Trip Report: Kherson, Ukraine 8/31 - 9/6/2006

[Bruno]

Having said this, the friendship stage must turn to romance within a relative short period of time. If not, then she is not serious about you as a man.

My friendship stage was almost one year... is it a short periode of time ?

Of course, when we have begin communicate herself was not seeking a foreign husband... We was simply friend... With time, we have know each other better... and one day, we have begin feel more that friendship for each other...

[Turboguy]

I think your case was a little unique Bruno and has hopefully turned into something very special. I think for most of us seriosly hunting a lifemate if it does not turn into a romance fairly quickly we are probably spining our wheels. I love having friends, and you can never have to many but time does not stand still and the time we have to persue our dreams is not infinate.

[David1963]

 I have been on 10 trips in total myself, though over a much broader period of time and several of those were to see one woman with whom things ultimately didn't work out. 

I don't know, 10 trips and can't seem to get things to work out.  It could just be bad luck or is there something about you are the process you using?

I agree Kevins agency is top-notch.  They do have many women late 20's early 30's in the agency without kids.  Maybe your being to picky about looks, or are blinded by the younger bodies.

Need to figure it out before you make your next trip.

Try writing to 15 or so ladies you like before the trip and weed out a few of the incompatibilities there.

Good luck next time.

David

[av8or1]

I don't know, 10 trips and can't seem to get things to work out.  It could just be bad luck or is there something about you are the process you using?

Hi David,

Well collectively 5 of the 10 were to see two women (different times of course) with whom I had a committed relationship.  Both times the women bailed just when I mentioned the subject of "paperwork".  One before I filed, one after.  So yeah, I'd say it was bad luck and also me ignoring some of the red flags.

I agree Kevins agency is top-notch.  They do have many women late 20's early 30's in the agency without kids.  Maybe your being to picky about looks, or are blinded by the younger bodies.

Need to figure it out before you make your next trip.

I'm sensing some flack from you on this issue, don't know why.  I've been using KG for over 2 years now and would have to disagree with your conclusion about women in their late 20's/early 30's w/o children.  It's never been that way.  They're either quite young with no children or older with children.  'Not a knock against KG, it just works out that way most of the time I think.  My guess is that the type of woman I am looking for is the type of woman that many men look for, so such women don't need to join an agency, but that's just a stab......and a gut feeling...

Try writing to 15 or so ladies you like before the trip and weed out a few of the incompatibilities there.

Good luck next time.

Duh.  I don't think I'll do the WOVO thing again, eventhough it's more in-line with my one-woman man personality.  Thanks for the well wishes all the same.

Best to all,

Jerry