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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #75 on: December 01, 2020, 05:58:39 AM »
Oh dear, you quoted confused as to who he is / wear he is,  'JG' ..  :rolleyes:

Indeed, in the UK there is no 'sales tax' and *I* know that, but I hardly think my Russian wives knew / know that. 


The only confusion here is deciphering your posts. I can take a guess but what does that first line actually mean??

JG said "Don't they come cheaper in the UK". I said "VAT free".

Not sure why you're arguing, it was all quite concise and clear? I always have this feeling of running to the back of the group to help the slow one catch up, when conversing with you Moby. Life should be easier.

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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #76 on: December 01, 2020, 06:00:04 AM »
V got LOADS of people asking where she bought her wedding dress from..

I'm not saying she didn't look great but that is what people say to the bride on her big day, Moby.

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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #77 on: December 01, 2020, 06:01:54 AM »
This dress was not bought, but designed and made entirely by SC

My wife really enjoys tailoring and makes a lot of her own clothes & accessories too. It's really creative and I do take my hat off to anyone who can do it well.

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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #78 on: December 01, 2020, 06:07:54 AM »
I'm not saying she didn't look great but that is what people say to the bride on her big day, Moby.

Except it was on her photosharing site and long after the wedding ..

When she decided to end our relationship the big clue that it was over was when she advertised it for sale ...

A total stranger bought it for nearly double what she paid for it ... 


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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #79 on: December 01, 2020, 06:14:07 AM »
Yes, she has a unique look that would appeal to more mature/older women.



She sells bikinis that 'more mature/older women' should not be thinking of wearing ...))

I suspect, though nothing to prove it other than judging by what she sells on the beach.. that it is MEN buying the bikinis ..

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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #80 on: December 01, 2020, 06:21:23 AM »
The only confusion here is deciphering your posts. I can take a guess but what does that first line actually mean??

'JG' who we both know as someone else, knows exactly what I mean and I, normally, cannot see his posts ..

JG said "Don't they come cheaper in the UK". I said "VAT free".

We BOTH know that JG meant it as an insult ... I'm not protesting, it's just an example of why I choose not to see his 'one line contributions'..


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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #81 on: December 01, 2020, 06:41:39 AM »
I'm not saying that they should post up her photo here. If they post it up on Photofeeler no one here will know. Then they just come back here and honestly tell us the score she got. Around about 10 votes is enough to get a pretty accurate score for anyone on there, up to around 20 votes and it will start to get pretty exact. No money need be spent as you can just vote on other girls pics to earn credits so people vote on the pic you put up. Any takers? Or merely more words ;)

I'm sitting here in "self quarantine" with my girl laughing our asses of more or less everything you write, all your theories and "conclusions" from your vast experience with women and relationships, and this was too good to pass by, now _I_ would never do this, but Tanya thought it would be a fun thing to try so, one quite plain selfie uploaded and rated as attached.

now-  my girl is 38 years old and lets be honest, those incels sitting there rating these pictures are probably not the average human beings, I never even heard of the place until you started boasting about it. So she is not in the target demographic for these people and she still got a 9.

In other news, we have now lived like this since mid July when I managed to get my girl out of Ukraine, it's been - well quite amazing spending all this time together, we are both working from home, she is doing 25% workdays and I am doing 50%.
So we have a lot of free time on our hands, so we renovated our kitchen, bought a dog (for me to get some exercise  :rolleyes:)
I gained 5kg in first 1,5 months and that was baaaad - so I needed something to get me going, though after Tanya got here I got all the exercise needed to loose them again  :P
but we are avoiding people, going on short trips just to have something to do and now counting down and planning for Christmas, trying to get her daughter here for the holidays.
And in respons to the OP - no not a single pound, she runs, walks, swim, doing home gym and zumba (now during covid) and shows no sign of slowing down.

She is 163 cm (5"4) and 53 kg (116lbs) (even though I seldom see her below 5"7 since she always wear heals)

kinda funny how ALL threads always derail as soon Trench joins them with one of his "words of wisdom", (I am as guilty I will admit)
but... don't you have like 20 threads of your own to pollute with your trash?
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #82 on: December 01, 2020, 07:19:35 AM »
I'm sitting here in "self quarantine" with my girl laughing our asses of more or less everything you write, all your theories and "conclusions" from your vast experience with women and relationships,
I must admit, Trenchcoat has quite a sense of humor! 

Fathertime! 
I just happened to be browsing about the internet....

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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #83 on: December 01, 2020, 07:58:54 AM »
I'm sitting here in "self quarantine" with my girl laughing our asses of more or less everything you write, all your theories and "conclusions" from your vast experience with women and relationships, and this was too good to pass by, now _I_ would never do this, but Tanya thought it would be a fun thing to try so, one quite plain selfie uploaded and rated as attached.

now-  my girl is 38 years old and lets be honest, those incels sitting there rating these pictures are probably not the average human beings, I never even heard of the place until you started boasting about it. So she is not in the target demographic for these people and she still got a 9.

In other news, we have now lived like this since mid July when I managed to get my girl out of Ukraine, it's been - well quite amazing spending all this time together, we are both working from home, she is doing 25% workdays and I am doing 50%.
So we have a lot of free time on our hands, so we renovated our kitchen, bought a dog (for me to get some exercise  :rolleyes:)
I gained 5kg in first 1,5 months and that was baaaad - so I needed something to get me going, though after Tanya got here I got all the exercise needed to loose them again  :P
but we are avoiding people, going on short trips just to have something to do and now counting down and planning for Christmas, trying to get her daughter here for the holidays.
And in respons to the OP - no not a single pound, she runs, walks, swim, doing home gym and zumba (now during covid) and shows no sign of slowing down.

She is 163 cm (5"4) and 53 kg (116lbs) (even though I seldom see her below 5"7 since she always wear heals)

kinda funny how ALL threads always derail as soon Trench joins them with one of his "words of wisdom", (I am as guilty I will admit)
but... don't you have like 20 threads of your own to pollute with your trash?

Fair enough, she looks a pretty girl, so you've passed the bar, only question is what is she doing with you :D
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #84 on: December 01, 2020, 08:26:26 AM »
Fair enough, she looks a pretty girl, so you've passed the bar, only question is what is she doing with you :D

Money - no she makes almost as much as me, own's a business and have more savings than me.
"better country" - well no, she could set up shop anywhere she wanted to, she has travelled all over the world and had plenty of suitors from other countries.
looks - hmm well no, not even on my best days

I asked her, but she just gives me a smile and a kiss as she wanders off into the kitchen to make us dinner.

So your guess is as good as mine, well not really since I already know why, I respect her and don't see or treat her as a commodity or piece of jewelry. I don't put her on a pedestal but nor do I mistreat or mistrust her.
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #85 on: December 01, 2020, 08:36:47 AM »


She sells bikinis that 'more mature/older women' should not be thinking of wearing ...))

I suspect, though nothing to prove it other than judging by what she sells on the beach.. that it is MEN buying the bikinis ..



There are men that pay to watch women who are several hundred kg to eat food . I bet they make more than SC , something for weirdest sort of blokes

SC is attractive for her age , hopefully if I marry someone , and they reach her age , they will be as attractive as SC at that age .
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #86 on: December 01, 2020, 12:15:00 PM »
Japs is right in that she would have made more as a pro, particularly on the Kiev trip. O


She would also fall under the eye of the local criminal world.  Escorts in Ukraine who are "independent" pay large sums of "protection money".
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Prostitution: The immediate exchange of money or valuables for sex
« Reply #87 on: December 01, 2020, 12:30:11 PM »
 :offtopic:  :offtopic:  :offtopic:  :offtopic:

Prostitution is the exchange of sex for the immediate payment of
money or valuables.

I think it's personally insulting and certainly against forum decorum
to imply that Trench's ex girl is a prostitute or prostituted herself by
being with Trench because he bought her stuff on a trip together. 

Trench rarely says or does the right thing but since nobody knows
this girl, I don't think that the path this conversation is going down
is either on topic or productive.

« Last Edit: December 01, 2020, 12:54:00 PM by 2tallbill »
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #88 on: December 01, 2020, 12:30:53 PM »
I disagree.

Some will and some won't but from my own experience (dating & speaking with my wife single friends), many would prefer to meet someone in Europe and the UK/Ire is the only place they speak English. So if they dream of an English speaking country it isn't going to be the US or Canada.

I am referring to Ukraine.  There have been surveys on this.  Order of preference for emigration:

1.  Germany
2.  Poland
3.  USA
4.  Canada
5.  Italy

The UK is far down the list, not even in the top 10.

For actual emigration, outside of FSU countries, Poland, Czechia, the USA, Canada, and Italy, are the primary destinations of Ukrainian emigres. 
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #89 on: December 01, 2020, 12:34:20 PM »
I think it's personally insulting and certainly against forum decorum
to imply that Trench's ex girl is a prostitute or prostituted herself by
being with Trench because he bought her stuff on a trip together. 

Trench rarely says or does the right thing but nobody knows this
girl and I don't think that the path this conversation is going down
is either on topic or productive.


Trench continually uses that girl as an example of what he can "land".  But that girl dumped him almost immediately after he took her on a trip, when he pressed her to meet in her hometown.  Yes, it could be a conflict in personalities, and we can only go by what Trench has shared.  But "buying spree" tourist trips with foreign men are not uncommon in Ukraine, unfortunately.
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #90 on: December 01, 2020, 12:51:41 PM »
I am referring to Ukraine.  There have been surveys on this.  Order of preference for emigration:

1.  Germany
2.  Poland
3.  USA
4.  Canada
5.  Italy

The UK is far down the list, not even in the top 10.

For actual emigration, outside of FSU countries, Poland, Czechia, the USA, Canada, and Italy, are the primary destinations of Ukrainian emigres.

Interestingly my ex from Ukraine now runs a dating service and is pretty active on Instagram. She had been trying to get me on live chat with her to talk about dating Ukrainian girls but it wasnít for me.

Anyway, she held a small scale survey with the girls on her site and they overwhelming preferred European & British over North America.

Personally I think it depends more on the couple but Iím sure location matters to some.

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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #91 on: December 01, 2020, 01:00:51 PM »
I am not referring to women seeking foreign men.  I am referring to Ukrainians who wish to emigrate under their own steam.
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Re: Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #92 on: December 01, 2020, 03:16:48 PM »
Trench has been slaughtered on this thread. Even had his ex girlfriend somewhat called a whore, i firmly believe she was interested in Trench, not in love, but wanted to explore it. Normal for a man to buy clothes for a girl, yes in ukraine/russia guys spend nearly all the money they have on their girlfriends. FOr a westerner, £50 dress isn't going to break our banks, and no girl will sleep with a guy several times each week, so she can get a little gift here and there.

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Re: Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #93 on: December 01, 2020, 03:21:36 PM »
Trench complained for months about spending money on the girl.  He met her once in Kyiv, and then a second time on a trip to Cyprus.  He complained also that when they were in Cyprus, she ordered food and then didn't eat it.  He complained that she wouldn't meet him in Kherson.  When he pressed her for that meeting, she dumped him.  It was shortly after their trip to Cyprus.  So yeah, the timing is a little suspect.  It was never about the money, which none of us would know about, but for Trench's numerous posts complaining about how much he spent on clothing and make up.  It was about her dumping him thereafter.


I do wish Trench happiness.  I hope he finds someone who loves him,  Everyone deserves love.  But, I really don't think he is going to find it in Ukraine, and I think he should broaden his search parameters.
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #94 on: December 01, 2020, 04:19:34 PM »
I asked her, but she just gives me a smile and a kiss as she wanders off into the kitchen to make us dinner.

:D
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #95 on: December 01, 2020, 04:50:22 PM »

Trench continually uses that girl as an example of what he can "land".  But that girl dumped him almost immediately after he took her on a trip, when he pressed her to meet in her hometown.  Yes, it could be a conflict in personalities, and we can only go by what Trench has shared.  But "buying spree" tourist trips with foreign men are not uncommon in Ukraine, unfortunately.

Trench is Trench he and his past girlfriend are totally unrelated to FSU Wives
getting fat (or not) later in life, he pollutes threads with his off topic comments.


I started a new thread called
"Prodaters vs prostitutes what's the difference?"
http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=24907.new#new

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Re: Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #96 on: December 01, 2020, 04:53:29 PM »
Trench has been slaughtered on this thread. Even had his ex girlfriend somewhat called a whore, i firmly believe she was interested in Trench, not in love, but wanted to explore it. Normal for a man to buy clothes for a girl, yes in ukraine/russia guys spend nearly all the money they have on their girlfriends. FOr a westerner, £50 dress isn't going to break our banks, and no girl will sleep with a guy several times each week, so she can get a little gift here and there.

Thanks Japs that's about it. The complaining Boe referred to was me trying to make sense of the situation as it was a weird one. Over the preceding years I learnt a lot about life in Ukraine and got a good enough idea of what went on. Some posters on here reckoned I shouldn't have bothered trying to understand it and move on. To me that is like telling someone to continue to fumble around in the dark and hope you come good. I would rather work out what happened so I can understand the culture and girls better out there. That I believe serves me better in the future and I'm pleased I kept seeking the truth until I got the answers I was after its really helped me evolve instead of staying an ignorant newbie fumbling around in someone else's game.

Anyway, it ended as she wanted to come see me in the UK, but I wanted to see her in Ukraine first after the Cyprus trip. She failed to understand for a young girl who worked in retail with no ties such as kids to go back to in Ukraine it would be virtually impossible for her to get a visa to the UK. Numerous posters backed me up on this, and rarely even for me Mobers did as well. Even had I gone ahead with the visa I would have had to stump up more money to put in her bank account so she could show she had money to support herself while here, even though it would still likely fail anyway.

She held it against me that I had 'promised' her that she come come to the UK after Cyprus and accused me of being a married man and all sorts of heinous accusations that are not true. In fairness I did state 'I think' that she could come to the UK but didn't realise that she had taken it such ardent terms. I never realised there wasn't any scope in her mind to do anything in between, that it had to be then, and done by way of tourist visa.

I think to some extent there may have been a bit of a cultural difference there. FSW can be very direct and matter of fact. In essence they probably line up with northerners (in England) more in their blunt outlook and sticking by what you say. Having grown up as a southerner (in England) I tend to be more socialized into their not being any concrete set in stone decisions just stuff that is talked about and that either evolves to it coming into fruition by taking steps towards it or it later being rethought. That's not to say I wouldn't stick with something if I knew it meant so much or am in any way intentionally misleading it more just the way the thought process works her me.

Anyway surface to say I think mutual distrust built up as the (short) relationship went on and it killed it off. She gave an ultimatum that unless I agree then she will not meet me in Kherson. I could have tried for a visa that would have failed and spent a few hundred more pounds in a futile effort but thought it's not great when she is like that so it's not looking likely that it will work. Anyway, she got the hump with that and it ended.

Some posters reckon she might have finished it after the UK visit (or attempted visit). They might be correct or who knows she might have fled on arrival and just wanted me to gain entry to the UK. That would have left me with an embarrassing situation with Immigration. She did seem very interested in coming to the UK and pressed me a lot in messages after Cyprus about it. I tried explaining a lot about how Immigration aren't likely to grant it but she wouldn't accept it. So to this day I'm not sure, it could be many reasons why she wanted to come, I would just be guessing at that. For that one only she knows but in my book if you love someone you don't just walk away you try and make a go off it and accept any efforts the other party is making even if they can't at that specific point in time match up to what was originally decided.
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Did you marry her and did she get fat?
« Reply #97 on: December 01, 2020, 04:56:06 PM »
Thanks Japs that's about it.

Did you marry her and did she get fat?

NO? Then you are way off topic.
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Re: Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #98 on: December 01, 2020, 05:18:00 PM »
Thanks Japs that's about it. The complaining Boe referred to was me trying to make sense of the situation as it was a weird one.

You have no idea what guys are doing to charm women. I had guys on here tell me they used their intellect, but reality was they were on sugar babe sites, where girls are looking for sugar daddies to go abroad. Beo said something that she knows Ukrainian men , and how they date. She doesn't, only one that does, is the women.

I will tell you a funny story, my fiance's ex had a 10cm penis , he told her (after they had sex many times), that him and his friends measured their penis, and he had the biggest one of them all , 19cm. I burst out laughing when she told me, and she was laughing in confusion. Not only do men probably lie to beo, they lie to themselves, they end up believing their own lies.

How many ukrainian men do you think go back to their parents and say 'mama , papa, i lied to a girl that i would support her, be a provider, so i could get laid'

THere is a reason why FSUW have an entitled mindset, it wasn't created by foreigners, it was created by the FSU males. Buying a £50 dress, and paying for a meal, for a girl you slept with several times each week, is far from her seeing you as her prostitution client. The FSU males are trying their best to make their girlfriends happy, they are spending most of their salary.
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Re: Did your wife gain extra mass after marriage?
« Reply #99 on: December 01, 2020, 05:36:29 PM »
Wrong.  I know a lot of UM - cousins, friends, former neighbours, and their children.  Cousin's children in Kyiv were both recently married.  Neither supported a date, ever.  The thought would not cross their minds.  I have specifically asked about this among friends. 

Now, UM will do things like pay for cabfare home (if they have the money).  They will even do this for female friends, if they have the money.  If they are buying anything, it isn't motivated by sex.  It's about caring for the woman.  That's always been the case.

If you think that mothers, even neighbours, don't know what's going on, then you know little of Ukrainian society.

All your post tells me is that you are "hanging out" with the lower dregs of Ukrainian society.

Ask the spouses of male posters here, how many of their children were supporting a woman, or being supported by a man?  Bill's wife has a daughter younger than you, recently married.  Perhaps he can tell us if her fiance was supporting her financially before they married "in order to get laid".
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