New Guy needs help--RussianUkraine babes for real?

[jinx13]

Jesus Ken, give it a rest

 Never said it was a cakewalk, maybe you should have waited right Ken?, and then you would have never met Lena, great advice.

 So his son will move out the day he graduates highschool? Maybe he should wait until he graduates college, or hey why not wait until his son gets married, then maybe Dad can finally find a love of his own, it's only 10 or so years of loneliness, no big deal right? 

[KenC]

Sorry Jinx,
I won't "give it a rest" when I see bad advice being given to a newbie from someone that is not experienced in the subject matter.  I corrected you in the kindest and most respectful manner possible, so don't go picking a fight.  We all are wrong sometimes, even you.

I sincerely wanted itdaddy to know that his concerns were valid as experienced through my 8 year relationship and marriage.  Your comments made it sound as though he should have no concerns and there by were misleading.
KenC

[Turboguy]

I can see both sides of it and don't fell Jinx's advice was bad perhaps the "hot" new stepmom was emphasizing the wrong aspect of what we seek but I think Jinx made a good point.

Siding with Jinx first.  I think it is easy to say, well after my son is out of High School, I will do this, then well, maybe I had better let him get going in college, I have all that tuition to pay.   Then it is something else.   As the saying goes why put off for tomorrow what you can do today.   When you throw in that this is not send your order off to Sears and your bride comes gift wrapped in 30 days unless she is backordered.   It may well take two years or more to find the right woman.  Why wait and be lonely and unhappy.

On KenC's side, Adding a step son into the equation does increase the challenges and difficulties of the situation.   It can be hard enough to help an FSU woman adapt to life in America and life with an American man so a teenaged son can well complicate the situation.  Making the trips that are necessary are much harder when we have to arrange for someone to care for the son while we are gone and it does incease the likelihood of someone deciding to be a one week wonder because travel can be hard.

My suggestion.  Spend the next 6-9 months trying to learn a little Russian and reading RWD as much as you can then start trying to find the right gal.   At best you would have her here in two years.   The odds are that it will take longer.   By the time she would be here the son would be off in college and any added strain from the son would be minor.  Not that a son in college can't be a major problem.  A son any age can be anything.

[jb]

I will be educationg myself the next 5 years. After my son graduates high school in 2 years then I will take a trip! my son comes first, I will be only 42. young pup! hahaha
damn those RW and UW Damn those babes!

that chick is hot aye!? hahhaa
oops "hand get back up here!" ahahah

Frankly, I've seen the words "Hot Babes" a little to often in ITdaddies posts.

And 5 years down the road it's very likely the MOB market will have evaporated in the FSU as the economy continues to improve dramatically.  As far as the "Hottie" link he supplied up thread,,, that sure looked like scam bait to me.  Besides, ITGuy, that girl is 20, do you think she, or one of her lookalikes in 5 years, is going to be interested in a 42 y.o. guy with little money?  You need a serious reality check.

Just MHO.

[Turboguy]

I have to agree with jb.  If your thinking is 5 years out I would suggest looking at Asian and Latin American sites too.   I think those possibilities will still be viable.  The FSU possibilities may or may not be.

When I hear someone talking about hot babes it reminds me of someone thinking with the wrong head.  Some of us have enough trouble thinking with the big head, the little one is nothing but trouble.

[jb]

I have to agree with jb.

God forbid...........

[Turboguy]

Yes, writing those words were like getting teeth pulled out.    :yech:

[jb]

sans Novocaine???

[BillyB]

 and my big question. is can they handle a country boy! i dont live like you guys do in the big cities and throw big bucks around like you all have; can a girl from russia like the simple country like (not real back woods) just country.

itdaddy,

Just be honest with who you are and where you live. If you write enough women, you're bound to find someone who likes you for yourself instead of where you live. In my intro letter I sent women a decent photo of myself and one in my construction clothes and told them I sometimes come home dirty and live a normal life. I'm sure that turned many women off but that left me with the sincere women who were into me and the usual goldiggers, GCG's, and scammers who could care less.

[itdaddy]

Hey Dudes,

I was going to address names who hammered me but that is okay!
Okay, Okay! First I only show that post of that hot babe for wizdom sake and sharing some thoughts on what you guys thought! And so I say "hot babes!" a lot! At least I am very honest! I am wise! It is just I am very honest! I understand it takes more than a hot babe. I like personality. And for one, being even 39 would never date for a serious relationship a girl who is 20. I was just mentioning a point with that link. Be honest. I am. And I can take the comments about my English and synatx and spelling. I know I purposefully write like crap! hahaha  You guys are tough; but nice! and very wise! I like it that you defend me while I am gone and bash me while I am gone. You guys make me laugh! And yeah, from reading on how much it cost to bring a FW and UW wife back you almost have to make 70K a year to be able to do that! And from just my analysis, you all make pretty good money! I don't yet and in five years I will be making close to 70K starting off! But that is at 45. And the lowest I would consider dating is 27 but would more like 28 to 30ish when I am 45. Sexy is nice but usually get sexy and dumb! Oh crap I mention sexy! that must mean I think with my little head! Like none of you havent! I have gone to Colombia and been to agencies there. I am just getting advice in advance and from the looks of it. Very many guys have been battle damaged! That is why I take the snyper router like I/O suggested. Gather data and then plan! I say 5 years but it could be only 3. The best bet from all this talk has been to go out there myself and check it out! I just need a good agency! Thanks guys you are great! I love the tension! Cool!
It is good to have you guys in the forum. Nice to see all the good advice. I just laugh sometimes at you dudes in a good way!
Okay okay! my writing sucks! and I love hot babes! I am guilty!
Guess I am the only honest dude! "OOOps there goes my hand I/O!"
HAHHAHa. I am just playing! I am serious. Just get schocked at
so much mayhem! With the RW are great but will cost you a pretty penny! I can see that! Thanks dudes! for all the great input!
Even smart remarks! I can take it!
 

[jb]

itdaddy,

Not a question of hammers, vato, you just opened some doors that shouldn't have been left ajar. You gave us, TMI... (to much information).  if you want people to be always nice and kind to you, to tell you what you want to hear,,, be careful about what you say,, better to lie and hide some things from us, that way we never know the truth about what you say.  We promise to always blow sunshine up your backside if that's what you want, and we promise never to tell you anything bad when you are leaping off the cliff for a scammer.

Your choice, Amigo.  Don'cha just love it?

[itdaddy]

jb

love it! I love sunshine blown up my A$$.
hahahahah. I understand. Too much testosterone! man! way too much! I get it! I love it rough! I can stand the heat though
!
I do appreciate candid people! But let loose once in awhile dudes
Let us stupid guys who think with their little heads remind you how smart you guys are now!! hahahah I am getting there. Turning 40 you know! Should be about time huh?

I have not been hammered too much by women! So I am still stupid!
hahahaha
cool site! I appreciate all your comments smart-ass and not so smart-ass. I take them all dudes!
Thanks
right on!

[itdaddy]

BillyB
thanks for the advice. OOOh shocking reading my post you put in quotes; I do write like shit! I need to slow down and type normal and read my post; I sound like a true okeee from pinokee!
I sound like a retart. hahhah oh my gosh! Thanks BillyB!
hahahahahah

[jb]

esta bueno?? vato...

Just for you, my friend, a one time offer. I will not tell you the truth about anything regarding FSU women.  Everything I tell you will be a lie.  Never read a post from me and believe it, and never accept anything I say at face value.

It is a good thing to write to a "hottie" for 5 years, and never plan to visit her.

Go for it~!!!

[LEGAL]

Itdaddy You know you are in a great crowd with the best of the best!
There a tough crowd but believe me the information is priceless.
Remember read and learn from others mistakes. HMM country boy or redneck is the question?   I hope it is country boy because I don't know how FSU woman take to rednecks 

Sincerely
LEGAL

[itdaddy]

jb
you are loco man! funny! trust me not 5 years you bonehead!
just 2 after my son graduates; i can wait 2 years more!
all my parts still work! oops I hinted at my parts! I mean my little head! hahaahhaha Just gathering information. I would rather visit there not write!

[itdaddy]

Legal,
country boy!; dont let my red goatie fool you.
I can tell these guys are great! battle-damaged means wisdom!
i will stick around!
cool!

[jb]

Hey ,T/G~!... How do you like my new cheerleader outfit?  Pretty snazzie, huh?  Now I can encourage these guys to jump off the cliff as well as you can.   Lemme see here,,, he'll be 42,,, subtract 38,,,, he will be chasing a 4 year old...  Gawd,,, I just love being able to give GOOD advice for a change.

itdaddy, there almost always is a point to my maddness.  Sometimes they get it, sometimes they don't.

[Turboguy]

Hey ,T/G~!... How do you like my new cheerleader outfit?  Pretty snazzie, huh?  Now I can encourage these guys to jump off the cliff as well as you can.   Lemme see here,,, he'll be 42,,, subtract 38,,,, he will be chasing a 4 year old...  Gawd,,, I just love being able to give GOOD advice for a change.

itdaddy, there almost always is a point to my maddness.  Sometimes they get it, sometimes they don't.

Cool.  Heck with me I only get accused of having madness in my point.

[itdaddy]

jb
you are killing me. well you know after reading this entire site
and figuring it will cost me 100K just to get jump started with a super dooper great RW. I need to time to do the  math! Or
creat an algorithm to do it for me!

you are funny! I like sick sarcastic intense humor? Now where is that
wonderful cliff you were talking about. I am ready to jump, sir!
 

[itdaddy]

JB
I just read your pm to me. I hear you. I agree 100 percent.
That is sick! and for me any more she definitely has to be a mature say 24 or 27. Or no freaking way! been there done that! I will just struggle due to me having the sickness all men are plagued with.
But everyone says I look 32. That gives me some edge. 
But thanks; you are a cool dude! I really dont like waiting.
But my son needs his dad, not another teenage friends jasing puntang! But I think at 42 I should have a chance! And by then
I should be done with my network enginner certs and my MCSE cert
I am shooting to be Microsoft Certified engineer and Network engineer. I am on my way. Then the $$ will roll in for the nice proper RW.
see you guys later; great chating. will be back for more!

[Stirlitz]

Stirlitz, I know my writing sucks

In fact, it is not only a matter of looking ‘educated’ but also the understanding issue. I still remember my little problems when I could not understand a word and it could not be found in dictionaries. I would get stymied. Years later, when I reviewed some of my student books, now that I know English much better, sometimes I could not realize what was the problem. Wanna? = want to. Dunno? I don’t know. Aint? = are not (rather than aunt as I would think back then). Sometimes a typo which is not even noticed by native speakers can render a whole sentence unreadable by a Ukrainian who is struggling to learn some English. As you are going to correspond with such, that is another reason to pay attention to your writing. It is as simple as pressing one key (F7).

[SANDRO43]

Itdaddy, I would also suggest that you drop the hilarious act and "everything-is-so-totally-jolly" attitude when communicating with FSUW (and others). It comes across very badly .

[itdaddy]

Stirlitz,
thanks; hey i like your avatar! very cool!

Sandro43,
be happy don't worry! I am talking to my buds! You dont talk to your mother the same as you talk to you buddies do you? Of course not, I will take that as a help of correction! I am who I am!
  But thanks I think!

[Stirlitz]

thanks; hey i like your avatar! very cool!

You are welcome.

Well, some people do not like it and even call me stupid