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Re: Where to bring up Children?
« Reply #175 on: July 05, 2020, 06:21:05 AM »
My parents said the same thing, I say the same thing, I suspect my grandparents probably said much the same - times change, it is what it is but the fundamentals of values don't change too much and if those are instilled in children, they are a better than even chance of surviving most things thrown their way.

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I/O, I have missed your pragmatism.   
 

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Re: Where to bring up Children?
« Reply #176 on: July 05, 2020, 09:31:48 AM »
see the problem you guys are having
is that things are "different now"
and you don't see it yet....
but the old ways will be gone in another year
and that includes, education, jobs, etc....
welcome to the new world order...
at least here in the USA

you kangaroo lovers will hopefully not share our fate
but don't get too close to the roos!!
they ARE dangerous!!

The global economy is now teetering on a precipice in every sector.
up until now, global financialization has optimized profits at the expense of everything else.

financialization has gutted the real economy in an extraction process that concentrates all the gains into the hands of the few at the top of the financialization/globalization pyramid: a winners-take-most economy that has corrupted and distorted all the political and social orders of the USA.

All the critical dynamics--energy, currencies, globalization, debt and financialization--have reached extremes that made destabilization--i.e. a tumble into collapse--inevitable.

I figure we have about a year to go before the REAL collapse begins

I have been getting out of banks and into bonds
and buying as much gold as I can
2 yr t-bill has .15 % yield
3 million $ in T-bills does not even cover the electric bill on a single house!!

if you have rentals, how well is that going to work out with 25% unemployment?
I fully expect one out 4 small businesses to shut their doors in Houston, by this time next year!

how are you going to survive in this environment?
how long before we have mandatory food rationing in the USA?

these are the REAL questions Americans need to start asking themselves...


« Last Edit: July 05, 2020, 11:55:20 AM by krimster2 »

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Re: Where to bring up Children?
« Reply #177 on: July 05, 2020, 11:56:12 AM »
So for me there is probably no other viable alternative than the FSU.

Now the cat is out of the bag, you will only listen to advice that
you can twist into agreeing with your theory.


I could tell them stuff at home to counter any rubbish taught but I
wouldn't want to rely on that either.

There are a few things where you can develop theories, make
proclamations and decisions and be fairly accurate days and
years later.

HOWEVER, living with a woman in marriage and raising children
isn't one of those things. You actually have to experience it to
have a chance to begin figuring it out. You don't even know what
you don't know.

You are speculating on solving the technical issues of time travel
and world peace.

Go back to the beginning and find a good girl who likes you.
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Where to bring up Children?
« Reply #178 on: July 05, 2020, 06:01:03 PM »
In a few more months that period of my life is gonna be over with...
and I have to say goodby to my kids....

who knows WTF is gonna happen in their future....
my future is focused on "livin large" in the apocalypse MFers!

the miracle of technology means my daughters let me talk to people on snapchat who have Corona!
I spoke to three different ones who are all home sick with it!

youngest is 18, oldest is 54
they all say it is like a bad flu

I probably have 50/50 odds of getting it myself by this time next year
yip eeee!


« Last Edit: July 05, 2020, 06:06:04 PM by krimster2 »

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Re: Where to bring up Children?
« Reply #179 on: July 13, 2020, 01:25:12 PM »
FSW associate Western Men as being able to provide a certain lifestyle. In short they mostly all think Western Men all live in a large palace style house, drive a prestige car and bring in big income, lol. Anything that falls short of that on arrival in the country and they'll likely be of to find a guy that can provide that as soon as possible.

This is absolutely untrue.

You will find a wide variety of people in every country. You definitely can meet FSU women whose primary interest is family and not some materialistic cliché like what you wrote.

Maybe what you need to do is to stop projecting such ideas onto other people. Be honest about what you want and realistic about what you expect. Of course, common sense dictates that if you want a family, you should be able to provide for them.

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Re: Where to bring up Children?
« Reply #180 on: July 13, 2020, 01:34:08 PM »
This is absolutely untrue.

NO..it's not ... and if you are agreeing with Trench on anything FSU W ..that's scary  :popcorn:

You will find a wide variety of people in every country. You definitely can meet FSU women whose primary interest is family and not some materialistic cliché like what you wrote.

Now, you're writing without the generalisations that Trench uses

Maybe what you need to do is to stop projecting such ideas onto other people. Be honest about what you want and realistic about what you expect. Of course, common sense dictates that if you want a family, you should be able to provide for them.

'Common sense' and Trench in one sentence  .. ?  :rolleyes:

Trench seems to think doing up a pad in the Welsh valleys will provide enough income to live the good life ?..
We'll be back, EU ..and as a certain 'gentleman' couldn't accept my offer to 'bury the hatchet' .. Don't trust a clueless Californian 'business owner' who cannot even quote me, honestly ..

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Re: Where to bring up Children?
« Reply #181 on: July 13, 2020, 10:51:14 PM »
OMG

Sorry, treddie

You were disagreeing with Trench's ASSerton ...

Don't know how I got that SO wrong


I humbly apologise   ..grovel, grovel !




We'll be back, EU ..and as a certain 'gentleman' couldn't accept my offer to 'bury the hatchet' .. Don't trust a clueless Californian 'business owner' who cannot even quote me, honestly ..

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Re: Where to bring up Children?
« Reply #182 on: July 14, 2020, 10:43:57 PM »
No worries. :) It happens to us all.

 

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