I search the man of my dream

[Elen]

Let's write to her [user=201]OhioGuyRob[/user] and then post your story here how much it cost to you

[Bruno]

Rob, you have right, we go to fast...

A photo from Bishkek ladies during a tour...



The lady at right is the chief of agency... and the 5 other are popential wife ... like you can see, it is not tour with big restaurant, chic hotel... but it is more a friend ambience... woman in Bishkek are not provocative like in Odessa but they are beautiful...

For these who have forget, a kyrgyzstan man from bishkek have flight with your cosmonaut, Salijan Saripov...



If a kyrgyzstan man can visit US, don't say me that US man are not able to visit a kyrgyzstan woman

[OhioGuyRob]

Let's write to her [user=201]OhioGuyRob[/user] and then post your story here how much it cost to you

If you have read my other posts, you know that I dont believe writing before visiting makes much sense imho.  I think visiting and meeting people is a better way... just my 2cents

[Muzh]

Whhy do you have a need to attack this womans character? Have you even actually BEEN to the FSU? Have you seen the way the general population of women dress in the summer at Odessa? I have. You have a hang up with sexuality thats your bag. Women there do not dress the way most American women dress (if you want to call it that...) They are much more feminine and sensual. They dress provocatively and walk provocatively. I can not speak for Elen or how things are in Moscow. I can speak to what I have seen with my own eyes on my trips to Odessa. Women there do not dress or carry themselves like women in the US. Looking at the womans photo's and extrapolating the wild spin tail you have is not only childish but silly. Just because you can't handle a woman that looks like her is no reason to attack her character. Its sad that you view her pictures as "Sluttish" Provocative? Yes. Sensual? Yes. Slutty? Get over yourself!

Hey Buckeye:

Who were you trying to reach with this post???

[Bruno]

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If you have read my other posts, you know that I dont believe writing before visiting makes much sense imho. I think visiting and meeting people is a better way... just my 2cents
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Yet, great 2cents... don't write to RW... buy address, take a plane, and visit her...

Who are you ? the owner of a plane compagny... :P:D

[Coulter]

Of course not with such profile of yours:?

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:D:D

:D:D Hey, you did not give me much time! I am here for less than one day!
No, ladna, ya ponil. :cool:

[Elen]

Ponil? somnitel'no shto-to:? as there is still nothing there, you know:D

[Coulter]

Ponil? somnitel'no shto-to:? as there is still nothing there, you know:D

Yes, I know. For your eyes only.

[Fiorella]

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If you have read my other posts, you know that I dont believe writing before visiting makes much sense imho. I think visiting and meeting people is a better way... just my 2cents
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Yet, great 2cents... don't write to RW... buy address, take a plane, and visit her...

Who are you ? the owner of a plane compagny... :P:D

Nope - he will buy 100 addresses and visit them all at once.

[ConnerVT]

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If you have read my other posts, you know that I dont believe writing before visiting makes much sense imho. I think visiting and meeting people is a better way... just my 2cents
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Yet, great 2cents... don't write to RW... buy address, take a plane, and visit her...

Who are you ? the owner of a plane compagny... :P:D

I tend to agree that writing more than a letter of two doesn't make too much sense.  There are some inherent problems with a long correspondence period.  People tend to hide behind words, and put themselves in the best light.  Next, unless both people are fluent in the language that is written, there will be misunderstandings that will either be taken very badly, or dismissed as a minor problem when they should not.  But these are minor compared to two other larger pitfalls.

First, there is always the problem of falling in love with a 'virtual person', the classic "photograph and letters" the person writes, and not the person themselves.  It is a big punch in the chest to travel half way around the world (or be visited by your foreign friend/love) only to find out quickly this is not the person you thought they were.  It's been described in many ways, but many will sa the "chemistry" isn't there.  I had an experience where the woman I wrote to seemed very intelligent and reasonable in here letters, but it was quickly felt (by both myself and my trusted interpretor) that she was borderline crazy.

Second, there will be the desire (perhaps on both parts) to salvage a less than exciting meeting between people to protect the investment of time, money, and energy spent corresponding.  Something like "...Well, there are not the person I thought they would be, perhaps in time I will begin to like them more..."  This is quicksand.  More time is invested, and now it becomes more difficult to cut one's losses and move on.  For all that's involved in an international relationship, I feel it's important that the two people really have strong feelings for each other, else only trouble waits down the road.

So, an introduction letter and 1-2 follow up letters are good for screening if there may be a mutual interest, but it really takes feet on the ground to truly accomplish the goal.

[Bruno]

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I tend to agree that writing more than a letter of two doesn't make too much sense... So, an introduction letter and 1-2 follow up letters are good for screening if there may be a mutual interest...
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If i have follow these logic, i was need to meet around 50 ladies... i am sorry, i am a simple manual worker with only 4 week holiday year... i cannot affort 6 month in russian and several trip...

Of course, i can make speed dating... 5 minutes by ladies... but i don't believe in this, i cannot know someone in so short time...

With Galina, it was need one month and several letter for she begin write real letter and not the usual 10 ligne that almost all russian woman send... during several month, we have echange a lot of letter about a lot of subject... and during these time, she have learn english...

Letter have allow me to know her before test the chimistry... direct meeting can lead to mistake like my first marriage... 2 week letter, she meet me in Belgium and the chemistry was good from the first night... and after this, i was not able to think correctly... Don't be blind, us, the great male are like children when a woman use sex against us... these little time ( some month ) used for know a woman allow me to not loose several year for nothing after...

A other advantage of long writing ( between two and 6 month ), this remove a lot of scammer... they have not time to loose because they wish fast money...

For us, people of middle class, a mislukte meeting lead to a year more waiting... until our next holiday... i meet only when i feel that the right moment was coming... of course, i was lucky because you can never be sure at 100%... same with 2 of 3 "reserve" women...

Maybe you can use so method when you are retired... better, i advice for retired people the following : don't write to woman, take 6 month vacation in russia ( your pension will be enough for pay a great stay ) and search localy the right woman...

[Fiorella]

By the way - girl on the photo looks real anorexic - may be you could send all together some basket with food to her? (not fruits or cakes but real food with calories).

[ConnerVT]

I only propose what was successful for me.  I chose to be introduced to women who were a reasonable match.  I avoided the party girls, the hot model type, etc., and met with women that I could envision spending my life with.  I am not rich.  I am not retired.  I do not have tons of free time.  But this is not an endeavor for those who want to do things on the fast and cheap.  The risks are just too great.  If done correctly, even though it is an investment of time and money, the rewards are outstanding.

[Bruno]

Conner, don't worry, i agree with you point of view, i have only show the other side of the mirror... you was lucky, i was lucky... each man need to find itself the right shoes for his foot...

I have use your method for my first wife and you know the result... now, i have try a new approach... i think that it is working better for me ... only the future go say it, i am not already married... and same after the marriage, it is need some year for see if our new couple can resist the effect of time...

[Timmy K.]

I agree with Bruno, and I will add to this, read, read, read and read some more, ask questions, make phone calls , take advice and suggestions, no question is dumb question, be honest in all areas, ask for phone numbers and address right away, try to correspond with out agency in the middle, ask for photos. This is the good one for me, I have 20 pictures of Victoria, none are sexy, all are different in different settings,and mailed to me by postal mail from Karkov,2 different times, the same address she gave me from the start.  Real lady? I think so, she sees things in my letters that really surprise me, I have to look back because I say to myself { Did I write that?} Almost 3 months corresponding with her and she sees things about me I did not know were there, well a little bit HA HA.  HEART TO HEART SOUL TO SOUL.         I will keep you all posted

[Photo Guy]

Hey, it sounds like you've got a magical thing going on there.
 It's good to read something positive here at RWD.
We should get together for a beer or two in Kiev next month!
-doug

[Bruno]

Hello Marina,

You have start these topic... and because of the difficult moment in your own country with the Lenon revolution, i wish you a lot of luck in your search of foreign husband... i hope that these revolution can be pacific like the orange one in Ukraine.

Friendly

Bruno

[jb]

Bruno,

I wouldn't worry too much about the topic starter, she came in, posted her profile advertisement and left.  She, I suspect, never had any intention of hanging out here to debate the silliness that has caused this thread to ramble on for some 5 pages now.

The girl was not looking for advice, she was hoping for some men to write to her. I'll bet she won't be back.

I lost a lot of respect for some members in the backhanded way this young girl was attacked by several people in the course of this thread.  Those of you who made fun of her efforts know who you are.

[Bruno]

JB,

It was only in any case... the last days, a lot of thing append in Kyrgystan... it seem that the example of Ukraine was only the start of a long serie of little revolution in ex-ussr republic...

About the ladies herself, we don't know is true intention... and myself, i was a little suspicious in the begin... until Dan confirm her IP, i have think that it was a post from some agency... and certainly, we have afraid these lady with some of our post...

But i have learn something from the 5 page of these topic... it is not easy to be a beautiful woman, people have more fast a suspicious eyes... again : to much beautiful to be true !!!

[jb]

Bruno,

OK,,,, but there was never ever a reason to behave like the north end of a south bound mule, as several posters did.  As I said, this is a tough crowd.

[deden]

I tend to agree with you jb, what's wrong with advertising?  Let's face it, that was an excellent marketing move whether she is or isn't sincere (and I have no opinion to what she is).  I give her an A for effort but a D for success since she posted it under the married column.  Got to be hard for these younger gals anyway.  I mean how many younger men in their age range have the financial resources to pull this kind of pursuit through?  Can't be a whole lot of them out there.  Gotta believe the majority are 40 plus.  So give her credit for trying to market herself (hopefully for the right reasons).

[Fiorella]

I still think that it was advertising made by agency.

Sorry - made BY agency.

[Bruno]

I still think that it was advertising made of agency.

It is what i have think in first place... until Dan reveal that his IP was from his own city...

The ladies is register in several agency outside his own city but in no one of his city... if have control all agency from bishkek... not a lot... and she don't use the service of one of them...

It is only mean that someone in Bishkek have publish the topic but she is no customer of one agency of these place.... she have almost certainly publish the ads herself..

 

[bob]

You guys and girls need to lighten up a tad.

I agree. She's attractive. She (or someone) spent alot of time in writing the letter. She had a professional photo made. What was she supposed to do? Pics in jeans and a profile that says, "I just wanna hang out..I'll write more later"? Guys do this too. I know a guy who posted pics of him in a swimsuit. Hey, he's over 40 and has washboard abs and he's proud.

It is one thing for her to dress nice (and a bit suggestively), but at least she didn't say anything sexual in her letter. I used to get letters from hot young ladies that would tell me in their second letter how much they like sex and then go into some detail. This lady is wearing a sexy dress, but this is not uncommon in the FSU. See through blouses are common, too, but all are not labelled sluts are they?

I would not judge this young lady by this letter alone.

[Fiorella]

Bruno, she can be client of some agency from her town that doesn't have own website and that posts her profiles all over internet.