the WHOLE WORLD IS ABOUT "SELF INTEREST"
women choose men who have the ability to satisy "their needs"
same way we do, to satisy ours
they choose from one set of criteria, and we choose using another (T&A)
think of it as a "barrier to entry" to keep out horny low life Incel males from the dating market becuz they have nothin to contribute
you want a tall gorgeous playboy centerfold to oogle in the shower and become yur lawfully wedded spouse?
what do you have to offer in return?
quid pro quo - where's yur quid HOME BOY?
smart guys have wealth and accomplishments and abilities and knowledge
and offer safety and comfort to women in exchange for their "services"
been goin on fer thousands of years
once I "wized up" this perspective worked quite well fer me!!
every place has a "dating market"
depending on the local demographics
yur worth in foreign dating markets can be dramatically higher than yur "appraised fair market value" in yur home country
this is how you gain leverage in the dating market, through information leading to action
see
www.behorneynomore.combut this favors smart, rich guys
and not dumb poor ones
Darwin called this "Natural Selection"
so it's "ALL natural" and 100% Organic
alas, poor Bee Farmer, a fellow of infinite jest
who bared his Incel soul for us to mock and ridicule
while showing us the fragility of the "human condition"
a random representative of the great mass of humanity living lives of "quiet desperation"
I guess buddha was right about desire and suffering
upon reflection, my only desire - is to desire nothing
the more you posess, the more your posessions start posessing you and become a burden
the only physical asset you should own in the USA, is a property-tax free farm that borders a major highway
the more you work "outside the system" the better off yur gonna be
you need to learn blue collar skills and have yur own blue collar buisiness, like plumbing, etc, and find a niche for yourself and be INDEPENDENT
if you work for somebody else, you lose at least half the value of yur work as their profit, compared to doing the same job for your own profit
hundreds of years ago, pre-Industrial revolution
the UK was a nation of Bakers, Smiths, Potters
before they ended up workin at slave wage levels in the dark satanic mills of Birmingham
in "The Real World"
yur primary focus as an adult man, is to figure out how to make money ENTIRELY on yur own, and NOT just take a paycheck from somebody else
after that...yur free to pretty much do whatever else you want with yur life, how and when and where ya want
capische?