Is it really what it looks like??

[Pike]

I have exchanged 4 messages with this lady.  She has Univ education and good paying job.  Dresses very nicely and goes on vacations to Turkey, Egypt, etc.  Good shape and nice face.  She sends several pics with each msg.  One previous pic suggested it to me, but I didn't believe it.  Now it looks pretty certain.  And even in a formal dress.  Her religion listed as Christian, so that can't be explanation.

Not sure I can deal with it.  What do ya'll think?

And should I say something to her about it?

[Gator]

Pike,

I agree.  I could never live with a woman whose head was shaped like a keystone.

You say it's not the head.  Then it must be the body hair - no problem.  Slavic women people have minimal body hair and it is soft and fine in texture.  In real life, you will become accustomed to it, and maybe love it. 

This was the look in Europe for a long time.  It never bothered me, and some of those women had enough to braid.

[BillyB]

I could live with the armpit hair if she was a great person. If you plan on saying something about it to her, then assume you will insult her.

Pike, have you read "Trippin in St. Pete"? Posting a pic like the one you just did might get you blacklisted at antidate.

[Kuna]

Pike,

I'm with you... I couldn't do it.  Call me a freak but I'm just not into women with body hair.

Perhaps you can raise it in a sensitive way... Perhaps not.  If things go well maybe it's something you can raise at a later date.

It's a tough one that's for sure.

Sorry I'm not much help but I agree you when you say you don't know if you could live with it.

 

Kuna

[Lily]

If other things could be so easily eliminated like bodyhair, life would be no problem! 

[SANDRO43]

It looks more like a case of "delayed maintenance" to me (hair is short and sparse) . I'd wait for her future pics, and you could tell her you'd like to see one where she waves "Hello" to you .

[Nando]

Agree with Sandro, just need some routine maintenance

[Gator]

RW are fastidious about their appearance, a quality I relish.

Most remove essentially all body hair, and because their hair is sparse, many do not shave their legs but use an electrical epilation devices. 

This woman seems different from other RW.  If she did perform scheduled maintenance, I think she would not let it slide when wearing an evening gown and posing for a photo.  She may be a "natural woman"; they are interesting. 

Again, Slavic body hair is sparse and finely textured based on my few samples.  Try it; you may like it.

It seems like a silly reason to eliminate a woman.  However, I am not you.

[Daveman]

Well, it possibly could be, but if she's a normal woman, it won't be long until she'll want to be messing with the length and style of your hair, the shape (or existence) of your beard, etc. 

If you like her, don't let it bug you now. If she knows you don't find it attractive, she'll take care of it without a hassle.  She will want to look good for you, and I just don't think she'd have an issue with it at all.

Listen to Lily here...

If other things could be so easily eliminated like bodyhair, life would be no problem!

From a woman's perspective, it's nothing... so don't let it bother you *now*.. there will be an opportune moment to raise the question, and then you can simply say something romantic to her like "BLLLEEEEEEEEECCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKK!!!!!! What the heck is THAT??? EGGGHHHHH!!!!!"   And that subtle hint should be all the information she will need to understand the situation.   

Don't worry, it won't be the battle of Underarmageddon!!

Dave

[Lily]

However, he should be very careful about letting her know about that. No way he should tell it straight. Probably he could say about his dislike for bodyhair when observing some other woman while his lady is watching and listening. For instance, 'this [celebrity name] is pretty but those awkward thick hair in her underarm look absolutely disgusting! How could she..."etc etc.

[Rvrwind]

Most remove essentially all body hair, and because their hair is sparse, many do not shave their legs but use an electrical epilation devices.

I'm glad you said most!! I'll probably make the Antidate blacklist for this but here goes.
When I was dating in my search I met a lady in Moscow & she had hair on her breasts, yes I said breasts & it was not new hair but as long as what I have on my chest. Centered around her nipples. It was a deffinite turn off!! It wasn't all that 'sparse' either.
It didn't seem to faze her but it didn't do a lot for me, LOL.
Needless to say, tact was not on the tip of my tongue!!!

[Rim]

It looks more like a case of "delayed maintenance" to me (hair is short and sparse) . I'd wait for her future pics, and you could tell her you'd like to see one where she waves "Hello" to you .

Delayed maintenance is even worse, because that would imply that she doesn't keep herself very well groomed.

[ScottinCrimea]

My wife didn't like the hair under my arms (maybe because I braided it every morning?) and suggested that I shave.  At first the idea seemed strange and "unmanly" to me but after I tried it, I found that I liked it much better and now provide regular maintenance.  Maybe that's one way to handle it.  Shave your own and tell her how great it looks and feels.  It seems only fair to not ask her to do something that you are not willing to do yourself

[I/O]

I see a "Downward" trend developing here.

I/O

[Rim]

ScottinCrimea,
If I were whipped enough to let my wife tell me to shave my underarms, I wear long sleeve shirts and never admit it on a public forum. (joke)

[ScottinCrimea]

Whipped and proud of it!  :crackthewhip: :crackthewhip: :crackthewhip: :crackthewhip:

[Daveman]

Geeeeeeeez Scott, I/O!  Now those are visual images I didn't need this close to nap time! LoL  Where are my anti-nightmare pills





Lily: you really think BLECK! would be offensive? I thought all Russian Women loved direct honesty! 

[Son of Clyde]

Those hairy underarms are detracting from her keystone head. This is the next item to work on correcting.

[wxman]

I see a "Downward" trend developing here.

I/O

No blade shall ever pass that way. I really do not wish to sing several octaves higher! 

[ScottinCrimea]

But if I don't shave, who's gonna see my tattoo?   

[I/O]

No blade shall ever pass that way. I really do not wish to sing several octaves higher! 

B..b...bb but I see arguements developing elsewhere along the lines, "If it is good for the goose, shouldn't it be good for the gander" ?

I/O

[El Rock]

I'd ask for proof  showing that she is a real female  .

I have exchanged 4 messages with this lady.  She has Univ education and good paying job.  Dresses very nicely and goes on vacations to Turkey, Egypt, etc.  Good shape and nice face.  She sends several pics with each msg.  One previous pic suggested it to me, but I didn't believe it.  Now it looks pretty certain.  And even in a formal dress.  Her religion listed as Christian, so that can't be explanation.

Not sure I can deal with it.  What do ya'll think?

And should I say something to her about it?

[Jet]

Those hairy underarms are detracting from her keystone head. This is the next item to work on correcting.

I'm way ahead of you and think I have that all taken care of   

[LEGAL]

Pike dude you better be careful or you will wind up on Kvinna's site.



LEGAL

[wxman]

    Perhaps some guys will need to shave this too.