Most important advice for western man from Russian Lady

[docetae]

I can not believe we are still discussing the size of male members.  Why is it men are so obsessed with knowing if he is big enough?  Why do men automatically assume bigger is better?  Why are we so insecure about it?

to me.. if a woman makes a comment as the possible troll, Luda, that size of penis is so important.. I would certainly reply that the size of breasts are important to me.. but.. in fact they are not important and I don't care.  When I am old, ugly, viagra dependent, it is the size of the brain, heart and soul of my woman that will matter the most to me, and, in fact, already is the most important.

So, the size queen can just move along now..

Try to buy condoms in Russia or Ukraine and make understand in russian the size you need ...

[viking]

Sometimes it is not the size of the organ, but the cathedral it is playing in.

[Pike]

Actually size is important, but that doesn't mean that bigger is better.

First consider length.  A woman's G spot is very close to the vaginal opening . . . no more than an inch inside.  So a two incher in length will do the job for the G spot type of orgasm.

Second, circumference.  The clitoris can be stimulated in two ways during intercourse.  In some positions, such as the woman superior, the clitoris grinds against the man's pubic area.  Circumference hardly matters at all.  In the missionary postion, the movement of the male member causes movement of the foreskin surrounding the clitoris.  In this situation, a larger circumference will provide more stimulation to the clitoris . . . up to a point.  At a certain circumference (which varies from woman to woman), the male member will provide more pain than pleasure to the woman.

Within the past year, I had a lengthy discussion about this issue with a woman who had a very high sex drive which had began very early in her life.  She had experimented with various sizes of cucumbers and determined there was an optimal size for her.  After a point, bigger (length or circumference) was not better.

[ScottinCrimea]

I'm sorry, but does anyone here want or need a lecture on sex from Pike?  How many want to hear stories of women and cucumbers?  There are far more informative websites for this, and many have pictures as well.

[Pike]

I'm sorry, but does anyone here want or need a lecture on sex from Pike?  How many want to hear stories of women and cucumbers?  There are far more informative websites for this, and many have pictures as well.

There are very, very many here who certainly need a lecture from someone, as it is clear that they have virtually no experience or knowledge at all in this matter and have not gotten any info from anywhere.

[SANDRO43]

How many want to hear stories of women and cucumbers? 

Wasn't Cinderella riding on a cucumber carriage ? Or was it a pumpkin ?
Vegetables and women, a recipe for fascinating tales .

Sometimes it is not the size of the organ, but the cathedral it is playing in.

Yes, but its acoustics is a major factor. I wonder if Pike has reliable data on echo times, too ?

[Pike]

I'm sorry, but does anyone here want or need a lecture on sex from Pike?  How many want to hear stories of women and cucumbers?  There are far more informative websites for this, and many have pictures as well.

We can always tell who has below average interest in sex by their aversion to reading anything about it. 

The same holds true for any topic.  We simply do not like to read about or talk about topics that hold no interest for us.

For instance, I care nothing about soccer (other world football) or golf.  I get very irritated when someone brings these topics into the conversation.  But rather than complain about the appropriateness of topics that hold no interest for me, I just move on to the next posting  or topic.

However, we all know it is easy to mask our disinterest in a topic by cloaking our disapproval in righteous terms.

[Pike]

I wonder if Pike has reliable data on echo times, too ?

No, I do not.  I don't even really know what echo time is, although I can guess.     I really like good music (or at least what sounds good to me), but I actually know nothing about the mechanics.

And, I can only take organ music for a short period of time.  Piano and violin yes, and cello is great, but organ music . . . sorry.

[SANDRO43]

No, I do not. I don't even really know what echo time is, although I can guess. 

Also called reverberation, it's the time sound takes to quiesce completely in a given location. Times in excess of 2-3 seconds become increasingly detrimental to music. Our Duomo (see at bottom) has a terrible reverberation of some 7 seconds .

[ca71447]

... it is not just the size that matters ... you need to know how to use it properly ... and the women will seek you

[ScottinCrimea]

There are very, very many here who certainly need a lecture from someone, as it is clear that they have virtually no experience or knowledge at all in this matter and have not gotten any info from anywhere.

Pike, based on some of those those who have responded, I have to agree there are at least some who could use some advice, so carry on for their benefit.  I'll step aside.  Bfore I do, however, just a couple of comments on this post:

We can always tell who has below average interest in sex by their aversion to reading anything about it. 

The same holds true for any topic.  We simply do not like to read about or talk about topics that hold no interest for us.

For instance, I care nothing about soccer (other world football) or golf.  I get very irritated when someone brings these topics into the conversation.  But rather than complain about the appropriateness of topics that hold no interest for me, I just move on to the next posting  or topic.

However, we all know it is easy to mask our disinterest in a topic by cloaking our disapproval in righteous terms.

Not speaking about something does not necessarily indicate lack of interest.  I greatly enjoy literature, but hearing Red Riding Hood for the thousandth time would bore me to tears.  Everything you have lectured about I knew and understood over thirty years ago.  Not so interesting to discuss anymore for me and actually rather condescending, but as long as I understand that you were addressing those poor soouls on this forum who need your instruction and not me,  I won't let it bother me. Also, just because one speaks about a subject more does not indicate they have any knowledge of the subject.  Teenage boys talk about sex a lot, but I certainly don't think they would have much to offer on the subject.

I'm sorry, but I don't see that I used any righteous terms at all, nor did I pass any judgements.  I simply asked a question that, to be direct, wasn't addressed to you. In fact, by suggesting other websites I was probably more unrighteous than righteous.

So carry on all, bask in the words of the guru.  Just keep one saying in mind - "Those who cannot do, teach."

[Taz]

When I see posts like this one, it quickly reminds why I should come here even less frequently. I thought I left junior high a long time ago...

It didn't even strike me as remotly funny. If a man had said this about a woman's breasts or vagina, I would have found it equally as distasteful. I personally don't appreciate crude language spoken in any language...

[AnastassiaAsh]

Well, everybody took the initial poster's message as a joke, Pike took it seriously and ScottinCrimea too. Cmon guys, this is not even worth continuing, at least in this rude context. Make it another topic - for example - Does size matter for RW? Or something like that..... And get Liudmila off of this board!

I can only imagine lots of coffee spilled on the keyboards of our members while reading this thread this morning.   

[docetae]

Does size matter for RW? Or something like that..... And get Liudmila off of this board!

With my 6ft6 I can only answer yes to this question. Il me semble que taz est un pisse froid...

[Pike]

... it is not just the size that matters ... you need to know how to use it properly ... and the women will seek you

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A totally ridiculous statement.

A woman who you had never been with would have no way of knowing if you 'know how to use it properly,' so no one will be 'seeking you.'

The only way a woman would know, is if a woman you had been with would tell her.  But women are not going to be telling these things to other women for fear that they would lose your services to themselves.

So both men and women are in the unfortunate situation that you just never know how an encounter is going to turn out . . . until you try.  And even then, it may take several times until you get a good feel (pun intended) for the compatibilities, etc.

[Pike]

Pike, based on some of those those who have responded, I have to agree there are at least some who could use some advice, so carry on for their benefit.  I'll step aside.  Bfore I do, however, just a couple of comments on this post:

I'm sorry, but I don't see that I used any righteous terms at all, nor did I pass any judgements.  I simply asked a question that, to be direct, wasn't addressed to you. In fact, by suggesting other websites I was probably more unrighteous than righteous.

Just keep one saying in mind - "Those who cannot do, teach."

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OK Scott, I appreciate your mostly logical words toward me for once.

But, I do not at all agree with that last saying.  Over the centuries, teachers have been one of our greatest treasures.  True, the quality of secondary school teachers has declined in recent decades, but still mostly serving a valid purpose.

[ScottinCrimea]

Anastassia, I didn't take the subject seriously.  Read my posts again.  What I took seriously was Pike's attempts to make it a serious topic.

Pike:  I'm sorry that you didn't see that the saying was presented tongue in cheek.  I'm teaching now and I'm "doing" just fine. Loosen up!

[Gator]

For instance, I care nothing about soccer (other world football) or golf.  I get very irritated when someone brings these topics into the conversation.  But rather than complain about the appropriateness of topics that hold no interest for me, I just move on to the next posting  or topic.

SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER

GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF

SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER

[Sculpto]

 

[AnastassiaAsh]

Gator is having lots of fun tonight while the whole country is going through this crisis... 

[ScottinCrimea]

SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER

GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF  GOLF

SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER  SOCCER

 

[Taz]

With my 6ft6 I can only answer yes to this question. Il me semble que taz est un pisse froid...

Nope, not a cold fish at all thank you very much. My French may not be perfect but I know enough to get by. Half my Family is French... typically the half I can't tolerate much.

I just don't appreciate crude language. Also almost all the RW/UW I've met, DEFINITELY don't appreciate. I have found most RW/UW to be highly offended by crude or rough language. Fine if you want to use it with your buddies but not around them.

Using crude or offensive language is typically a lack of respect. RW don't appreciate this at all nor do most women. I was just at a dinner party with a very prominent Russian gymnast a few days ago. I am not in the habit of dropping any names but she was one of the premier gymnasts in all of Russian history and she should have seen the look on her face and the other RW when a man started to say something that was "gruby slova"  or "rough words". He immediately changed his speech patterns when he realized the women were within earshot. The entire conversation between the women stopped for that very moment.

There are a variety of other words that could have been used in this context rather than the one chosen and the same meaning could have been maintained. I try to use language that I wouldn't be ashamed of if my children heard me speaking. Written words last a much longer time that speech. Something many would be wise to remember here. Words have a way of coming back to bite you. Your non-existent currently, but future RW, may somehow wind up here and read all that you post.

The OP could have used a word such as member. If I used the Russian equivalent of that word in front of all the RW I know in a public setting, I would definitely be seen as uncouth. In the bedroom though some of them might have enjoyed it but that is for the bedroom not public usage.

Same goes for some of the more "colorful" versions of the Russian variations to make love. There are just downright crude ones that I would strongly suggest you avoid.

[Admin]

Has anyone noticed that the OP has not returned to RWD?

It seems he/she/they managed to stir up quite a response.

- Dan

[Chicagoguy]

Dan - it sure wouldn't bother me if you just deleted this thread.

This is not what we are about.  IMHO

[Enot]

Has anyone noticed that the OP has not returned to RWD?

It seems he/she/they managed to stir up quite a response.

- Dan

Yes the "good old boy" network strikes again.  The 3rd thread they wrecked this week.  Very closed minded people.  Someone needs to muzzle them because they are driving away members.