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Re: How to determine which woman to visit (Visit One)
« Reply #25 on: November 05, 2020, 03:09:32 PM »


A WMVM is nothing more than a rational and natural process of selection.

WHAT is 'rational' about travelling across many time zones to speed date with a near total stranger with who many cannot speak in a common tongue  ?

Far more sensible, in the age of video chat to eliminate ladies you just wouldn't waste you time on BEFORE your trip ..


Unless you can afford the time / money to stay for long periods of time... choose the best woman and visit her..let THAT decide where you go ...

Too many guys choose a city / region ? !

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How to determine which woman to visit (Visit One)
« Reply #26 on: November 09, 2020, 01:08:44 PM »
I want to encourage those who wish to debate Visit One vs Visit Many
to do so in the thread below.

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=520.100
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Re: How to determine which woman to visit (Visit One)
« Reply #27 on: November 16, 2020, 03:03:47 AM »
I think you have to be practical about it. If you are going to invest 2 weeks, XXX about of money then you really want to have a few options. i want to be real in my search for a life partner. i want to be honest and ethical. I'm probably not the only guy she is communicating with and it is only after meeting and creating moments with her/him that you feel that they could be the one. I think it is just more practical to see a few on one trip so you can take a hard look to see which one has better chemistry and connection. I certainly don't want to go just for a fun free for all sex trip - it would be easier and cheaper and probably safer to do that where I live or the next big city over.

Honestly I think it is rather silly to start a relationship with someone who doesn't speak English. You are just fooling yourself. It is hard enough to start a real relationship with an American woman who speaks your language and culture.

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Re: How to determine which woman to visit (Visit One)
« Reply #28 on: November 16, 2020, 04:26:10 AM »
I was generally a VO type, with a couple of exception trips. In the early days it was all about vacations and I tended to line up someone to spend some time with, just because...

When I got a bit serious about the process, my very strict criteria was letters. I didn't mind errant English but I did want to see effort and diligence. I understood early that any woman failing that hurdle was never going to make it through the migration process, much less survive in my world.

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« Reply #29 on: November 16, 2020, 12:31:04 PM »
I think you have to be practical about it. If you are going to invest 2 weeks, XXX about of money then you really want to have a few options. i want to be real in my search for a life partner. i want to be honest and ethical. I'm probably not the only guy she is communicating with and it is only after meeting and creating moments with her/him that you feel that they could be the one. I think it is just more practical to see a few on one trip so you can take a hard look to see which one has better chemistry and connection. I certainly don't want to go just for a fun free for all sex trip - it would be easier and cheaper and probably safer to do that where I live or the next big city over.

Honestly I think it is rather silly to start a relationship with someone who doesn't speak English. You are just fooling yourself. It is hard enough to start a real relationship with an American woman who speaks your language and culture.

You bring up some points
1. Are you going to visit one or many. You need to decide this early on.
2. A back up plan.
3. Angliyskiy, da ili net English yes or no or how much.
What level of English do you require.

Here is a thread on English
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=2230.0

I started a thread about backup plans here
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=24825.0

« Last Edit: November 16, 2020, 12:54:22 PM by 2tallbill »
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: How to determine which woman to visit (Visit One)
« Reply #30 on: November 16, 2020, 01:40:00 PM »
Yes, you are totally foolish.
You could have partaken with all those gals . . . and still be looking for your one and only.
Those paths are not mutually exclusive.
Get your testosterone level checked.

Alternative viewpoint...and likely more accurate..

The nice guy was trusted..otherwise those things might not have happened...?



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How to determine which woman to visit (Visit One)
« Reply #31 on: November 24, 2020, 12:16:12 PM »
One of my criteria has been make sure that she is at least interested
in me as I am in her.

I didn't always follow that if I did I would have never traveled to Georgia.

FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

 

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