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Offline Taz

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Re: Enthusiasm
« Reply #25 on: January 13, 2015, 04:42:07 PM »
I would highly suggest going to meet her first. While there meet her friends and family as well. I am not surprised at all about being ask quickly to come visit. Many men write for what seems like forever and never show up. Better to fish or cut bait.


I would also suggest to any woman to come to the man's environment as well too if possible. Both people should have their eyes wide open.
Take time to learn the language. Even a little can go a long ways...

Get off your butt and go! Don't make excuses why you can't do it, find a way to make it work! Always go with a backup plan too!!!

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Re: Enthusiasm
« Reply #26 on: January 13, 2015, 07:03:20 PM »
Both people should have their eyes wide open.

That sort of takes the excitement away.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: Enthusiasm
« Reply #27 on: January 22, 2015, 02:50:33 AM »

P.S.

When I didn't write her back for 3 or 4 days (sudden funeral) she sent me a "Dear John" letter. A woman in a hurry apparently.

Telle est la vie.
Beautiful girls, won't you walk a little slower, when you walk past me? - Robert Goulet

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Re: Enthusiasm
« Reply #28 on: January 28, 2015, 07:36:14 PM »
Bill...That was awesome what you said about Skype and phone.  We do it twice a day every day and cannot wait to talk again.  Thanks for the affirmation!

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Re: Serious girl = phone and skype, Scammer or Harry Boris = excuses
« Reply #29 on: January 29, 2015, 08:31:00 AM »
And do not forget the production of added scammers. I managed to keep it to two, but Mrs I/O seems to have planned an invasion force. 8)

Hmmmmmmm................. Is Shadow clairvoyant?

Actually, Mrs 2tallbill has been working that scam as well. She brought
one 13 year old scammer with her and is about ready to have another
scammer born any minute.

 :P
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Enthusiasm
« Reply #30 on: January 29, 2015, 08:43:12 AM »
P.S.

When I didn't write her back for 3 or 4 days (sudden funeral) she sent me a "Dear John" letter. A woman in a hurry apparently.

Telle est la vie.

You can look at this as a positive, she obviously wasn't the future
Mrs xiphoid.

You also need to look at this as a numbers game, just like the
scammers do. There is an excellent girl out there waiting for you
in the FSU, the only problem is that you don't know who she is.

So what you need to do is to cast a wide net by writing a ton of
letters then ruthlessly eliminate any girl who is not the future
Mrs xiphoid.

The more girls you sift through the sooner you will find Mrs xiphoid
Get the girl on the phone and skype as soon as possible.

Lastly when you find the potential Mrs xiphoid then you need to be
a man of action and get on a plane to meet her, romance her and
win her heart.

Udachi!

Bill
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

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Re: Serious girl = phone and skype, Scammer or Harry Boris = excuses
« Reply #31 on: January 29, 2015, 08:51:01 AM »
Hmmmmmmm................. Is Shadow clairvoyant?

Actually, Mrs 2tallbill has been working that scam as well. She brought
one 13 year old scammer with her and is about ready to have another
scammer born any minute.

 :P

Pretty quick work there Bill.  So I guess your equipment still worked after all the years of inactivity.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: Enthusiasm
« Reply #32 on: January 29, 2015, 05:26:01 PM »
You can look at this as a positive, she obviously wasn't the future
Mrs xiphoid.

You also need to look at this as a numbers game, just like the
scammers do. There is an excellent girl out there waiting for you
in the FSU, the only problem is that you don't know who she is.

So what you need to do is to cast a wide net by writing a ton of
letters then ruthlessly eliminate any girl who is not the future
Mrs xiphoid.

The more girls you sift through the sooner you will find Mrs xiphoid
Get the girl on the phone and skype as soon as possible.

Lastly when you find the potential Mrs xiphoid then you need to be
a man of action and get on a plane to meet her, romance her and
win her heart.

Udachi!

Bill

I frequently suggest people post their best possible profile and let women write them first. It worked well for me. Never had a scammer in 4 years but as a caveat I was talking to older women.

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Re: Enthusiasm
« Reply #33 on: January 30, 2015, 01:31:54 PM »
I frequently suggest people post their best possible profile and let women write them first. It worked well for me. Never had a scammer in 4 years but as a caveat I was talking to older women.

I tried that once . . . but it didn't work.

The women who contacted me were too old . . . meaning they were my age.
A beautiful woman is pleasant to look at, but it is easier to live with a pleasant acting one.

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Re: Enthusiasm
« Reply #34 on: February 04, 2015, 06:18:39 PM »
I frequently suggest people post their best possible profile and let women write them first. It worked well for me. Never had a scammer in 4 years but as a caveat I was talking to older women.

There are many different strategies for different personality types.
My strategy fits my personality and I didn't get contacted by many
girls that I was interested in.

I was visiting a girl in Voronezh when I could see things weren't going
to work out so I got on the social networking sites and contacted many
girls to see if they wanted to meet me for tea or coffee, I even added
cake to sweeten the deal  ;D

I came across a girl who had amazing eyes and I wrote her, asked her
to meet me so she did. She turned out to be the one.

Udachi!

Bill
FSUW are not for entry level daters
FSUW don't do vague
FSUW like a man of action. Be a man of action 
If you find a promising girl, get your butt on a plane.
There are a hundred ways to be successful and a thousand ways to f#ck it up
Just kiss the girl, don't ask her first. Tolerate NO excuses!

 

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