I search the man of my dream

[Elen]

And not all western man are people who think about sex or lie... i have write to Galina about all i think, i have send my more bad picture ( work clothes, beard, white hair, fat... ), i have explain that i have not a lot of money, that i have no car and own no house... it is my honesty who have seduce her...

  Now, Bruno  I'm sure if women would be such "honest" to write the "truth" and send their photos in work closes they will get no response from males at all:D

(At least Galina's photos was "sexy" Or let's tell us what caught your first attention?)

Do you find that it is normal that russian man say to a 31 yo woman, that she is too old... Galina cannot find a man in Ukraine because she is a old ladies 

 Actually I find not normal when Americans men tell 40 yo women are "babushka" already:P 

[Bruno]

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Now, Bruno . I'm sure if women would be such "honest" to write the "truth" and send their photos in work closes they will get no response from males at all.

(At least Galina's photos was "sexy" Or let's tell us what caught your first attention?)

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I have write a lot with her about this... my relation with Galina was almost finish when i have receive the "usual" photo... but i have use my brain... we have write a lot about everything... and deep inside me, i have know that she was the woman i can choice for stay together the rest of my life and not some trophy that i can show to friend... the communication have allow me to appreciate his inner beauty... the only beauty who stay with the year...

What caught my attention for first contact ? Nothing  For my first marriage, i was hunting woman... and this time, i have use a other method... i have ready a very long introduction letter with all my live, with what i think about different thema, with a lot of photo, ... i have buy membership ( around 20$ month ) in a marriage agency, and send my letter to each woman between 30 year old and 40 year old ( my limit was +- 5 year of my age )... i have not read the woman profile... just send letter ... at the end of my letter, i have write : "if you have some interest in me, contact me back... and allow us to be friend... maybe love can appear from these friendship"... i have send around 800 letter and i have receive a little more of 80 reply... with time, i have narrow my choice to 2 woman... one was Galina and the other have stop our starting relation because we have discover some incompatibility...

This time, i have not choice the woman, she have choice me... i hope that these marriage can be more successful that the previous...

What have attract Galina in my first letter... my honesty ( she like it but she find me sometime a little hard ) and my birth date : "Dear Bruno, do you know that we are birth the same day..."

Elen, woman are very curious ... now, your turn... what catch your attention when you have meet the first time your russian husband :shock:

[Elen]

Elen, woman are very curious ... now, your turn... what catch your attention when you have meet the first time your russian husband :shock:

We studied at the same group in the University, he was a "love for all life" of my friend (female-friend)(She is still not marry ) and I tried to explain her what an "idiot" my future husbamd was:D:D:D. "Explanation" just went into "wrong direction":D

[Admin]

Only problem, i am not sure that she have placed herselfher ads ... Dan, have you log with IP... maybe we can check it, and if the result is good ... guys, you can begin write to her... when the result is negatif , it is the bad joke of somebody other and we can close the topic...

Bruno,

I sent you PM. It looks like the original post was made from Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan - same as the home city of Marina.

Looks like it *could* be legitimate.

- Dan

[Bruno]

Yes Dan, the ads was posted by someone from Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan ... this prove the geographic position of the post...

Let me explain :

with the IP, we know the internet provider... the compagny who link the computer used to the internet... by example, the first ads i have find is from a site located in Odessa... if it was these agency who have post the ads, the IP was from Ukraine with a provider from the Odessa Oblast...

Now, we are sure that someone have post these ads from the living place of Marina... Since you have a very little number of local marriage agency, and no one with her profile, i think that she have posted the ads herself...

Now, you can be sure that it is not a joke, and that the geographics position is certify... for more, if you have interest, write to her directly... and again, she have ads on the internet since 2003 and i have not find one report about her in scam list...

 

 

[Elen]

You amaze me males!:D You are ready to make a full "scientific investigation" using your brains and knowleges for discovering sites, IP addresses, mail's tracking and hell-know-what-else  but you are not capable to read what's printed at her forehead with capital letters!:P

[Photo Guy]

I found most of her ideas in her letter attractive. I do not know what Elen finds horrible

Horrible??? Nothing!  ALL is VERY right. That's a problem. " I'm so fine, I'm so perfect, I'm so honest, I'll make you dreams come true -  blah-blah-blah.
Want to swallow a ledger-bait? let's go I'll not stop you:D
(honestly Photo Guy I wonder how such credulous guy like you could grew up in the shadow of New York)
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I completely agree with you. I just misunderstood your post.
Yes, I see it as bait too.   -doug,  ex-New Yorker

[Bruno]

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You amaze me males! You are ready to make a full "scientific investigation" using your brains and knowleges for discovering sites, IP addresses, mail's tracking and hell-know-what-else  but you are not capable to read what's printed at her forehead with capital letters!
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I don't wish say what i see printed on her forehead before know what is printed inside his head... Several time people judge other on the outside without know the inside...

You amaze me females ! You don't wish that man judge you by your physical but you judge other females by her physical ! Something wrong here...

[Photo Guy]

but they persuaded me in a contrary.

 

Yeah! That's the thing because I don't  "accept" such kind of acquaintances. Almost each step at that way is just "athwart" to all your "morals" you were taught.

You're forced to make photos you would never do in right mind, you should write in your letters only what opposite side wishes to hear, you should put you pride in some "place" and be nice with a man who's meeting with 10s others girls in the same time, in order to win his heart (well I think about other organ but can't post such words here:?) you should jump into his bed after couple dates as he has not time to stay next to you for more long time, and after you win the prize you shoulf forget all your past for the sake of better adaption at new place.
I would ask too high price for all that:D:D (but not only a house with a pool)
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I agree with all of this, but there are ways for women to create
profiles that do not compromise their moral values. I've seen women
who wear seven layers of clothing in their photos. That's the other
extreme, in my opinion. Elena of Elena's Models recommends
getting lots of photos from a woman. If I see a 'slutty' photo at her
net profile, it means she was morally weak, and/or actually slutty.
Women should show photos that show off her beauty, without
appearing too slutty. Photos are good for choosing a particular
body type, in a general way. After deciding that she is actually
attractive, then go on and discover who she is, her personality,
her values. Studies show that men are more attracted to women
who have a large waist to hip ratio. This is a generalization.
For me, that's definitely true, but I've seen exceptions. If her
waist is about the same size as her hips, that's usually a no-go
for me. There are millions of women out there who are physically
attractive and good photos can give me that information.
The photos that are sexually provocative look silly and contrived
and make me think like Elen, about the woman's moral mindset.
....But, how do we determine the degree of desperation?
Maybe she said such and such because she is desperate to
escape her present life, or maybe not.    -doug

[Elen]

You amaze me females ! You don't wish that man judge you by your physical but you judge other females by her physical ! Something wrong here...

Nothing wrong at all here!!! We women always have a double standarts for ourselves and for all others females:P:P:P Just take that like matter of fact:D

[Photo Guy]

I would like to see some rough edges, like 'I am not a morning person' or 'I can be moody', but that may turn off a lot of men. She could say 'I hate capitalists' or 'I yearn for the old days of cummunism' but she is probably too desperate to be that honest.

I'm not such desperate so I'll add that into my profile
I am not a morning person
I can be moody
I hate capitalists
I yearn for the old days of cummunism
:D:D:D
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Oh. Was I describing YOU?  
I'm not sure, but I think if that was a part of your profile,
I would be impressed favorably by your honesty, but I would
also be afraid....       -doug

[Elen]

but I would also be afraid.... -doug

 I KNEW that. Mostly males are  afraid to hear truth so... it's better lie to them:P

[acrzybear]

 I KNEW that. Mostly males are  afraid to hear truth so... it's better lie to them:P[/quote]
And that is one of the several reasons the world keeps repeating it's mistakes and people do not get along with each other, everyone lies instead of being honest.  I cannot count how many times I have told a person to tell the truth and they get into more trouble continuing to lie.  For myself that is a pet peeve, I would refuse to be associated with anyone that lies.  It does not matter if it was a wife, girlfriend or a friend or associate- it all gets down to if you are willing to lower your standards.

The views displayed on this post are those of a crazybear and in no way reflect those of the management or it's parent organization,or of any living or deceased entities.  Any simularities are purily coincidental. 

 

 

 

[Elen]

I would refuse to be associated with anyone that lies.  It does not matter if it was a wife, girlfriend

You would never guess about that:P:P

[jb]

The views displayed on this post are those of  <snip>, and in no way reflect those of the management or it's parent organization, or of any living or deceased entities.  Any simularities are purily coincidental.

I love it, maybe I should adopt this as the standard for my future posts. I tend to get in trouble when I speak/shoot from the hip.  Sometimes honesty isn't the best policy.

[acrzybear]

Help yourself to the discalimer, I just posted it tongue and cheek (my odd sense of humor) :?

[Coulter]

I would like to see some rough edges, like 'I am not a morning person' or 'I can be moody', but that may trun off a lot of men. She could say 'I hate capitalists' or 'I yearn for the old days of cummunism' but she is probably too desperate to be that honest.

I'm not such desperate so I'll add that into my profile

I am not a morning person

I can be moody

I hate capitalists

I yearn for the old days of cummunism

:D:D:D

 
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Wow!!!
Elen, are you free?

[Elen]

The answer depends on what you can offer me:P

[Coulter]

The answer depends on what you can offer me:P

:D:D
So to begin with:

I am not a morning person

I can be moody

I hate capitalists

I yearn for the old days of cummunism

Is it a good start, hmmm, I mean offer?

[Coulter]

The answer depends on what you can offer me:P

But I just saw when you posted that message! 6h36 in the morning...! On vaskrashenie! You are a morning person!

[Elen]

Is it a good start, hmmm, I mean offer?

That's all??:? So is it only a "start"  or  "all offer"?

But I just saw when you posted that message! 6h36 in the morning...! On vaskrashenie! You are a morning person

No:D Moscow time was 8:36AM

 

[Coulter]

But I just saw when you posted that message! 6h36 in the morning...! On vaskrashenie! You are a morning person

No:D Moscow time was 8:36AM[/quote]That is still very early for a morning person.

A start of course! We do not know each other yet, don't we?

[Elen]

Of course not with such profile of yours:?

-mail:   Private
Homepage:
ICQ:
AIM:
YM:
MSNM:
Location:
Occupation:
Birthday:
Interests:


:D:D

[OhioGuyRob]

but they persuaded me in a contrary.

 

Yeah! That's the thing because I don't  "accept" such kind of acquaintances. Almost each step at that way is just "athwart" to all your "morals" you were taught.

You're forced to make photos you would never do in right mind, you should write in your letters only what opposite side wishes to hear, you should put you pride in some "place" and be nice with a man who's meeting with 10s others girls in the same time, in order to win his heart (well I think about other organ but can't post such words here:?) you should jump into his bed after couple dates as he has not time to stay next to you for more long time, and after you win the prize you shoulf forget all your past for the sake of better adaption at new place.

I would ask too high price for all that:D:D (but not only a house with a pool)
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There are other ways to meet these lovely women other than writing first.....

[OhioGuyRob]

Whhy do you have a need to attack this womans character? Have you even actually BEEN to the FSU?  Have you seen the way the general population of women dress in the summer at Odessa?  I have.  You have a hang up with sexuality thats your bag.  Women there do not dress the way most American women dress (if you want to call it that...)  They are much more feminine and sensual.  They dress provocatively and walk provocatively.  I can not speak for Elen or how things are in Moscow.  I can speak to what I have seen with my own eyes on my trips to Odessa.  Women there do not dress or carry themselves like women in the US.  Looking at the womans photo's and extrapolating the wild spin tail you have is not only childish but silly.  Just because you can't handle a woman that looks like her is no reason to attack her character.  Its sad that you view her pictures as "Sluttish"  Provocative? Yes.  Sensual? Yes.  Slutty?  Get over yourself!