Why do so many women give up with International dating within days?

[Anotherkiwi]

I am with ML on all points.

Nice to see a RW agree with us!  I would add one more point, however, Stefan - it would be mandatory highly desirable for all dating/marriage websites to have a blocking facility to stop any unwanted correspondence (EM has this).  You could easily set up this to report on everyone who was blocked - you then look at the correspondence and try to figure out why the other party blocked them.  If it's quite clear why, and the behaviour of the offending member warrants it, you would then have the power to remove their profile (presumably everyone has read the Terms and Conditions of every site they've joined  ).

[steveboy]

I have a blocking facility! If a women wishes to block a guy she just clicks the button but do you think every women will block every guy after a short reply? He will always have the chance to send one last message before he's blocked. And plenty of Guys are removed, Funny nearly all US guys!!?
Maybe women in the US are used to being called ****and ***  and spat at in some parts of the US, I mean its not even safe for a women to go out alone in suburbs of Miami without being raped or worse? Some of these women from smaller cities are very cultured and educated and have never experienced this, despite what you say about Russian guys:)

And as I pointed out before its good enough reason for many to give up.

Im just saying

[BillyB]

Guys need to spare a few thoughts for the genuine young pretty girls who sign up to a Russian dating site expecting to find a decent guy who really is serous , only to be bombarded with ridiculous mails from hundreds of guys old enough to be their grandfathers. Its a big problem for the women. Many give up after just a few days.   

I didn't do marriage agencies but I communicated with lots of ladies especially on dating sites especially on the Mamba network. Some disappeared after a few days of signing up only to reappear later. I've asked them their reasons for leaving. Most popular answer for leaving was there were too many weird, rude and nasty men. Many of those men were young. That kind of behavior is more attributed to young men than old.


I suspect most people in the dating game come back to a place they didn't like to try again is because they realize they have to sort out a lot of losers to find a winner no matter where they're at. Whether it be a dating site, marriage agency, or in real life, individuals have to encounter a bunch of low quality and incompatible people before finding the right person.

[Chicagoguy]

Wouldn't it be possible for some women to just find a site or two and  join but not post a profile or picture. What's to stop them from doing the shopping ?

[steveboy]

Wouldn't it be possible for some women to just find a site or two and  join but not post a profile or picture. What's to stop them from doing the shopping ?

Women who do not upload images get very little response and usually leave even faster. Every guys wants to to meet and see his Russian dream women and go straight to the women with photos.

[Chicagoguy]

Steveboy - I think you misunderstood me. I am not talking about men finding there dream photo but just the opposite.
The women surf the sites and write the men that look interesting to them. Almost every woman I went out with wrote me first.

[Fishingguy]

Steveboy, I wrote back to a woman saying I would love to get to know her as a person and that I found inner beauty more important than her body or what she looks like - and she threatened to report me.

maybe she already has reported me. Such fiesty personality! I love it! hahaha.

I have a blocking facility! If a women wishes to block a guy she just clicks the button but do you think every women will block every guy after a short reply? He will always have the chance to send one last message before he's blocked. And plenty of Guys are removed, Funny nearly all US guys!!?
Maybe women in the US are used to being called ****and ***  and spat at in some parts of the US, I mean its not even safe for a women to go out alone in suburbs of Miami without being raped or worse? Some of these women from smaller cities are very cultured and educated and have never experienced this, despite what you say about Russian guys:)

And as I pointed out before its good enough reason for many to give up.

Im just saying