Fiance.com ... anyone?

[USCFAN]

I've been on the site for 3-4 months and written to several ladies. I haven't been hit up for money by any of them. But most seem to be more into the 'pen-pal' mode rather than seriously looking ...

Just wondering if anyone here has had any experience with this site.

[William3rd]

That would be Anastasia, I believe.

Trojan Pride. . . . .

[Kuna]

I've been on the site for 3-4 months and written to several ladies. I haven't been hit up for money by any of them. But most seem to be more into the 'pen-pal' mode rather than seriously looking ...

Just wondering if anyone here has had any experience with this site.

USCFAN,

Pay-by-letter I take it?

I think you've answered your question yourself.  If you've got women writing to you who aren't serious about developing a relationship - you're in the wrong place!

[USCFAN]

Kuna ...

Not a pay-per-letter site ... one monthly fee and all the letters are free back and forth ...

But yes, I'm leaving the site ... not one of the ladies I have written too over the last 4 months will provide a phone number or mailing address ... just took a while to sink into my skull 

[Jazzyclassy]

All the crazy sites where you need to pay for something in order to contact the lady are close to scamming

what is the crazy idea? while meeting women somewhere in reality do you need to pay her to ask her mobile phone or for her e-mail address? I do not think so , so why those sites have such cheeky service  you need to pay for everything in order to just contact the woman , maybe she will never suit the guy and he will lose his money ????!!!!!

[catzenmouse]

Fiance.com partners with many of the small local agencies. They are like a warehouse so they have no idea what any of the ladies are really like. If you are interested in someone send them a letter asking who their local contact is in that town. Then, if you want, you can deal with that agency directly rather than through the middleman.

FWIW,
 Ken

[SANDRO43]

Jazzy, your post was just plain dumb .

what is the crazy idea? while meeting women somewhere in reality do you need to pay her to ask her mobile phone or for her e-mail address?

Is your alternative suggestion: get on plane, land in any FSU city, and ask the phone no. of any pretty girl seen walking by ?

so why those sites have such cheeky service you need to pay for everything in order to just contact the woman

Because:
- a website costs money to create/maintain/update
- they want possibly to make a profit out of it, not just recover costs

maybe she will never suit the guy and he will lose his money ???

This also happens in traditional dating, as many divorcees here may confirm.

[IAmZon]

catzenmouse has it right.  That is my experience too.

[Jazzyclassy]

Jazzy, your post was just plain dumb .Is your alternative suggestion: get on plane, land in any FSU city, and ask the phone no. of any pretty girl seen walking by ?Because:
- a website costs money to create/maintain/update
- they want possibly to make a profit out of it, not just recover costsThis also happens in traditional dating, as many divorcees here may confirm.

Oh Sandrinio my dearest , there are plenty of sites which are for free and you can e-mail any girl and ask her mobik for freee, and you can just chat for free and communicate for free via skype too if you wanna phone call

now who's post you call dumb lapochka a?)))

[Nando]

Oh Sandrinio my dearest , there are plenty of sites which are for free and you can e-mail any girl and ask her mobik for freee, and you can just chat for free and communicate for free via skype too if you wanna phone call

now who's post you call dumb lapochka a?)))

Jazzy,

Can you enlight us, poor souls who don't speak Russian where are those sites?
I have use freepersonals and found another Ukrainian site, but it is all in Russian

Cheers

P.S: Sometimes the girl doesn't want to give her mobile phone in the first e-mails because of the amount of crazy WM calling maybe at the middle of the night

[SANDRO43]

Oh Sandrinio my dearest , there are plenty of sites which are for free and you can e-mail any girl and ask her mobik for freee, and you can just chat for free and communicate for free via skype too if you wanna phone call now who's post you call dumb lapochka a?)))

Pity that most of those free sites are scammer-ridden (for instance, from FreeDateZ I mostly receive messages from Nigeria & Senegal), so I shall upgrade your post from dumb to naive .

BTW, you almost got it with SandrinIo: I used to be called Sandrino in my family, to separate me from my father (Ales)Sandro .

[MaxxumUSA]

I've been on the site for 3-4 months and written to several ladies. I haven't been hit up for money by any of them. But most seem to be more into the 'pen-pal' mode rather than seriously looking ...

Just wondering if anyone here has had any experience with this site.

USCFAN,

I thought I suggested this to you in another thread...  Try ElenasModels.com  Sign up for their premium or gold membership - preferrably premium.

You will have a lot of phone numbers, addresses, and real email addresses in no time.

It took me less than 2 weeks on that site to find my Elena.  Very few fake profiles there but they do exist.

Most women I talked to from that site were sincere and serious about finding a good man to marry.

If you make it clear to women that you are serious about meeting in their country they will definitely correspond with you.

PM Me if you need more advice or help.  I posted a profile there and had MANY women writing me first, and nearly all the women I wrote sent me contact information.

- David

[USCFAN]

David ...

Thanks for the input 

I've been burned recently by a couple of 'ladies' from this site and I think I'm going to take a break for a minute and clear my head.

I have heard mixed things about EM ... so I might get in contact with you in a PM in a while to talk about your experience.

Steve

[Jazzyclassy]

Jazzy,

Can you enlight us, poor souls who don't speak Russian where are those sites?
I have use freepersonals and found another Ukrainian site, but it is all in Russian

Cheers

P.S: Sometimes the girl doesn't want to give her mobile phone in the first e-mails because of the amount of crazy WM calling maybe at the middle of the night

Never a problem  about the sites, I found great people on WAYN site, hi5  friendster these were friends sites:) These sites like Top models, or Bride ru are more scamming than normal friends sites! I met actually nice people  on LL but now this site is full of trash so you can just search for some communication friendly sites

[DizzyD]

Hi USCFAN...

I met the lady i am corresponding with through fiance.com and she has given me all the info you refer to

mailing address
home phone
cell phone

she seems like a nice person.... however during the one month i was a member i received letters from more than 50 other ladies ranging in age from 19 to 54... some of them appeared to be average normal ladies but some of them were quite obviously scammers.. one of them was one of the "Miss Wow" ladies and 23 years younger than me, and a quick check revealed that she had already been contacted by over 1200 different men.... I had to ask myself... "with letters from 1200 other men what the heck are you contacting me for" I sent her a gracious reply, declining her invitation..

I think it's probably the sort of place that has both real and "unreal" ladies, like many others do... I am not knowledgeable enough in regard to FSU ladies, to give you any true insight but this is the way it went for me..

DD

[neo]

18 year olds.




good grief.

courtesy of fiance.com

[neo]

another poor 20 year old also from Nikolaev at Fiance.com

Both girls are looking for a man up to 55 who is kind, charming and can afford to buy them a decent coat.

Fiance.com - clothing optional.

[neo]

You see heres another Nikolaev girl too poor to buy clothes at fiance.com

So theres your answer, all these poor nekkid creatures have to use agency email because
they can't afford clothes to get dressed to go to the internet cafe in.

[Bruno]

So theres your answer, all these poor nekkid creatures have to use agency email because
they can't afford clothes to get dressed to go to the internet cafe in.

They are not poor... they are simply in working clothes... and these women are real... they are professional... like these professional who ask 200$ for one hour dating... you know, Bois de Boulogne, paris   

[Misha]

Jazzy,

Can you enlight us, poor souls who don't speak Russian where are those sites?
I have use freepersonals and found another Ukrainian site, but it is all in Russian

Cheers

P.S: Sometimes the girl doesn't want to give her mobile phone in the first e-mails because of the amount of crazy WM calling maybe at the middle of the night

In Russia, ICQ is very popular, and they have an option called "Find a Date": http://www.icq.com/people/?dating=1. Simply specify the country of choice (Russia, Ukraine), age, etc...

[Shadow]

They are not poor... they are simply in working clothes... and these women are real... they are professional... like these professional who ask 200$ for one hour dating... you know, Bois de Boulogne, paris   

Do you mean like the friendly housewives in Amsterdam that ask you to have a cup of coffee  inside with them  ?

[I/O]

Do you mean like the friendly housewives in Amsterdam that ask you to have a cup of coffee  inside with them  ?

Witht he amount of snag those ol' tarts have seen you'd get anything inside th.....ooops I mean inside with them.

I/O