Rekindling a romance

[Mir]

Well I have nothing else to say right now and will update if there is any new development.
Meanwhile I leave you with a warning

http://uk.news.yahoo.com/rtrs/20070822/tod-uk-russia-crime-penis-b7e5c6f_1.html

[wiz]

Feel free, just as long as it's not about rekindling your old flame.  I'm not sure any of us is up to that.   

Scottin

If I am right rekindling means with the old flame

and not with the NEW ONE ....... Gator!

Haven't you ever watched a soap opera in your life boys?

Have you ever seen a lioness in her cage?

Well the old soap opera continues, oh it's fun and I enjoy watching it and play my part.

Yesterday she told me she still loves me..... in the morning..... but in the evening she told me "that I never knew what she really wanted out of our relationship and life and will never know".

I pointed out that I have tried out for 10 months to make it work and I did open my mouth and heart and told her countless times what I wanted from our relationship so she knew BUT she never opened her mouth and told me anything so therefore, should I have had to guess it?

Replied YES......

Well I forgot to visit the Old Oracle in Greece.......stupid man I said to myself...you lost your marbles falling for the charmes of the Green eyes.....KenC and JB warned me about the danger of the Green eyes in the "Dilemma"...(OK and many other's) but......I did not listen.

Oh well I may write the full script to entertain Scottin..... he will love it.....while waiting for his wife to arrive....and I hope he will not fall asleep....

Gator

Not sure if I wrote somewhere that my NEW woman is here in the UK for 3 months and we are having a great time. Her English is excellent and she has great sense of humour and she is very active..... LOL.

I have to let her go window shopping because I have already lost another 5 Kilos walking around! These FSU women are very active....and they keep you fit....LOL ......so, with her permission, I am posting a few photos. Mirror knows about it and she thinks the new woman is a Babushka..... but, in my view, a nice and very sexy one!

England at the moment has no good weather .....but I am planning to take her to KOS (best place to impress a lady and for other pleasures.. ...) if my compatriots give her the visa soon, sometime next week.... .

Enough for the moment .... Natalie is calling.... let me know what daya think, so far.

I am very happy.


 

[SANDRO43]

if my compatriots give her the visa soon, sometime next week....

Wiz, does she really need a visa for Greece ? I was under the impression that once in a Schengen country, one could travel freely through the others. Or is the UK a special case, as usual ?

[Mir]

Sandro

UK is not a Schengen country.

Wiz

You two look really great and you sure have lost some weight.

Good luck and have fun

[Turboguy]

Great pics Wiz,  She is a doll and the new trimmer you looks great as well.

I am not sure what you meant by RW being very active but I won't ask.

[Kuna]

wiz,

You've been spending too much time in Russia.  In that last photo you're starting to look like a Russian man because you're not even slightly smiling...   

I'm glad to hear you're happy - but for God's sake... cut the contact with the exes!!!

Kuna

[William3rd]

Uhhhh- is this a brand new saga or a rehash of what has gone on before? If this is about the same tired old exes, then please advise so I can ignore this thread.

[Kuna]

Uhhhh- is this a brand new saga or a rehash of what has gone on before? If this is about the same tired old exes, then please advise so I can ignore this thread.

William.. it's safe... well relativey safe at this stage.  I cautiously read and was relieved it was about a new lady but predictably the old shadow is still around and "in the game" I'd say... 

Let's hope the sun finally goes down one day because shadows can't survive in the dark...

[KenC]

Wiz,
Gosh, I don't understand you.  You come on this thread posting shots a people who are relatively on topic (rekindled romances) and then make posts that are no where near close to the topic at hand.  Start on new thread about your new love life.
KenC

[wiz]

Wiz,
Gosh, I don't understand you.  You come on this thread posting shots a people who are relatively on topic (rekindled romances) and then make posts that are no where near close to the topic at hand.  Start on new thread about your new love life.
KenC

Sorry upsetting you Ken but I asked the permission for the OFF TOPIC and everybody said yes why not.........No I will not start a new thread as I am not going to write much more about my new relationship.

KUNA

You are reading my message correctly about the shadows...... still around, still chasing, still want to know details and access for communication with my new woman to take revenge......but the old fox made sure she can't do the same anymore. My new woman knows everything and she is happy to let me take precaution measures etc. About my appearance sorry but I have been suffering for sometime now of acute attach of bronchitis and now I feel much better.

Let's hope the sun finally goes down one day because shadows can't survive in the dark...

Absolutely my aim and I hope it happens pretty soon but you know yourself...these types don't give up easily. If I can't have you NOBODY will.......and it becomes apparent that finally the penny dropped, realised and admitted that YES I was her best option, which she fucked big time.

OK I make sure next time in Greece I smile...LOL

Turbo

Everything is going fine and according to my expectations. Very happy and enjoy also the side show now.

William

Relax......only few more days..... with shadows. The Greek sun will do wonders to my new relationship.

[ScottinCrimea]

Have you ever seen a lioness in her cage?

Well the old soap opera continues, oh it's fun and I enjoy watching it and play my part.

Yesterday she told me she still loves me..... in the morning..... but in the evening she told me "that I never knew what she really wanted out of our relationship and life and will never know".

I pointed out that I have tried out for 10 months to make it work and I did open my mouth and heart and told her countless times what I wanted from our relationship so she knew BUT she never opened her mouth and told me anything so therefore, should I have had to guess it?

Wiz, I'm glad you are finally happy.  She looks like a great lady.  Very nice pics.  But.....

Why in God's name would you continue to have any contact with someone who you freely admit wants only evil for your new relationship?  Sure it may be gratifying to rub her face in it, but is it worth the possible damage she might do to your new relationship?  I gurarantee that if you keep this contact going it will come back to bite you.  By continuing to take her calls and communicationg with her, you are only encouraging her and prolonging it.  Hang up if she calls, delete her e-mails without reading them.  When you are communicating with her, your thoughts are not on your new relationship where they should be.  Why would you want to tease a caged lioness?

[wiz]

Wiz, I'm glad you are finally happy.  She looks like a great lady.  Very nice pics.  But.....

.... to know the intentions and moves of that person, at this particular moment of my relationship is  important. I do have eyes on my backside......and I know that the infrequent contacts will finally stop and I will be left alone to enjoy my new found pearl.

I will not under any circumstances allow my past to destroy my new relationship and that is the crux of the matter.

Sorry I cannot say more because the green eyes can read my posts and she is on the war path. No I do not tease a lioness in a cage... but she acts like that.

[Kuna]

.... to know the intentions and moves of that person, at this particular moment of my relationship is  important. I do have eyes on my backside......and I know that the infrequent contacts will finally stop and I will be left alone to enjoy my new found pearl.

I will not under any circumstances allow my past to destroy my new relationship and that is the crux of the matter.

Sorry I cannot say more because the green eyes can read my posts and she is on the war path. No I do not tease a lioness in a cage... but she acts like that.

wiz,

You love the drama and the fights and arguments... that's why ytou continue contact.  Even though "that period" was a dreaful time for you it made you feel ALIVE... 

Scott is right but I will go further in saying you're a fool for thinking the way you are.  A fire will never burn out if you keep adding fuel to it...  If you had the courage to STOP ALL CONTACT time will pass and it will all be over.

To be honest your continued contact with "that woman" just means to me that you're not even ready to start a new reationship because the old one hasn't finished.

Worst of all is that it's not fair to your new lady to bring her into a defective situation.  I know you won't listen... you didn't before... but you're making a terrible mistake no matter what you say.

All the best.. and good luck.. you need it!

Kuna

[CaptB]

Wiz,

The sooner you ignore her.........the sooner she will fade away. If you keep talking to her, answering e-mails.......you may jeopardize the "good thing" you have now (as others here have pointed out. When a "troll" comes to the board its amusing to me how many folks can't just ignore them. Without attention......they really do disappear rather quickly......as it is attention they "need". You like "drama" ? Keep giving attention to your ex.......and you may get what you wish for (maybe a new ex ?). Hopefully you treasure what you have now..........and realise the foolishness........of taking "ANY".......chances.


Capt B

[SANDRO43]

If you had the courage to STOP ALL CONTACT time will pass and it will all be over.

Which will be good for you, Iannis, and for US as well, who are royally bored by hearing you mention Mirror AGAIN .

[Gator]

Wiz,

You seem to have found a lovely heartthrob.  Don't screw it up. 

NEVER

  [/size] mention former flames to new flames.   

Again, never mention former flame to new flame, particularly if you are still in contact with the former.  And why you would be in contact with that woman?

These women are not Western women.  They have different rules.  For sure they are curious about past women, but they do not want to know.  It does no one any good.

One fellow RWD member recently sent me a PM the other day about his RW getting angry when he mentioned that he still communicated with a former RW lover, but only as a "friend".   His new RW said some terrible things to him, and he was upset that she would not apologize.  DUH!

I have had just a few RW ask me about past women.  I then asked them about past men, and I received little information.  One explained why.  "It is RW's Golden Rule never to talk about past men because you may use the information against me in future."  The same logic would apply in reverse.  Besides, it does not make RW feel good, and are we not trying to make them feel special.

[wiz]

Kuna

It seemed to me that you were reading my previous messages correctly but I was wrong. As an Aussie you jumped to conclusions and of course as the “king” adviser of RWD you think I am a fool and you know everything. Simply you don’t!

I am not a fool to continue talking to Mirror nor that I want to do that either. I am not in love with her anymore and she has no affect on me and I kept my contacts to extremely minimum.

For me, there is an important reason, to try and protect my new woman from any attacks. I don’t need her poisonous actions nor any direct or indirect contact from a trained person in psychological war fare. I can take the shit and deal with it, as I dealt in the past year but at this stage I am not sure if the new woman can handle such circumstances. I am sure by the time we are back from our holidays there will be nothing to worry any more.

I am sure if you knew the true circumstances you would agree with me and I am not going to change my telephone numbers or e-mail addresses or where I live and of course I will not let her have any chance of destroying my relationship.

Enough said and you will have to wait for my return to know more details, if I decide to write about it!

For me is very important that I am very happy now with my new woman and that our relationship is blossoming and all indications show that I have found a pearl. She has accepted me for who and what I am, trusts me and we have an EXCLUSIVE relationship.  Our relationship develops as it should and there are no similarities, whatsoever with my previous experience.

Groov

I think soon I will have what you said…….. “must be crazy in love with me….. “


Sandro

Just to keep you happy I will post a photo of mirror here........LOL

[Maxx2]

"It is RW's Golden Rule never to talk about past men because you may use the information against me in future."

Perhaps that's why they don't inform their men about all their previous (maybe current?) husbands?


Maxx

[neo]

I've sat in some platonic girlfriends apartments and watched them sat at their laptop writing out loveletters to AM while their boyfriends (who pay for their apartments) are sat eating dinner at the table. The RM even made some joke to her to ask the AM if he had a big XXXX and then smiled and laughed at me and just said "crazy girl"

And my ex wife some years ago from a trip to the bathroom in a resteraunt to find her then boyfriend with his ex girlfriend sat on his lap whispering sweet nothings in his ear, she planted a martini glass in his forehead and left him with a 4 inch scar for the rest of his (short) life.

she said but don't worry. ive calmed down since then, i said so i asked her what she would do if she found me doing that to my ex  to whit she replied "plant the glass in her head. the bitch"

what was this thread about? only read the last couple of posts

[Kuna]

Kuna

It seemed to me that you were reading my previous messages correctly but I was wrong. As an Aussie you jumped to conclusions and of course as the “king” adviser of RWD you think I am a fool and you know everything. Simply you don’t!

I am not a fool to continue talking to Mirror nor that I want to do that either. I am not in love with her anymore and she has no affect on me and I kept my contacts to extremely minimum.

For me, there is an important reason, to try and protect my new woman from any attacks. I don’t need her poisonous actions nor any direct or indirect contact from a trained person in psychological war fare. I can take the *snip* and deal with it, as I dealt in the past year but at this stage I am not sure if the new woman can handle such circumstances. I am sure by the time we are back from our holidays there will be nothing to worry any more.

I am sure if you knew the true circumstances you would agree with me and I am not going to change my telephone numbers or e-mail addresses or where I live and of course I will not let her have any chance of destroying my relationship.

Enough said and you will have to wait for my return to know more details, if I decide to write about it!

For me is very important that I am very happy now with my new woman and that our relationship is blossoming and all indications show that I have found a pearl. She has accepted me for who and what I am, trusts me and we have an EXCLUSIVE relationship.  Our relationship develops as it should and there are no similarities, whatsoever with my previous experience.

Groov

I think soon I will have what you said…….. “must be crazy in love with me….. “


Sandro

Just to keep you happy I will post a photo of mirror here........LOL

 

Too silly for words!

[wiz]

Too silly for words!

OK King adviser of RWD and clever cloggs.... leave it to that..... as I am not interested to debate any subjetc with you any more.

[wiz]

Wiz,

You seem to have found a lovely heartthrob.  Don't

Just an update....all communications with the past experience have stop, I am having a very nice time with my new woman....and she is proving to be a real pearl...... more normal than I expected.....LOL

No I will never do anything to screw it up, as its human possible.

[Turboguy]

That is great news on both fronts Wiz.   I am happy to hear you are enjoying your time and it must be a nice peaceful feeling to have the old communication stopped.

I had to smile at your "more normal than I expected"   I think sometimes we forget how hard it is to find a "normal" person to have a relationship with. 

Enjoy your time together.

[Kuna]

OK King adviser of RWD and clever cloggs.... leave it to that..... as I am not interested to debate any subjetc with you any more.

Wiz,

Have you noticed I haven't responded to your inane PM?

Dude... you need to find a way to make yourself busy rather than perpetuating the "game play"...  It's a precious waste of creativity and energy.

I wish you all the best... but you need a relationship reality check!

For your own sake...  Don't stuff this one up!

Kuna

[wiz]

Wiz,

Have you noticed I haven't responded to your inane PM?

Dude... you need to find a way to make yourself busy rather than perpetuating the "game play"...  It's a precious waste of creativity and energy.

I wish you all the best... but you need a relationship reality check!

For your own sake...  Don't stuff this one up!

Kuna

Kuna

Of course I have noticed your inaction but never the less you seem not to take notice to my comments.... but now as I said to Turbo everything going fine.

Oh don't worry and I have many things to do to keep myself occupied...... and I am out of the games.....but obviously for you I need a reality check...... and I hope you have done the same for yourslef.

Thanks for the good wishes  and I will not screw it up now.

I wish you the best for you too.


TURBO

I expect you feel a little......lonely now......LOL

I enjoyed the selection of photos  and I hope you did also.

Regards
wiz