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Offline William3rd

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Re: Caught her cheating
« Reply #125 on: January 07, 2007, 10:29:08 AM »
Signs of a Cheating Wife
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy.
2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
4) She buys herself new underwear.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down.
7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes.
8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring.
10) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on her neck or back.
11) She suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
12) She works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
13) Her clothes smell of an unfamiliar cologne.
14) She begins to shower as soon as she comes home from work or school.
15) She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
16) Her co-workers or friends are uncomfortable in your presence.
17) She has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
18) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
19) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
20) You find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse.
21) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy"
22) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
23) She has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
24) He/She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
25) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
26) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
27) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
28) She starts spending more time out of the house with her "friends."

Here are a few warnings for you. One or two isolated incidents may not be a big thing but things like BCs or an accumulation of incidents mean you should get a PI quickly just to confirm her integrity.



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Re: Caught her cheating
« Reply #126 on: January 07, 2007, 03:13:12 PM »
This whole situation is giving me a headache!!! I just feel so bad

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Here is a new twist on DV charges
« Reply #127 on: January 10, 2007, 10:31:27 AM »
Kidd Accuses Wife of 'Cruelty' in Divorce Filing
Nets Star Says Wife Mentally, Physically Abused Him
By BETH DeFALCO
AP Sports
TRENTON, N.J. (Jan. 9) - New Jersey Nets  star Jason Kidd  filed for divorce from his wife of 10 years Tuesday, accusing her of "extreme cruelty" throughout their marriage.

In the dissolution papers, filed in state Superior Court in Bergen County, Kidd accuses Joumana Kidd of physically and mentally abusing him, threatening to make false domestic violence complaints against him to police, and of interfering with his relationship with his children

"The defendant's extreme and unwarranted jealousy and rage has left the plaintiff concerned about her emotional stability," the papers say.

The divorce filing came less than a day after the 33-year-old NBA player filed a domestic violence complaint seeking a temporary restraining order against his wife.

"Jason Kidd filed for divorce from his wife today on the grounds of extreme cruelty over a long period of time," Kidd's attorney, Madeline Marzano-Lesnevich, said in a statement Tuesday.

Kidd scored 10 points Tuesday night as the Nets  beat the Toronto Raptors  101-86.

"I can't talk about my personal stuff," he said afterward. "I hope you guys will respect this tough situation my family is going through and that we can resolve this as quickly as possible.

"There is really no distraction," Kidd said. "This is my job."

His complaint, however, paints a detailed portrait of Joumana Kidd as a vitriolic, jealous and paranoid wife prone to public outbursts and threats, including during a recent Nets game.

According to the complaint, Joumana Kidd used the couple's 8-year-old son on Dec. 27 to sneak into the Nets locker room and rummage through Jason Kidd's locker to find his cell phone. After looking up the names and numbers on it, the complaint said she left her son behind as she went upstairs to take a front row seat, where she shouted insults at Kidd throughout the game.

The papers accuse Joumana Kidd of kicking, hitting, punching and throwing household objects at her husband as she became "increasingly controlling and manipulative" in the last few years of their union.

According to Kidd, his wife had tracking devices installed on his cars and computers and has harassed his trainer, friends and family.

The Kidds were married in 1997 and live in Saddle River. They were involved in a domestic violence matter six years ago when he was playing for the Phoenix Suns .

In that incident, Jason Kidd was arrested in January 2001 after his wife told police he hit her during an argument over their son, Trey Jason (T.J.), who was 2 at the time. Kidd pleaded guilty to spousal abuse, was fined $200 and ordered to take anger management training.

Besides 8-year-old T.J., the Kidds have 4-year-old twin daughters, Miah and Jazelle.

Despite the numerous accusations by Kidd in the complaint, he did not ask for sole custody of the children.

"It is in the best interest that the parties share physically and legal custody of the children," the complaint said.

Kidd will make more than $18 million this season.

The Kidds' home phone number is unlisted. An after-hours message left for Joumana Kidd's lawyer was not immediately returned.


Copyright 2007 The Associated Press.

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Re: Caught her cheating
« Reply #128 on: January 29, 2007, 06:25:31 PM »
The case was ordered dismissed last Tuesday.  The temporary PFA order was also dismissed.  The Special Master ruled that there was not enough evidence after considering the case for three weeks.

Note that I did not say that I won.  No one wins in this situation.

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Re: Caught her cheating
« Reply #129 on: January 29, 2007, 06:52:56 PM »
Do NOT let her come back. Do NOT go near her or her BF. You are lucky this time.

Stick with whatever game plan your family law attorney comes up with. If it were CA on your facts, I would push for annulment.

Good luck to you in the future.


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Re: Caught her cheating
« Reply #130 on: January 29, 2007, 07:21:51 PM »
The case was ordered dismissed last Tuesday.  The temporary PFA order was also dismissed.  The Special Master ruled that there was not enough evidence after considering the case for three weeks.

Note that I did not say that I won.  No one wins in this situation.

Maybe not a win - but from what I know of the legal system, you dodged a HUGE bullet. It must be a gigantic relief.

- Dan

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Re: Caught her cheating
« Reply #131 on: January 29, 2007, 08:28:22 PM »
Congratulations that you were not branded with the scarlet letter "A" for Abuser. Now follow William's advice and stay far away from her. I would go one step further and screen your calls.

Maxx 

 

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