Author Topic: AM and RW ... are we compatible? (Read 104888 times)

nichka · « **on:** April 13, 2012, 07:27:38 AM »

Hello everyone! I am doing a research about difficulties and differences AM facing when in a cross-cultural relationship. It's not a secret, RW are complex individuals and require a lot of understanding and patience from AM.
I would appreciate if AM share with me their difficulties with dating, marrying and living with RW.
As well as I will answer all questions that you might have as of how to approach RW and what her phrases/reactions might mean.

Thank you in advance for your time and participation.
Let the party begin!

Belvis · « **Reply #1 on:** April 13, 2012, 08:17:24 AM »

Quote from: nichka on April 13, 2012, 07:27:38 AM

It's not a secret, RW are complex individuals that require understanding and patience.

Get lost, complex individual

nichka · « **Reply #2 on:** April 13, 2012, 10:08:47 AM »

I would take it as a warm

from you Belvis.
But to be serious, I honestly think that Russian Women are complex with their moods, beliefs, games, views on this world, along with the different idea of " being happy"

ML · « **Reply #3 on:** April 13, 2012, 10:53:19 AM »

Quote from: nichka on April 13, 2012, 10:08:47 AM

I would take it as a warm from you Belvis.
But to be serious, I honestly think that Russian Women are complex with their moods, beliefs, games, views on this world, along with the different idea of " being happy"

It's because of the 'Russian Soul.' No other culture has such.

OlgaH · « **Reply #4 on:** April 13, 2012, 10:58:57 AM »

Welcome Nichka

Ah, complex mood and an idea of being happy (at a Turkey resort)

Misha · « **Reply #5 on:** April 13, 2012, 11:26:17 AM »

What is the research you are doing?

nichka · « **Reply #6 on:** April 13, 2012, 11:26:34 AM »

Russian soul... I agree.
One American friend of mine , has been always amazed by the mixture of emotions and feelings that are boiling inside me... as he used to say " mysterious unknown and very exciting Russian beauty.." . It was nice to hear, but sad at the same time, because I had so many situations , where I simply couldn't explain what I felt , and why one minute I would be happy, and then suddenly sad and inside myself just from listening to a song

nichka · « **Reply #7 on:** April 13, 2012, 11:30:09 AM »

Hi Misha,
I am trying to analyse all misunderstandings between AM & RW, along with the shocking acts of AM that make our women want to puke and dump the AM. ( Like him blowing nose while at the table with his Russian Lady and in the middle of dinner)

GQBlues · « **Reply #8 on:** April 13, 2012, 12:14:12 PM »

Quote from: nichka on April 13, 2012, 11:26:34 AM

Russian soul... I agree.
One American friend of mine , has been always amazed by the mixture of emotions and feelings that are boiling inside me... as he used to say " mysterious unknown and very exciting Russian beauty.." . It was nice to hear, but sad at the same time, because I had so many situations , where I simply couldn't explain what I felt , and why one minute I would be happy, and then suddenly sad and inside myself just from listening to a song

Ahah! So that is Russian Soul!...I'll be damned!

Well Nichka, the latter part of your post suggests we also have these periods with American women, so don't be too concerned about it.

The initial portion of the statement is just simply American men's patronizing way to reap the rewards of your post-period state, or as we usually say at home..."just trying to get lucky"

Don't be alarmed, both, if detected in time and attended to properly, will come and go like a midnight train to Georgia.

Misha · « **Reply #9 on:** April 13, 2012, 01:07:54 PM »

Quote from: nichka on April 13, 2012, 11:30:09 AM

Hi Misha,
I am trying to analyse all misunderstandings between AM & RW, along with the shocking acts of AM that make our women want to puke and dump the AM. ( Like him blowing nose while at the table with his Russian Lady and in the middle of dinner)

Ah, so it is personal research then

However, I have to ask where you found this sample of AM that blow their nose while at the table? Hopefully, you are not married to one of these men who want to make RW puke

However, I do believe you are overstating the difference between RW and the other women of the planet

nichka · « **Reply #10 on:** April 13, 2012, 02:00:08 PM »

Well, yes , that is a personal research. And , no I am not married to AM. I dated AM for a few years and everything was good in terms of having fun time, talking about careers and goals in life.He was very intelligent, caring and funny person, but and he tried to be a part of everything what was important to me. But there was always something that was missing ... Big Time! That was the reason I didn't marry him. Luckily I found the men who I love with all my heart . He is Ukrainian. He is the man I feel protected with , strong, real man.
As of the good manners of AM, to be honest I do work in a very upscale professional environment with high class American men, and yes they are blowing their nose in the middle of lunch , burping accidently and dont care much how they dressed. It does bother me , but I don't judge them. I like working with them , but that's where it starts and ends.

Daveman · « **Reply #11 on:** April 13, 2012, 02:58:02 PM »

Quote from: nichka on April 13, 2012, 02:00:08 PM

Well, yes , that is a personal research. And , no I am not married to AM. I dated AM for a few years and everything was good in terms of having fun time, talking about careers and goals in life.He was very intelligent, caring and funny person, but and he tried to be a part of everything what was important to me. But there was always something that was missing ... Big Time! That was the reason I didn't marry him. Luckily I found the men who I love with all my heart . He is Ukrainian. He is the man I feel protected with , strong, real man.
As of the good manners of AM, to be honest I do work in a very upscale professional environment with high class American men, and yes they are blowing their nose in the middle of lunch , burping accidently and dont care much how they dressed. It does bother me , but I don't judge them. I like working with them , but that's where it starts and ends.

Now this oughtta get good in a hurry!

Welcome Nichka, glad you found your love. Wherever with whomever.

As to the topic heading... nah... they're not really compatible..

but pretty darn good together in bed.. so it's a decent trade off..

The rest is just fluff anyway ... used for the sole purpose of getting back into the bed..

BC · « **Reply #12 on:** April 13, 2012, 03:01:45 PM »

Quick answer:

No.

calmissile · « **Reply #13 on:** April 13, 2012, 03:08:22 PM »

Olga,

I sure wish the video had sub-titles in English. This would be a riot to understad in English.

Daveman · « **Reply #14 on:** April 13, 2012, 03:16:16 PM »

Quote from: OlgaH on April 13, 2012, 10:58:57 AM

Welcome Nichka

Ah, complex mood and an idea of being happy (at a Turkey resort)

..

Turkish resorts???

Let's plaaaayyyyyy GA GAAAA! The game of desire....

http://www.russianwomendiscussion.com/index.php?topic=13222.msg261259#msg261259

OlgaH · « **Reply #15 on:** April 13, 2012, 03:25:17 PM »

Quote from: calmissile on April 13, 2012, 03:08:22 PM

Olga,

I sure wish the video had sub-titles in English. This would be a riot to understad in English.

subtitles?

it would be, pardon me, something like: "f-k you f-ing motherf..er, f-k off, son of a b-ch, come here f-khead..." though Russian foul language is more colorful and richer... as a Russian soul

Spoon · « **Reply #16 on:** April 13, 2012, 03:50:06 PM »

Quote from: OlgaH on April 13, 2012, 10:58:57 AM

Welcome Nichka

Ah, complex mood and an idea of being happy (at a Turkey resort)

Ahh yes, the Russian entitlement attitude rears it's ugly head (again)

He was always in trouble once the shoe came off!!!

OlgaH · « **Reply #17 on:** April 13, 2012, 03:57:48 PM »

Quote from: Spoon on April 13, 2012, 03:50:06 PM

Ahh yes, the Russian entitlement attitude rears it's ugly head (again) He was always in trouble once the shoe came off!!!

I would give her a chance to experience a Turkish "monkey house" if I were a manager of that resort

Belvis · « **Reply #18 on:** April 13, 2012, 04:46:37 PM »

Quote from: nichka on April 13, 2012, 11:26:34 AM

Russian soul... I agree.

Quote from: ML on April 13, 2012, 10:53:19 AM

It's because of the 'Russian Soul.' No other culture has such.

Nichka, ML was sarcastic

calmissile · « **Reply #19 on:** April 13, 2012, 06:45:24 PM »

Olga,

I got the drift of her expressions just by her body language. What I was curious about, was she arguing with another customer, her boyfriend or husband, etc. Also, what started the argument?

Did he belch at the table?

OlgaH · « **Reply #20 on:** April 13, 2012, 07:05:18 PM »

Quote from: calmissile on April 13, 2012, 06:45:24 PM

Olga,

I got the drift of her expressions just by her body language. What I was curious about, was she arguing with another customer, her boyfriend or husband, etc. Also, what started the argument?

Did he belch at the table?

no, in the video she is drunk and arguing with a barman because she has to wait for her drink, as I understood.

"Did not you see Russian drunk women? You will see..." - she also said

That woman in the video is a typical "bydlo" with attitude as we say in Russia "cattle" more over "drunk cattle"

calmissile · « **Reply #21 on:** April 13, 2012, 07:11:04 PM »

Olga,

Thanks for clearing it up. I had guessed that someone had insulted her and she was responding.
Ha Ha Ha. I guess if we go to the bar to get a woman a drink, we better not take too long.

Yes, I have seen a drunk FSU women. I think it was the only time she was in a good mood.

OlgaH · « **Reply #22 on:** April 13, 2012, 07:16:11 PM »

Calmissile,

Because of such women and men like in the video the Russian tourists have a bad reputations... and very often they are called Russian pigs.

BTW there is a Russian saying: make a person drunk and you will see his/her true nature

calmissile · « **Reply #23 on:** April 13, 2012, 07:23:22 PM »

BTW there is a Russian saying: make a person drunk and you will see his/her true nature

OLga,

I totally agree. I think the expression must be universal! It is so true. It's hard to mask or fake your true personality when drinking. I'm glad I am a happy drunk.

Boethius · « **Reply #24 on:** April 13, 2012, 09:02:20 PM »

Quote

BTW there is a Russian saying: make a person drunk and you will see his/her true nature

There is the same saying in English.

Perhaps Sandro can confirm, but I think this is in Egypt, not Turkey. I think the language of the staff was Arabic, but I could be mistaken.

I recall lots of complaints about the drunken behaviour of Brits in Greece and Spain. But, they were largely students.

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