Will you meet many women?

[Albert]

I am gearing up for my next business trip to FSU and associated WMVM situation.

I have dated over 150 FSU women, so I don't need advice on how to do this in general.

However, just thought I would ask for some suggestions on how to handle the women who ask up front about the possibility that I will meet other women.

Ordinarily I just drop any woman who seems concerned about this.

But, I have a situation with a woman who is very appealing to me from several angles.  In response to my first nice, one page letter, she responds with only one sentence:  "Will you meet many women?"

I was just going to delete her, but then got to thinking about what snappy comebacks I could send to her that might charm her into not making an issue out of this.

So ladies and gentlemen, what are your suggestions?

For this time only, let's not get into discussions about WMVM vs WOVO and other variations.

[Todd]

How about an honest one:

"I sure hope not." implying that you will if you have to, but everyone here I'm sure would much rather have a fantastic week with just one woman than talking about superficial topics with 20 women.

[Elen]

150 women :shock:and found no one:? It's time to look more closely into a mirror and look for answers there

[Elen]

I was just going to delete her, but then got to thinking about what snappy comebacks I could send to her that might charm her into not making an issue out of this.

No comments :?

 

PS Tell her about those 150s it will charm her for sure:D


 

[Todd]

Don't let Elen tease you too badly...I've dated over 300 AW's...only 1 RW though...

[Elen]

Well then it may be a solution  for Albert. Let he bring the amount of dates with Russians women up to 300s and after that return back to America and find one AW who he deserves:P

[Photo Guy]

Albert,
The first thing that comes to mind, is  ..do you understand why
it might be an issue for her? Here's the thing: most women need
to feel like they are unique and extra-special, rather than one
among many. You can say that's silly or impractical, but it's
a reality. So you are forced to choose between truth and deception.
Your choice will decide who you are(your character) for the person you
form a relationship with. But, you probably already know that.

You are forced to choose deception, if you are going to date many
women in a short amount of time. The best version of that approach would be the 'Don't ask, don't tell' scenario, but that doesn't work if she asks. If she asks, it means she is telling you that she needs you to focus only on her. (charm will not help)  Truth will only work, if you actually focus on just one woman. If you try to combine honesty and
multiple dating, you will probably scare away the best women, in my opinion.
  Doug

[Photo Guy]

Well then it may be a solution  for Albert. Let he bring the amount of dates with Russians women up to 300s and after that return back to America and find one AW who he deserves:P

That was brilliant. I am beginning to understand your ironic humor.
 Doug:D

[Elen]

you make a progress in right direction, PhotoGuy:D

[BC]

Again, meeting 150 women and actually dating them is a BIG difference.

Yeah 150 beautiful pre-selected women and not one good one in the bunch.. I think I would feel quite rejected under the circumstances.

[Rvrwind]

Yeah 150 beautiful pre-selected women and not one good one in the bunch.. I think I would feel quite rejected under the circumstances.
 

I think I would give up, period. Time to purchase a new mirrror!

RVR

Canadian Cowboy

[BC]

So ladies and gentlemen, what are your suggestions?

Be honest, tell her you will meet many others and learn to live with the response/rejection.

If I were this woman, unless there was something about you that was very very very appealing I probably wouldn't give the time of day..

Your statement "Ordinarily I just drop any woman who seems concerned about this."  -Isn't this just a 'workaround' for a possible rejection?  The best decisions on how to proceed are based on prior experience.. which you seem to be trying to avoid.  Yeah it's easier to just 'drop' than face facts.

[Elen]

Wonder what words would charm Albert himself after his woman toldl him she dated with more than 150 males?:? (and he's just number 151)

What's your variant for charm in such situation Albert?

 

[TheArrow]

I remembered one Russian joke reading all these posts -

"One guy tells his girl - Baby, you are like a central heater for me. She asks - Am I as warm as it is? He replies - Nope, you are too skinny (having prominent ribs). Then she says - Well...... And you are like the Boeing Airplane for me? He asks with a hope - Is my dick as big as this plane? She replies - No, dear. You just have the same number. You are the 747th man in my life".

[BC]

:D:D:D

[Fiorella]

I understand why Albert is still alone - he just drop all decent women who can be good partners to a decent man. And meet only these with low selfesteem, or want to use him or are just desperate to have an american of all possible ways.

[Albert]

I haven't seen one reply yet that addressed the question I asked.

And, apparently no one remembers at all what has been written before in other threads.

I am not 'looking for a wife.'  I am following normal dating procedures just like AM and AW do, and like RM and RW do.   I am not adverse to getting married.

Following the methods and mind sets of many guys here, I would have found 'the one' about 120 times.

[Elen]

If so then why do bother yourself and ask sfor any advice?

Let drop one more woman and find some new silly hen :? who you would drop as well (or scammer:P who'd empty your wallet)

I am following normal dating procedures just like AM and AW do, and like RM and RW do.   I am not adverse to getting married.

 

Actually in any NOTMAL RW and RM dating the only one hint you are going to meet with somebody else will put an end to that "procedure" of yours. Is' not that the same to AW/AM datings?

[TheArrow]

I understand why Albert is still alone - he just drop all decent women who can be good partners to a decent man. And meet only these with low selfesteem, or want to use him or are just desperate to have an american of all possible ways.

You are right. His motto is - not quality but quantity. LOL

Easy get to - easy to go away. Va'ammmm-Ba'ammm-Da'ammm. Thank you madam.

This is sick, sorry

[Fiorella]

I haven't seen one reply yet that addressed the question I asked.

And, apparently no one remembers at all what has been written before in other threads.

I am not 'looking for a wife.'  I am following normal dating procedures just like AM and AW do, and like RM and RW do.   I am not adverse to getting married.

Following the methods and mind sets of many guys here, I would have found 'the one' about 120 times.

So, are you just sex-tourist?

[TheArrow]

[user=36]albert[/user] wrote: I am not 'looking for a wife.'  I am following normal dating procedures just like AM and AW do, and like RM and RW do.   I am not adverse to getting married.

Do not judge ALL Russian women by those who you met and dated.

I know, it's NORMAL for American to have "one-night-stands".

 

[Photo Guy]

Albert is probably the result of the late 1960's and 1970's in
the US. During those years, recreational sex was the norm,
'love the one you are with', anything goes, casual sex kind of thing.
That mentality is still a widespread mentality. Also, marriage was
often avoided during those years, replaced by career and
recreational sex. The pendulum has moved in the other direction
since then.
What were the 70's like in the USSR? non-sexual?
and Europe? Bruno?    Doug

[BC]

I haven't seen one reply yet that addressed the question I asked.

Hmm.. thought I did.. just reread my post.. looked like a decent answer to me. :?

Might want to hook up with the lone army ranger who is planning socials in odessa.. might help put some more notches on that pistol..

[Photo Guy]

I was just going to delete her, but then got to thinking about what snappy comebacks I could send to her that might charm her into not making an issue out of this.
So ladies and gentlemen, what are your suggestions?

Oh, I get it. You want suggestions about what to say to charm her,
to evade the issue she wants to address. Isn't that 'style over substance'? It isn't simply that she wants to 'make it an issue'. It is important to her, so it should also be important to the guy of her dreams. If you do not want a woman who feels that way, tell her what you think, rather than charming her. If you charm her, the issue will still pop up later. Maybe she doesn't think it is an important issue, but she just wants to see how you squirm, for the fun of it. In the beginning, you don't know much about motivations.   Doug

[Albert]

BC, sorry, you are right.  You did give a direct answer.  "Be honest, tell her you will meet many others and learn to live with the response/rejection."

OK, but now let's analyze what that will accomplish.  As I stated, I wrote a nice one page letter.  She sent a one sentence reply.  So, it is very obvious that  if I give her your answer, then she will eliminate me.  So, in that case, why should I even reply?

And what are we to think of a woman who sends a one sentence reply to a very nice letter?  Aren't women, like men are required to be, supposed to be able to look at the big picture and not be focused on the size of a person's ass, tits, etc.  So isn't she saying that she is one dimensional and is not willing to consider at all the many good qualities that a person may have?  Meet one criteria or goodbye!