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My daughter Hillary died today
« on: November 28, 2020, 09:45:07 AM »
My younger daughter told me her older sister died today. She was 40 years old. An accidental drug overdose.

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #1 on: November 28, 2020, 10:13:11 AM »
Sorry to hear that Maxx. Our prayers and sincere condolences with you

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #2 on: November 28, 2020, 10:21:15 AM »



I'm truly sorry to hear that Maxx. I don't care what people do in their lives but one reason I'm against drugs is because they shatter lives and families. Stay strong Maxx. Mourn but don't let this break you.
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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #3 on: November 28, 2020, 11:22:38 AM »


Mourn but don't let this break you.


Oh, Billy. I wish I could take the cord from my wet-dry vac and hang it on the stairs...



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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #4 on: November 28, 2020, 11:38:57 AM »

Oh, Billy. I wish I could take the cord from my wet-dry vac and hang it on the stairs...



The only hanging that should be happening is you hanging around for your other daughter and your grand kids. Time heals. Give yourself time to heal.
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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #5 on: November 28, 2020, 11:44:40 AM »

The only hanging that should be happening is you hanging around for your other daughter and your grand kids. Time heals. Give yourself time to heal.


I've been told here I must live for my other daughter and my beautiful granddaugher Iyla.
 

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #6 on: November 28, 2020, 12:06:11 PM »
So sorry to hear about your loss Maxx. Stay strong. We will pray for you and your family.....
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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #7 on: November 28, 2020, 12:08:42 PM »
Thank you Hammer.

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My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #8 on: November 28, 2020, 12:16:22 PM »
That's terrible, I am really sorry for your loss.
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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #9 on: November 28, 2020, 12:40:41 PM »
Thank you too tall Bill. I never expected it.

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #10 on: November 28, 2020, 02:37:41 PM »
I'm very sorry for your loss, Maxx.  I can imagine nothing more painful than losing a child.


Your daughter must have been in a lot of pain as well, to have descended into drug use.
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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #11 on: November 28, 2020, 03:05:42 PM »
'Maxx' David ..

I've just read this.

Our deepest condolences and there are no wiser words than you can and must be strong for Lyla and your other daughter.

Will you go back to the US ?


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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #12 on: November 28, 2020, 04:19:23 PM »
I'm very sorry for your loss, Maxx.  I can imagine nothing more painful than losing a child.


Your daughter must have been in a lot of pain as well, to have descended into drug use.


I wish I had one more opportunity to have a 'straight talk' with her. I usually avoided those because she had her own mind on what was what.

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #13 on: November 28, 2020, 04:44:42 PM »

I wish I had one more opportunity to have a 'straight talk' with her. I usually avoided those because she had her own mind on what was what.

Sorry to hear what happened, what was the drug? I have someone close to me who does recreational stuff, i don't lecture them as i have my own flaws i am working on (women). So i feel no room to judge and lecture them. I often think recreational drugs are okay (i haven't done even weed).

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #14 on: November 28, 2020, 07:05:05 PM »
Awful.   I'm very sorry to hear you have lost your daughter. 

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #15 on: November 28, 2020, 07:52:32 PM »
Very sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences.
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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #16 on: November 28, 2020, 09:02:35 PM »
Iím truely sorry to hear about this Maxx. Mourn your daughter and heal yourself.
This too shall pass.

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #17 on: November 29, 2020, 12:45:06 AM »

I wish I had one more opportunity to have a 'straight talk' with her. I usually avoided those because she had her own mind on what was what.

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #18 on: November 29, 2020, 04:31:11 AM »
Sorry to hear what happened, what was the drug? I have someone close to me who does recreational stuff, i don't lecture them as i have my own flaws i am working on (women). So i feel no room to judge and lecture them. I often think recreational drugs are okay (i haven't done even weed).


It was heroine. I'll tell you the details probably in another thread. I am still in too much shock to put anything together worth reading.

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #19 on: November 29, 2020, 04:44:28 AM »
Terrible news Maxx, Iím really sorry for your loss. Donít do anything silly and be there for the rest of your family. Times a healer but we never forget.

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #20 on: November 29, 2020, 05:05:45 AM »
Terrible news Maxx, Iím really sorry for your loss. Donít do anything silly and be there for the rest of your family. Times a healer but we never forget.


Thank you Rosco for your words of encouragement and hope.

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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #21 on: November 29, 2020, 10:05:48 AM »
Maxx,

My deepest sympathy.

I have known you for 18 years.  You have suffered almost as much as Job.  Through it all you have remained a kind, loving, serious and forthright man. 

You ability to bounce back is remarkable, and you will once again recover.   Keep conversing with us. 




It was heroine. I'll tell you the details probably in another thread. I am still in too much shock to put anything together worth reading.

Heroine is the less expensive alternative to those who started with misuse of medical opioids.  It is a story numbering maybe more than a million.   IMO the pandemic likely made the situation worse:  job loss, social lockdowns.       


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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #22 on: November 29, 2020, 10:36:48 PM »
The pandemic is causing a lot of depression. Out of 1 hour of news...it seems like they devote half++ of it citing the daily statistics and hospital admissions. It is becoming a really super major drag.
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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #23 on: November 29, 2020, 11:08:20 PM »
Condolences Maxx. I feel for you.
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Re: My daughter Hillary died today
« Reply #24 on: November 30, 2020, 01:58:29 AM »
Thank you Steamer

 

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