Air Dog Introduction

[Air Dog]

Hello Everyone,

After making a post about how I met my wife, I have been asked by another RWD Forum member to write a little about myself in this section.

Basically, I am a 44 y.o. U.S. Air Force retiree, currently living in my native northern California.  I met my wife Tanya while I was active duty and stationed in Italy.  Tanya is a native of Kiev, Ukraine and is eight years younger than me. We've been married about 7.5 years and have been stateside for five years.

To those of you who are thinking about marrying a lady from the FSU, or are newly married, a few thoughts based on my experience and many discussions with my wife:

1.  Be realistic in your expectations about your bride.  Look for a lady that is not overly, more than ten years, younger than yourself, and is from a compatible educational, social, and moral background.

2.  Don't go into this process thinking that Russian or Ukrainian women are subservient and live only to please their men.  It's simply not true.  Most of the Ukrainian women that I've met, including my Tanya, value close family ties, but are also independent minded and not a door mat.  I was aware of this when I met my wife and they are qualities that I admire.  We are equal partners in this marriage.

3.  Be patient.  The immigration process is long and grueling.  Also, your bride may need several months to adjust to life in her new country. During this time she may be very dependent on you, emotionally, as well as financially, so don't be surprised if she gets depressed.  It's normal.  Just try to be as supportive as you can and realize that mostly likely this phase will pass and she will come to like her new home and family.

4.  Realize that all marriages go through ups and downs.  Marrying a woman from the FSU does not change that.  Hang on tight and work on strengthening what you have in common.

FYI, the man in the background of my avatar is not me.  I found that image on the Web and I liked the big ears of the dog.

Hoping everyone is enjoying the anniversary of America's Declaration of Independence,

Air Dog 

[catzenmouse]

 

Very well said Air Dog!

A hearty welcome and congratulations on your finding and marrying your treasure!

Ken

[Air Dog]

Ken,

After reading some other posts I decided to include a real photo of myself, taken this Monday at work. 

Air Dog

[catzenmouse]

Air Dog,

 Cool! I know that Lily likes that very much. We also have a Gallery area that you can add pictures to if you have something that you would like to share. I try to keep my picture out as I don't want to scare any children that may be viewing the site... My avatar is our just turned seven son Sergei who, as you can tell, loves watermelon!

Ken

[jb]

Hello, Air Dog, and welcome.

[Simoni]

Welcome, Air Dog...you give good adice. We look forward to more posts from you,