Daveman stated have a plan b, c, d
I'm presuming your referring to woman b, c, d just in case woman A turns out not to be the one. I've heard 2 different sides to this, some people like yourself, if I'm understanding you correctly say it's a very good idea to have these backup women for just in case. The other side is that if you go over their with the intentions of meeting 3 or 4 different women you aren't actually giving any of them a fair chance because your always thinking about the next lady you will see in a day or too. What are peoples opinions?
To everyone who responded.
I would like to thank everyone for there responses, whether it be opinion, fact, general experience whether good or bad. From what i've read it seems to me the only issue I might have is vacation time and maybe length of time(what i mean by this is i don't want to be 60 and have a 5 year old kid).
As docetae stated 4 week minimum vacation. But then again that might not be an issue who knows. I might be one of those lucky ones. Then again I might not and spend 10 years looking.
I will take every bodies information/experience and use it as a learning experience.
Trev
First of all plan b, c & d are not different individual women (usually). They
are actually different plans. Plan B might be to write 50 girls from vk.com
or to travel to meet friends nearby. Plan C might be to take dance classes.
Plan D might be to go to the local University and meet the people that
teach English.
Second item is that
You need to be able to travel. Once you find an excellent candidate, you need
to get on a plane to meet her. If some other jack wagon meets her first, then
you are likely going to be tossed away with all the care that she would give to
meat with maggots crawling around on it.
Nearly every single girl that I got on a plane to visit is married to a foreign man
now. They didn't continue sitting around pining for me.