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Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #75 on: July 28, 2020, 08:49:35 AM »
Bill had a network of ladies with whom he chatted on MySpace.

Fact is Bill's VM trip failed...THEN he was blessed in meeting Angel Eyes ...

Moby, why don't you write about something you know AND
that can help others. You claim to be able to find excellent
women for marriage using your prowess in communication.
Why don't you make a list of things that you look for (and
look out for) that help you determine which girl is the girl
to visit?

What do you differently in written communication vs messenger
and webcam. Did you start out trying to communicate with
several? or just a few? How do you determine who to pursue?

I advise keeping it somewhat generic so that the peanut gallery
doesn't get personal.

Udachi!

Bill
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #76 on: July 28, 2020, 09:49:33 AM »
Bill,

Nice move.

Where's that thumbs up thingie?

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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #77 on: July 28, 2020, 10:25:48 AM »
I am first and foremost
a purveyer of sarcasm
who is nincompoop intolerant
however my attitude towards nincompoops
has evolved, and I am beginning to feel some tolerance towards them
maybe one day, I can find some common ground with them
some common thread that connects us that binds our two very different worlds together...

nahhhh... I was only KIDDING!!!!

the famous American philosopher Clint Eastwood once said, “A man’s gotta know his limitations”
these are true words....
for as Shakespeare said, “the fault is not within our stars, it is within us”
those of you with “problems” and who choose not to work on fixing those problems
and think that a “change of venue” might do the trick, are gonna be in for a big disappointment
remember Mr Beard, who struck out in Ukraine?
here’s an example, of who I am talking about

you see, it’s real simple...
if you don’t have something a woman wants, then she simply doesn’t want you at all
so the whole secret of getting what you want from a woman is giving them something they want EVEN MORE!!!
ok...

I won’t go into the subject of “what is it women want” but this isn’t hard to figure out...
to the extant that you are able to provide women “what they want”
is going to be proportional to how much “pooty-tang” you get to see in your life time
and REMEMBER, whoever sees the MOST pooty-tang before they die, WINS!!!
and I am WAY AHEAD of ANY of you!!!!
good luck to whoever comes in a distant second!!
hmmm hmmmmm


« Last Edit: July 28, 2020, 10:45:13 AM by krimster2 »

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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #78 on: July 28, 2020, 02:15:45 PM »
Moby, why don't you write about something you know AND
that can help others.


Moby wants to help! But is it the help a man needs? Check this out.

« Last Edit: July 28, 2020, 02:20:41 PM by BillyB »
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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #79 on: July 28, 2020, 05:52:03 PM »
Moby, why don't you write about something you know AND
that can help others.

Why are YOU so inattentive, Beel?

No long lists..

Know why you are doing this

Learn some Russian

Learn about the sl.differences in FSUW initial expectations

Do your due dilligence from the comfort of your home

Enjoy your time with the ONE lady who stood out.

Backup plans are for guys who don't plan ...





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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #80 on: July 28, 2020, 08:04:31 PM »
Beel
would prefer, and so would I, for you to tell us your approaches for meeting deavotchkas
what does an Oirishman do that might be different from what us yanks would do - which is just pull out our peckers and wave 'em around...

BTW, all my UK male relatives are EXTREMELY SHY and reticent among the ladies
big problem for them in the UK, big lack of confidence, they is just workin class blokes from the Midlands and by Anglo-Saxon standards kinda plain or average lookin
not a big demand for that kinda look over there, unfortunately for them
dramatically different picture when a relative my own age came to visit me in the USA from Rochdale, UK
women were all over him like flies on fresh excrement...
all the local girls wanted to go out with a "British Guy"
because they never saw one before....


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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #81 on: July 28, 2020, 11:17:57 PM »
OK,
Another cluebat...shyness is for ( as Americans say, 'cute cats'...

When I saw a profile of someone I wanted.. I wrote them a short letter as to why I'd like to meet them and that I was deadly serious in looking for a life partner and if she was, too ...we should talk with a view to meeting in person.

1/ Set your target..Be direct
2/ speaking enough Russian to converse and make her laugh
3/  Don't BS.. if you click, get on the plane. The guys who do what they say rise to the top and those who were waiting for their annual leave find their target disappears.

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Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #82 on: July 29, 2020, 10:39:01 AM »
Why should I do something that would actually help
people when it's far easier to express a few trite platitudes
then immediately get back to arguing with everybody about
everything and generally troll every thread on this forum

Because this is actually something productive that you
could do that would benefit members that haven't yet
found what you've got.

You would have credibility because you've done this, (twice)
compared to your credibility having knowledge of something
because you've met or your cousin twice removed sat next to
somebody.


« Last Edit: July 29, 2020, 10:45:14 AM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #83 on: September 07, 2020, 12:40:36 PM »

Did you ever think you had to take so many trips, because your due diligence, before
hand, sucked ?

Moby,

I invite you to explain to others what due diligence you did before your first
trip to meet a woman. It might help others to know.
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #84 on: September 07, 2020, 10:39:55 PM »
My apologies for missing this, Beel.

My due diligence was just chatting on Skype , making and receiving calls  and us both realising that t'other was not playing games..  I saw her life.. her acquaintances and she was not 'disappearing' or going off on holidays and going silent.



   




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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #85 on: September 08, 2020, 08:06:56 AM »
My apologies for missing this, Beel.

My due diligence was just chatting on Skype , making and receiving calls  and us both realising that t'other was not playing games..  I saw her life.. her acquaintances and she was not 'disappearing' or going off on holidays and going silent.

Thank you for replying. I think this is a subject that warrants it's own thread.

How to determine which woman to visit (Visit One)
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=24575.new#new

« Last Edit: September 08, 2020, 08:22:40 AM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Is pursuing an FSU wife for everyone?
« Reply #86 on: September 08, 2020, 08:35:12 AM »
My original answer to the subject question still stands...

Cross-cultural relationships/marriages have so much more added challenges that goes beyond the usual ebbs in relationships/marriages.

FSU MOB exist not because of some silly preconceived ideals but simply a filler of a void.

Is this for everyone? Anyone can do whatever they want. Just be honest as to the real reason why.
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