OK. That all happened a little too fast AND IN PUBLIC ...
so, it has brought us all closer now:)
I did not want to find a language barrier problem, but maybe I have. For the right woman, I would learn Martian! For now, there is common interest so we will see. Step by step. With the help of RWD members, I crafted a careful letter that should temper enthusiasm while at the same time remaining hopeful.
This requires patients and an open mind.
Thank you all for your well-meaning comments.