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Much better response from women now...
« on: January 14, 2021, 10:44:39 AM »
Is it the new haircut or is has covid helped my game?

I'm getting much better responses back from my communications. Whereas I usually get 30% responses now I get 75% responses. Must be the new haircut and I'm sticking to that answer.

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« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2021, 11:35:14 AM »
75% is a pretty high rate of return. If I wrote a girl who was 6 ft tall, I might
get a 75% return otherwise it was far less from a regular place. You are staying
away from pay per view sites correct? 

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FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2021, 12:02:41 PM »
Yes sir Bill. I am selective to write to women within reasonable age range and similar background. But in truth the rate of response has been higher - maybe the numbers have been embellished a bit. What happens beyond the 2nd and 3rd messages is up to the whims of personalities and misplaced humor but we'll see. In the back of my mind I do think the conditions of covid might be a factor - even though America has the highest covid deaths in the world.

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2021, 01:04:20 PM »
even though America has the highest covid deaths in the world.

Even though we have the highest REPORTED covid deaths.
We are also passing the vaccine right now as I type this.




FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
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There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Kiss the girl, don't ask her first.

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2021, 02:18:01 PM »
True. Intuitively a country that relies so much on public transportation would be conducive to be an explosive situation for transmission. And then you have to factor that said country also has some history of state controlled media.



Even though we have the highest REPORTED covid deaths.
We are also passing the vaccine right now as I type this.

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #5 on: January 15, 2021, 02:57:08 AM »
Iíve been on and off sites over the past year, just to keep my finger on the pulse. Iím going to spend a month or so with K when I can fly again, but itís good to have options I guess.

Iíve mentioned this previously to trench, but Iíve noticed a lot higher reply rate during covid too. My thoughts are that less men are using dating sites due to difficulties with travel and are holding off meeting women online, so women with less opinions are more inclined to answer every message they receive. At a guess probably seeing a 70% reply rate V 50% in the past .... Itís definitely higher than pre-covid times. I also included pictures of me in Russia in my profile, which probably makes a difference too.

What sites are you on Cameraguymn? ... Iím using the free sites and dmnotify occasionally.
« Last Edit: January 15, 2021, 03:11:08 AM by Davo »

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #6 on: January 15, 2021, 04:45:14 AM »
Officially I'll tell you dmnotify sucks.

Unofficially I'll say it is probably the best site. I have lay claim to all between 30-38 or at least all the brunettes in that range.

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #7 on: January 15, 2021, 05:19:32 AM »
It is the same reason why western men are Popular , economic times are tougher , so you now have more responses

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #8 on: January 15, 2021, 05:31:49 AM »
Officially I'll tell you dmnotify sucks.

Unofficially I'll say it is probably the best site. I have lay claim to all between 30-38 or at least all the brunettes in that range.

I do ok on DM, but I do ok on all the legit sites. Not many men are like me... looking for a mid 40ís woman with children. My options are almost limitless.

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #9 on: January 15, 2021, 05:34:22 AM »
My friend all the over 40 women shall be hands off just for you. :)

Even stateside I date women 10-15 younger than me so no need to fix something that's not broken.

I do ok on DM, but I do ok on all the legit sites. Not many men are like me... looking for a mid 40ís woman with children. My options are almost limitless.

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #10 on: January 15, 2021, 06:04:10 AM »
It is the same reason why western men are Popular , economic times are tougher , so you now have more responses

True in some cases, but in the age iím looking in and even with quite wealthy women by Russian standards, thereís also a lot of pressure from parents and extended family to find a husband (in kís case almost weekly questions) Most divorced and single mothers over 40 arenít  driven by a better life or their financial situation, but pure loneliness and a need for intimacy. Lots of the women Iíve talked to havenít had a mans touch of years or even a decade. Covid has bought even less human interaction with women working from home.

A good example of this is, I found myself in a Russian supermarket, carrying a basket and accompanying her arm in arm when she burst into tears.... Whatís wrong!!... ďIíve been so lonely!! Having a man by my side makes me so happyĒ. The simple act of carrying her basket made her day, after years of shopping alone.

Itís not always about what they can gain materially, but the basic human need for companionship. When you get to your mid 40ís + thatís just as important as being financially comfortable or sex.


« Last Edit: January 15, 2021, 06:12:37 AM by Davo »

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #11 on: January 15, 2021, 06:26:38 AM »
My friend all the over 40 women shall be hands off just for you. :)

Even stateside I date women 10-15 younger than me so no need to fix something that's not broken.

Thanks I appreciate your offer 😂

My first local GF after my divorce was 28, I was 39 and we had a lot of fun. I dated older women casually, one was 47 and also women around my age too. When it come to the crunch I felt a lot more comfortable with women my age. Plus bigger age gaps have higher divorce rates.

I never want to see the inside of a family court chamber again!!... 2 years of hell and 50k+ in lawyers fees, just isnít worth it in my experience. I donít think Iíd cope when sheís having a midlife crisis exit affair at 40 and iím facing the dating market again at retirement age. Iíve read more than a few larger age gap FSU marriages go that way.
« Last Edit: January 15, 2021, 06:43:27 AM by Davo »

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #12 on: January 15, 2021, 06:45:36 AM »
All the guys dropped out of the market. Even if travel opened up in summer, who is to say we wont close down again? Who will invest so much time and money just to wait possibly years before you can get her here? I can see doing that for a 22 yr old, but 40???? Otherwise, I guess if you want to be in fantasyland, its a hobby to pass the time without the cost of dating

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #13 on: January 15, 2021, 09:14:59 AM »

A good example of this is, I found myself in a Russian supermarket, carrying a basket and accompanying her arm in arm when she burst into tears.... Whatís wrong!!... ďIíve been so lonely!! Having a man by my side makes me so happyĒ. The simple act of carrying her basket made her day, after years of shopping alone.
Two other examples.
Gal 1 spending first night-over with me.
In morning, I was shaving (cream and blade).
She stood in doorway watching me.
I asked what was the interest.
She said hadn't seen man shave for a long time, and it made her feel good.

Gal 2 spent a month with me.
She went to work each day.
When she was returning home, said all the way home she felt so great knowing someone would be waiting for her.
Winston Churchill.  ďThe best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.Ē

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #14 on: January 15, 2021, 09:21:40 AM »
So great to have discussions about women rather than politics !
Winston Churchill.  ďThe best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter.Ē

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #15 on: January 15, 2021, 12:24:56 PM »
Nothing is guaranteed. I'm not ever surprised by life - and after 2020 - nothing will surprise me - even zombies.


Thanks I appreciate your offer 😂

My first local GF after my divorce was 28, I was 39 and we had a lot of fun. I dated older women casually, one was 47 and also women around my age too. When it come to the crunch I felt a lot more comfortable with women my age. Plus bigger age gaps have higher divorce rates.

I never want to see the inside of a family court chamber again!!... 2 years of hell and 50k+ in lawyers fees, just isnít worth it in my experience. I donít think Iíd cope when sheís having a midlife crisis exit affair at 40 and iím facing the dating market again at retirement age. Iíve read more than a few larger age gap FSU marriages go that way.

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #16 on: January 15, 2021, 12:30:22 PM »
So great to have discussions about women rather than politics !
Hillary, Monica...!! Are you there anywhere....?

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« Reply #17 on: January 15, 2021, 12:37:54 PM »
the Don gives a new meaning to behaving badly. His escapades will rule them all.


Hillary, Monica...!! Are you there anywhere....?

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #18 on: January 15, 2021, 01:28:24 PM »

Iíve mentioned this previously to trench, but Iíve noticed a lot higher reply rate during covid too. My thoughts are that less men are using dating sites due to difficulties with travel and are holding off meeting women online, so women with less opinions are more inclined to answer every message they receive. At a guess probably seeing a 70% reply rate V 50% in the past .... Itís definitely higher than pre-covid times. I also included pictures of me in Russia in my profile, which probably makes a difference too.
 


You do know that women are answering messages from previously undesirables!!! Cameraguymn & Davo?? ))
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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #19 on: January 15, 2021, 01:29:01 PM »
Two other examples.
Gal 1 spending first night-over with me.
In morning, I was shaving (cream and blade).
She stood in doorway watching me.
I asked what was the interest.
She said hadn't seen man shave for a long time, and it made her feel good.

Gal 2 spent a month with me.
She went to work each day.
When she was returning home, said all the way home she felt so great knowing someone would be waiting for her.

ML, did you ever catch women smiling for no apparent reason other than being in your company. There were many instances of this but the three that stuck in my mind were...

I first noticed it on a bus ride to her city on day 2. I was tired and dosing, occasionally iíd be jolted awake glance over to see her with a huge beaming smile that she tried to hide when she noticed I was awake and watching.

Iíd meet her off to the side of the lifts on my floor after buzzing her up. The first few days Iíd catch her walking out of the lift already with the biggest grin before she noticed me waiting for her.

The same again in my apartment, iíd catch her smiling to herself constantly and sheíd blush when she noticed me watching her. The last day I snuck around my apartment while we were cleaning up and took a video of her doing this.... she had the cutest smile.

Anther story.... After seeing me off at the train station, she planned to return to my apartment and pick up a few items she left there then go home. It would have taken her no more than 45 minutes. I messaged a few hours later and she was still there.... She said ďIím still here and I can still smell your cologneĒ I guess she was just sitting reflecting on our time together, in a place she felt close to me.

All of those instances have nothing to do with with me coming from a wealthy country... Itís just a strong emotional connection and great chemistry that canít be faked.
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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #20 on: January 15, 2021, 02:11:36 PM »
Nothing is guaranteed. I'm not ever surprised by life - and after 2020 - nothing will surprise me - even zombies.

True and I should know this. There was only a year difference between my ex and I and our relationship could be compared to the horror of a zombie invasion 😂

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #21 on: January 15, 2021, 02:28:04 PM »
even if I'm picked last...I'm picked :)


You do know that women are answering messages from previously undesirables!!! Cameraguymn & Davo?? ))

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« Reply #22 on: January 15, 2021, 03:07:32 PM »
even if I'm picked last...I'm picked :)


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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #23 on: January 15, 2021, 03:49:44 PM »

You do know that women are answering messages from previously undesirables!!! Cameraguymn & Davo?? ))

😂

I had a BBQ with my mate and his happy married Russian wife over Xmas. She laughed when I said her husbands not that special... He had a pulse and could board a plane... thatís all she required in a man 😉

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Re: Much better response from women now...
« Reply #24 on: January 16, 2021, 02:24:25 AM »
He had a pulse and could board a plane... thatís all she required in a man 😉
The old RW used to say "a little better looking than a monkey is good enough". I discussed this with GMIL some years back before she passed. She smiled and explained that there was more...."providing the monkey is especially good looking"....😉

 

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