beautiful woman?

[Michelangelo]

Ok!  How about "stout?"


def-- "somewhat fat or of a heavy build"

[BC]

[user=134]Photo Guy[/user] wrote:

I object to the use of the word, 'porker'.

Then pm the moderator with your issue.

[ConnerVT]

[user=134]Photo Guy[/user] wrote:

I object to the use of the word, 'porker'.

The proper PC term is "Gravitationally Challenged."

But then, I hate PC speak.  I usually avoid "porker", and go with the more generally understood phrase "Lard Ass." 

[Son of Clyde]

Even "Lard Asses" can use a treadmill and trim off the extra pounds in a few months.

Try hugging a bony girl as compared to a slightly heavy girl and tell me which one you prefer. A bony girl will not keep you warm at night. The slightest breeze will send her floating away.

[Son of Clyde]

I have never heard of a FSU woman with an eating disorder.

Do eating disorders exist in the FSU?

 

[BC]

[user=130]Son of Clyde[/user] wrote:

I have never heard of a FSU woman with an eating disorder.

Do eating disorders exist in the FSU?

Walking requires calories. No calories in FSU is like having no gas in a car.

Such disorders likely exist even in FSU but probably at a much lower rate.

Sometimes having less is probably better.

[TigerPaws]

Was that not a part of your Prenup? I think you told us?

There are many reasons why one gains weight, it is a natural part of aging for most people, but we do not know in advance who those people are - looking at the forbears can give some idea though.

Are you, in essence, suggesting that as your wife becomes less physically attractive that you would divorce her on that ground? Is weight the sole criterion of beauty, in your eyes?

Your words above and previously suggest to me a person who is emotionally stunted, but then perhaps that is why many men seek foreign wives. Of course, your wife knowing the circumstances has made her choice, and you both live with the consequences thereof. I doubt that love is a big motivator for your marriage, is it? But then, there are many marriages that are not based upon love.

Yes andrewfin that IS part of our prenup.

Weight is not the sole measure of beauty, then again FAT women are UGLY. When my lady arrived she was 5' 7" 130 lbs. she is now 120 lbs and looks much better, was 130 lbs fat? NO would 150 lbs. be fat YES in my opinion.

Emotionally shunted? LoL!!! I have often said as long as both people are happy who cares, love is fickle but a good friendship can stand the test of time, of course you can have both.

 

[Son of Clyde]

Please don't tell me that the weight issue was part of a prenup.

Most everyone in my family over the age of 50 has a few extra pounds. I would never disown them for it.


The word is treadmill.

[itstime]

[user=130]Son of Clyde[/user] wrote:

I have never heard of a FSU woman with an eating disorder.

Do eating disorders exist in the FSU?

Do you consider lard-asses to have eating disorders. The streets of Russia are filled with such women.

My Ukrainian girlfriend weighs only 45 kilos and says that she weighed 85 two years ago. She claims to have a tender stomach so she can't eat much. In a restaurant she will eat two mouthfuls, or maybe 4 if I pressure her. Then I have to eat the rest.

Is that an eating disorder?

Pssst, I have news for you. Russian women have been shown to be genetically equivalent to western women. The rumors about communist genes have been shown to be completely untrue!

 

[andrewfi]

I suppose that she has the right to divorce you and break the pre nup if you put on weight or become otherwise unattractive to her, yes?

EEEK!:shock:

[Bruno]

I suppose that she has the right to divorce you and break the pre nup if you put on weight or become otherwise unattractive to her, yes?

EEEK!:shock:

Not enough long married... if i remember good some term of the prenups, she will receive some money around the povrety level in USA... more long she stay with him, the more money she can receive...

So prenups is what i call a "golden jail"...

And i am not sure but i think that it was something over child... money for child will be in function of how good the child make study... more high study and distinction, more money...

Previously, Tigerpaws have explain all and it was enough complex... i think that the only person who is become more rich is the lawer who have ready this big book... sorry, prenups...

[solomon]

After just spending the last couple weeks in Moscow meeting many women, I must say that beauty wins me over hands down. Among other things, the beauty of the woman is the first and last thing I will see every day. Every girl that has just ok looks immediately makes me want to move on to the next.

[Bruno]

After just spending the last couple weeks in Moscow meeting many women, I must say that beauty wins me over hands down.

Russian woman are not specialy more beautiful that our local woman... but they are enough good for show it... clothes, make-up can change a lot... of course, the morning or evening, when she is without clothes and make-up, she is like usual woman...

And i forget, welcome back  Have you find some lady ? Have you enjoy you trip ?

[PeeWee]

After just spending the last couple weeks in Moscow meeting many women, I must say that beauty wins me over hands down.

Russian woman are not specialy more beautiful that our local woman... but they are enough good for show it... clothes, make-up can change a lot... of course, the morning or evening, when she is without clothes and make-up, she is like usual woman...

And i forget, welcome back  Have you find some lady ? Have you enjoy you trip ?
[/quote]
I think, per capita, that you will find the most beautiful women in Los Angeles. There are attractive women in Moscow. Many of them have imported themselves from everywhere in Eastern Europe. But have you ever noticed what happens to a RW when she grows older than 45 or 50?  if you are looking for hot women go to Hollywood. that is where they all are.

 

PeeWee

[PeeWee]

[user=130]Son of Clyde[/user] wrote:

Please don't tell me that the weight issue was part of a prenup.

Most everyone in my family over the age of 50 has a few extra pounds. I would never disown them for it.


The word is treadmill.

When I first met lara she was tall  and thin. I had not seen her for about 18 months and when I finally did I could not believe how much weight she had gained. She asked me the timeless question, "Do I look fat?"  I  did not directly answer her question but I did tell her that what women don't seem to understand is that a man will remain with his wife if she remains sexy and thin otherwise he has a tendancy to look for younger and more thinner women. I again met her 6 weeks later. A lot of weight had disappeared.  I now figure that I am her best dieting program.

 

PeeWee

[Photo Guy]

Here's why I object to the use of the word, 'porker'.

The word belongs to the same guys who sit on an old rotten porch, drinking a really cheap can of beer, sayin' f#%k this and fk that, and wonder if they should add an old junker to their collection of rusty cars in their dirt driveway.   ...'Tacky'  

Jeff Foxworthy porks fun at them.

[Bruno]

But have you ever noticed what happens to a RW when she grows older than 45 or 50?

Yes, not enough place on the birthday cake for the candles... :D:D

Like all woman, some RW become old babouska and some stay attractive...



a example of 50 year old sexy woman from omsk

http://freepersonals.ru/images/medium/193013_1.jpg?1126172431


48 year old from odessa

http://freepersonals.ru/images/medium/160753_3.jpg?1125493193

[c5driver]

The women that are trouble are the ones that thing they're beautiful so they're entitled to be treated like princesses (ie they become gold diggers). When my soon to be ex-wife was in Russia a man once told her "beautiful things for the beautiful woman". Unfortunately, this is the way she thinks. Women who think they're beautiful develop a sense of entitlement (kind of like women who collect alimony and/or welfare).

I suppose one could find a "10" with an inferiority complex - she might not be a princess. But a "3" with an inflated ego could be a princess. Beauty is a subjective thing. I think next time I'll look for a woman with an inferiority complex.

For example, I asked her what she would do for a car if she returned to Russia (ie if she didn't get a green card). She said she'd find a rich boyfriend to buy her a car (she said this after her adultery). Her new boyfriend buys her $250 jeans and $300 dresses (her mother bought her nice clothes in Russia - I guess this was a red flag). It's like he bought my RW. Obviously a woman that allows herself to be bought isn't someone for a long term relationship (though it can be fun for a short term thing).

Some people (myself included, and, unfortunately, her, her mother, and my slime-ball neighbor) think she's very beautiful. Other people thinks she's only average. She's 5'10" and about 112 lbs, quite flat chested, with a noticibly high hairline. Most women don't find her attractive because she lacks curves, but men seem to be drawn to her height, accent,  and long dyed blonde hair.

I live a good neighborhood ($800K+ houses), so everyone in my neighborhood is pretty well off (most more than me, though compared to the rest of America, I am certainly not poor). Unfortuntely my neighbor like to boast to everyone about how much money he made (and she heard this and was attracted by it). I guess this is the problem with living in a nice neighborhood, isn't it? I think if we lived in South Central LA that she would have stayed away from the neighbors (though she might not have survived, either).

[anono]

Beauty will fade over time. What about attractive, natural women with inner beauty? 

Has anyone considered a practical, caring woman over a "beauty queen?"

i read part of this thread and i can see there is some good stuff here so i am going to read it again but i had to say this first and in a way it opened up a better understanding of the "problem" i have.

my 79 year old mother was the "football queen" of the high school my some great-grandfathers and all subsequent generations of my family have graduated. this was in 1944, thirty years before i graduated from the same high school.

she is a brunette version of grace kelly, who i consider one of the most beautiful women of her generation. i saw a documentary of grace and i was shocked to see that when grace was in her forties, my mother, in her 70's, looked just as good or even better. i have photos of her on my computer and PDA. some ukrainian women have seen them and cannot believe her age, one flat out says she has had surgery (not) and others are in disbelief. she is THAT good looking.

and she is the most "practical and caring" woman i have ever known, not only to her family but to everyone but dumya.

when local people ask me why i have not married, all i have to do is say, "you do know who my mother is, right?" and they say, "oh" as they realize what they just asked me.

my mother is one of the most beautiful women of her generation and she is also the most practical and caring woman i have ever met.

she set the bar almost impossibly high, hence, my dilemma.

 

[anono]

rvr sums it up pretty good...  but one thing i've noticed..he uses the 1-10 scale on both looks and personality..i remember being flamed for using such a scale back in the photoguy cluebatting thread...

peewee, i enjoy your your POV on a lot of things at the board. maybe i missed it and i'm not doubting you, but could you post photos or PM me a way i can see for myself, of these babes you have had as wives? i'd like to see this for myself if you do not mind.

 rvr says

On top of all that, just step back & think for a minute. Why do you think that many of the women looking for husbands in any country are the best looking of the bunch, I did say many, not all. Don't try to tell me it is because they can't find a good man in their country because that is a whole bunch of Bull!!! Don't you think maybe its because the men in their country found out their a pain in the a$$ and are hoping you will take them off their hands.

i have thought this many times.

i have not gotten around to finishing my TR, but i ran into a lot of "shit don't stink, i'm better than you" types in kyiv. i have also thought, "no wonder these guys treat the women here like they do, they are bitches and are only outto see how much they can get out of you".



 

[Frank]

I hate to say this, but I agree with rvr, c5driver and anono 100%.  I also have some other observations;  it seems like lots of these Russian speaking women are jealous of each other.  What ever one of them has, the other thinks they should have better and expect YOU to get it for them.  How could men from their countries compete with this on their income?  In my opinion, that is why some of them are snagging guys from the west. 

[anono]

frank, i am beginning to agree with andrewfi and others on this, ask yourself why these girls are at an agency. i know a lot just do not want to be the girlfriend of yet another ukranian guy just going through the women. the UM knowing how to do it and knowing the women and the language, a distinct advantage over almost all of us.

it has taken some time but i have put into practice some of the things i have read and believed about dating. i am hoping jim naseum posts about his theory of the "man-money bar" that exists in kyiv.

one thing about "being a man" is that it has nothing to do with being macho. it has a lot to do with making decisions, knowing what you are doing, saying "NO" to a woman. knowing that emotions, either positive or negative, do not matter when dealing with a woman.

i ran into a UW in golden gate irish bar who, because she thought herself attractive, had some $$ and could speak english, that she felt she could be rude to me. i let this go on until i finally heard enough and asked her; "are you rude to just me or to all men?" she immediately changed posture and apologized and asked why i thought she was rude. i went on to explain.

these women are used to seeing AM back down. they know they can take advantage of us. they have with me and still do but to a smaller degree as i continue to learn what is really going on here.

i need to finish my TR and tell you some stories of what some of these women will do, and for things we would never think they would put so much time and effort in to get....

[Seekandfind]

[user=130]Son of Clyde[/user] wrote:

Beauty will fade over time. What about attractive, natural women with inner beauty? 

Has anyone considered a practical, caring woman over a "beauty queen?"

 

No.

[andrewfi]

Always! But the strange thing is that when one does that, one tends to find attractive women anyway.

Do it the other way round and one finds less 'good' women.

[Photo Guy]

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