Writing verses Visiting

[CONCRETE RIVER]

^im glad you bring this up, I have been considering the attempt yet wasnt sure if SHE would benifit from having my personal email as well.  Im not sure exactly how her agency operates and if it just makes me come off like a cheap ass then id rather pay.  Truth is though im kinda frugle though.  oh, let me refraise that..im "fiscally conservative"

^anyone know if having my personal email would be benefiting the girl on her end of things?


oh, in May?  wow thats quick...let me marinate on that cause like i said, i just returned from D.R. and I wouldnt allow an employee to do that so...

[JR]

^anyone know if having my personal email would be benefiting the girl on her end of things?

Let me see, she could contact you outside the agency and prove to you that she's real...nope wouldn't benefit you at all.

Anyone else?

[Faux Pas]

^anyone know if having my personal email would be benefiting the girl on her end of things?


oh, in May?  wow thats quick...let me marinate on that cause like i said, i just returned from D.R. and I wouldnt allow an employee to do that so...

CR, one has to wonder how much of anything is soaking into you. The answer to your question is yes it would benefit her. Moreover it will benefit YOU, to the tune of about 10 bucks for one email exchange. It will allow you to communicate with her freely. Do you see any benefit to that?

[CONCRETE RIVER]

CR, one has to wonder how much of anything is soaking into you. The answer to your question is yes it would benefit her. Moreover it will benefit YOU, to the tune of about 10 bucks for one email exchange. It will allow you to communicate with her freely. Do you see any benefit to that?

well, assuming that she lives on a farm and need to frequent the agency inorder to have email access....no, im not sure if she'd benifit-theres no question I would.

[JR]

Are you an employee or 40% owner? Owership has it's priveledges...

Call the young lass. It will benefit both of you. She can use an internet cafe to send and recieve your personal emails. You are being soaked by this agency. If you would like I can send you some pics of women and write you and I'll only charge $250 a week

[ECOCKS]

CR:

We keep telling you EVERYONE has a phone and almost everyone can find an Inrernet cafe. If you have a gal who tells you she lives on a remote farm and is too busy milking cows or plucking chickens (that would be you!) then I vote about 97% chance that you are hooked by a scammer.

[CONCRETE RIVER]

1/3? have you checked cheap ticket lately? Two weeks ago you could flown to Moscow for $333.

MOVE ON DUDE! ! ! You're being ripped off! Get on EM NOW! Are you there yet?

And BTW, I am in touch with this SMOKING HOT 23 yo from Kiev whom I think will decide (with my prompting) that I am too old for her. You may be in her age range so perhaps I could hook you up with her and you could stop wasting her time

$333?  what about the $ right now?  if so im probly booking! 


and yes im on EM.   its ok...

[CONCRETE RIVER]

Are you an employee or 40% owner?

^ i try my best to be both and its worth it!

[JR]

$333?  what about the $ right now?  if so im probly booking! 


and yes im on EM.   its ok...

Last night I booked a ticket for $620. There are cheaper available but I didn't want the extended layovers.

The cheapest I saw last night was $470

[Faux Pas]

well, assuming that she lives on a farm and need to frequent the agency inorder to have email access....no, im not sure if she'd benifit-theres no question I would.

Okay. She told you she lives on a farm and has no email access? If so, RUN.

Chances are pretty good that she does not have to frequent the agency to access email. I realize in your mind you have cogs and gears turning both ways 90 miles a second. Trust me, internet access is much more widely available than "you" can imagine. Read my lips, she has internet access available, somewhere. RW are as much or more resourceful than any woman you have ever known. There is a reason she is listed with the agency. You won't know what that reason is until you contact her.

You are in love with a picture and caught in the grinder of RWG. You do understand she may not have even read your emails? The agency in rooster poot village outside of Gomel has been answering them. Any number of scenarios can be happening and will continue to happen as long as you pay and remain passive about contacting her. Call her. Save the money from the flowers and TALK to her.

[Misha]

well, assuming that she lives on a farm and need to frequent the agency inorder to have email access....no, im not sure if she'd benifit-theres no question I would.

You won't find any agencies in villages remote enough that women are living on farms with no access to internet cafes.

[ECOCKS]

CR:

Easy for me to suggest....

Setup some dates in Moscow on Elena's.

Then, why don't you go meet JR in Moscow for the last 2 weeks of his trip?

I understand this does nothing regarding the Moldova gal but.....

[JR]

Hehe! He's in love with a photo of Miss Moldova 2005 and writing letters to Boris Alexandrovich Iwritealot! ]

Dude, call her. Seriously, put yourself out of your misery....

[Mishenka]

You spent $350 for what?  You should have had her contact details before you spent the first $20. Something stinks like rotten fish here. The Russian Mafioso get richer and richer off you guys. I just met with 40 RW in San Diego Friday night at my Russian language meet up group, most of them are young and single and cost nothing to hang out with them. Fly to San Diego and meet them. Better yet come on Thursday nights where I go to dance classes and meet another group of 30 or so RW that love to dance. The ratio is 5 RW to one guy. Saturday we have a BBQ at one of the lakes here, there will be tons of sweet single RW sitting in the sun in their short shorts, and bikini tops. Next time you want to drop $350, make it worth your while and fly to San Diego. Don't fall in love with a photo, fall in love with the woman herself, face to face.

Definately a scam site like most of them.

[Daveman]

no, your right.  I just dont want to appear too eager is all.  Thats the only reason I havnt requested her number yet. 

Eager??? oh lord.

Grasshoppa... you should request her phone number in your second email.. third at the very  latest. AND, she will give it to you without  hesitation. If she doesn't, she's not serious about you, or she's an agency plant, whatever, but something is absolutely wrong with the situation.  

Let's put it this way.. (sorry for the repeat info for those who have heard all this before).. In the past however many years of doing this, I've spoken with (including those not so fluent) probably around 200-250 different ladies. With every one of these I asked for her number in the second or third email.

Bang, they give it to you.  If you have been writing for a while, and if she's sincere, she's already wondering what the heck is wrong with you for not asking.  I don't know anything about RWG, but from the sound of the capital outlay you mentioned, you are definitely being milked by this agency and probably being played for a complete and utter starryeyeddreamladensuckerfool.

In the very next letter, get her freakin' phone number and call her. If she doesn't give it to you then immediately MOVE ON, not only to a different woman, but get the hell away from that rip off of an agency.

[CONCRETE RIVER]

Hehe! He's in love with a photo of Miss Moldova 2005 and writing letters to Boris Alexandrovich Iwritealot! ]

Dude, call her. Seriously, put yourself out of your misery....

haha, pick on me now while ya can, cause i wont be a noob forever!

And yes, email slip and phone number request has already been sent and she should be lifting her pretty little head out of bed any minute now!

[ECOCKS]

If she gets up at 8 she doesn't work on a farm.

[CONCRETE RIVER]

If she gets up at 8 she doesn't work on a farm.

nah, she lives on one she says...

[Faux Pas]

haha, pick on me now while ya can, cause i wont be a noob forever!

And yes, email slip and phone number request has already been sent and she should be lifting her pretty little head out of bed any minute now!

She still has to slop the hogs, gather the eggs and milk the cows before borrowing the neighbors mule to ride up to the Marushka bus stop to take the long trip into town to the agency. Could be noon or later before she tells you she has no phone

[picard]

I have concluded that writing is a waste of time.  A couple intro letters are fine but you need to just go, if you're really serious.  Letter writing was my first approach and it never worked out.  Here's the the usual story...  You write to each other for many months.  Both agreed that you're right for each other and finally decided to meet.  But since you're already agreed that she's "the one", how could you possibly meet others while there (you know, the back-up plan).  You come over, spend a couple days and realize she's not what you thought.  And she probably realized the same.

You really have to go over, have face-to-face time to really know if it's going to work.

[Daveman]

She still has to slop the hogs, gather the eggs and milk the cows before borrowing the neighbors mule to ride up to the Marushka bus stop to take the long trip into town to the agency. Could be noon or later before she tells you she has no phone

 

[JR]

haha, pick on me now while ya can, cause i wont be a noob forever!

And yes, email slip and phone number request has already been sent and she should be lifting her pretty little head out of bed any minute now!

I'm not laughing at you. But you seriously need to take action and I'm glad you did. Get away from the agency as fast as possible. If she is real she will want that same. I can't be any more real than that. And book that flight to Moscow. What you will see will knock yoru socks off!

[CONCRETE RIVER]

She still has to slop the hogs, gather the eggs and milk the cows before borrowing the neighbors mule to ride up to the Marushka bus stop to take the long trip into town to the agency. Could be noon or later before she tells you she has no phone

 

[JR]

You spent $350 for what?  You should have had her contact details before you spent the first $20. Something stinks like rotten fish here. The Russian Mafioso get richer and richer off you guys. I just met with 40 RW in San Diego Friday night at my Russian language meet up group, most of them are young and single and cost nothing to hang out with them. Fly to San Diego and meet them. Better yet come on Thursday nights where I go to dance classes and meet another group of 30 or so RW that love to dance. The ratio is 5 RW to one guy. Saturday we have a BBQ at one of the lakes here, there will be tons of sweet single RW sitting in the sun in their short shorts, and bikini tops. Next time you want to drop $350, make it worth your while and fly to San Diego. Don't fall in love with a photo, fall in love with the woman herself, face to face.

Hmmmm, maybe I should attend

[Daveman]

Just saw this in another thread...

CR said:
But truth is that im already emotionally attatched to a girl and I would be just crushed if it didnt turn out the way I imagine...which is mearly happiness.

And Im searching for family values AND good looks.  Unfortunatly American Media is dwindling my chances to find those qualities in an american girls today.

i can only promise you all my intentions are genuine. Its just that I have that "too good to be true" wisdom running thru my head is all.

So, you are attached to this lady with whom you've yet to even have a conversation...  do you not find that to be a little warped in itself?  that little voice screaming in your mind "too good to be true" is steering you in the right direction.  You want to believe a dream, but that is all this woman is.  Let's say, for the sake of argument, that this really is a real, sincere lady (which I seriously doubt), you absolutely positively know nothing about her... you have this vision in your mind to which you are attached and the real lady will be so different from this when/if you meet her face to face that you'll think Waddadafukka?

Get started through an email, move to speaking/video, get on a plane and meet.. THEN think about attachment.. prior to meeting, she's at best a good dream, and at worst a monetary wil o' wisp leading your wallet out into the forest (or farm) -- never to be heard from again.