just models and that it's some sort
of money scheme, then it's my risk.
I'm not discarding any good advice i see here and honestly exploring the sites that the guys have recommended here but anyway
I don't think you can get huge results with just a couple of times you use a site. You have to dedicate some
time there, post some good pictures or get new ones and have patience in your search, just like anything worthwhile in life.
That's pretty much all wanted to write about this so there you go!

Thank you for sharing.  You seem aware of the risks, which is good.


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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #89 on: June 02, 2020, 05:16:35 AM »
I mean, I'm aware I'm still talking about this website knowing that there are some red flags
with many of the women's profiles that shouldn't be ignored. At this stage I was just pointing
out my discoveries, as one of the other members, I don't recall who exactly, asked to keep him posted
on my experience or with whatever my results were on this site.
For some reason I feel I'm being bashed and I was even told I "have this obsession" with the site in question
just for posting that last post which I had already researched
about a month ago and I wanted to share it with the other members who would be interested !
I mean, is this "PPL Shaming"? Anyway,  i'ts not like I'm obsessed with the PPL site or any other
site in that regard!
But what if I liked a particular lady on the site and the girl has 15 videos there(one does) and I want to buy them
all because I enjoy it??
then nobody can tell me not to do it, it's my money anyway, Im in no way affecting anybody elses economy
purchasing those videos or photos if it was the case, even if we suspect they're just models and that it's some sort
of money scheme, then it's my risk.
I'm not discarding any good advice i see here and honestly exploring the sites that the guys have recommended here but anyway
I don't think you can get huge results with just a couple of times you use a site. You have to dedicate some
time there, post some good pictures or get new ones and have patience in your search, just like anything worthwhile in life.
That's pretty much all wanted to write about this so there you go!
I have mt the owner of a PPL site and exchanged thoughts on the way they operate. Their explanation was simple. 95% of the men on these sites will never plan a visit as all they do is dreaming and wasting money on dreams that will never be fulfilled. This is why they feel it is legitimate to post profiles of women who have no idea their pictures and videos are watched by drooling foreigners.While it is your money, you are keeping this type of industry alive.A scammer is not a lonely (or married) woman making money by writing letters. That is way too romantic view of the business. Scammers and PPL sites that catr to dreamers only are a well organized business  that has a high profit margin. Involved are crime organizations and ruthless businesses who have no care for their paying customers.Your money goes to the owner of the site. If the girl ever registered there you might never know. If all you want is to throw money at videos of girls there are sites where all involved know what it is about.
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Re: LADAdate anyone?
« Reply #90 on: June 02, 2020, 05:54:40 AM »
I mean, I'm aware I'm still talking about this website knowing that there are some red flags
with many of the women's profiles that shouldn't be ignored. At this stage I was just pointing
out my discoveries, as one of the other members, I don't recall who exactly, asked to keep him posted
on my experience or with whatever my results were on this site.
For some reason I feel I'm being bashed and I was even told I "have this obsession" with the site in question
just for posting that last post which I had already researched
about a month ago and I wanted to share it with the other members who would be interested !
I mean, is this "PPL Shaming"? Anyway,  i'ts not like I'm obsessed with the PPL site or any other
site in that regard!
But what if I liked a particular lady on the site and the girl has 15 videos there(one does) and I want to buy them
all because I enjoy it??
then nobody can tell me not to do it, it's my money anyway, Im in no way affecting anybody elses economy
purchasing those videos or photos if it was the case, even if we suspect they're just models and that it's some sort
of money scheme, then it's my risk.
I'm not discarding any good advice i see here and honestly exploring the sites that the guys have recommended here but anyway
I don't think you can get huge results with just a couple of times you use a site. You have to dedicate some
time there, post some good pictures or get new ones and have patience in your search, just like anything worthwhile in life.
That's pretty much all wanted to write about this so there you go!

There's no shaming, from me anyway. With this post you are essentially declaring you're more interested in fueling your fantasies rather than actually living the dream and serious about finding a life partner. You have at it and I'll ignore your future posts

 

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