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Offline anono

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« Reply #50 on: April 03, 2005, 01:42:36 PM »
elen, my soon to be ex sister in law, who has not worked a day in over 15 years, is telling my brother that he should get a better job. the $60k a year she gets for sitting on her ass is not enough for her.

she has confided in people she shouldn't and word has gotten back to me that she has said "i need to find a rich european man". she has no intention of ever working, she drives  a new car bought by my brother before the divorce, she blames my brother for all her failures, takes no responsibility for the failed marriage, lives in their house which is bigger than she needs, will not let my brother retrieve any of his belongings without a fight, lies to anyone willing to listen about how terrible my brother is to her, buys things with my brothers money for their two kids and then tells them "tell daddy he has to pay for half", trying to make it look like he is cheap when it was 100% of his money she spent in the first place and if he did "pay his half" he would be paying 150%, which she would put in her pocket. the reason she has little money for the kids is she is busy paying off the huge credit cards she ran up during and after the marriage, expecting my brother to pay.

she is one of the best looking women in my town so no men are willing to tell her the truth about anything, always agree with her and do so because they want into her pants. so in her mind she is perfect and my brother is a rat.

she even blames him for the lack of her own ability to get herself off, which she did not discover until after he moved out.

i wouldn't touch this woman with a 100 meter pole because i know what a bitch she really is, but her smile and good looks and slim body, that's all the men see.

when these kind of women complain "men only want sex" it tells me all i need to know about them. of course, they have never looked at themselves closely enough to understand it is all they have to offer.

20 year olds do not have enough money to interest these ladies

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« Reply #51 on: April 03, 2005, 01:48:02 PM »
i should add, that for years, her response to my brothers request to stop spending so much money was to go out and spend more. it turns out that it is actually cheaper for my brother to divorce her and run two households than to remain married to her.

and the funny thing is, the sex he has with her now, is better than it ever was during their marriage and she is fully aware of his new girlfriend.

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« Reply #52 on: April 03, 2005, 03:51:32 PM »
I think I know your sister-in-law,  she sounds very much like my x-wife of many years ago.  Perhaps,  they are twins?  Thanks for all the memories,  Tim
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« Reply #53 on: April 03, 2005, 04:00:29 PM »
Ok at the risk of sounding like saying "I told you so" anno and tim360 what was described by anno is the very reason I had  pernup in my first marrage, saved me so much more than money and why I have one now. Insurance.

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« Reply #54 on: April 05, 2005, 10:56:34 AM »
sorry about that tim...:shock:

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« Reply #55 on: April 05, 2005, 11:30:58 AM »
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i wouldn't touch this woman with a 100 meter pole because i know what a bitch she really is, but her smile and good looks and slim body, that's all the men see.

Let go and check a poll in thread "Why Russian women?" what AM are looking for in Russian women:D - still the same things

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« Reply #56 on: April 05, 2005, 12:45:33 PM »
I read a recent poll that 33% of all single or divorced women 40 or older in the USA are now dating younger men.  Apparently they don't want us anymore! ;) So now we have lowered our pool of available women our age to just 67%. Oh have pity on us AM. LOL :D
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« Reply #57 on: April 05, 2005, 12:52:23 PM »
Elan, not only does the poll show beauty and youth are the majority of the reasons we seek RW, lol, the other poll shows that pre-nups is the issue still needing to be resolved with AM and their to be RW.  I gotta say, guess we AM just might not be quite as clueless as you would think (young beautiful wives with a pre-nup). :cool: 

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« Reply #58 on: April 06, 2005, 04:13:04 AM »
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I gotta say, guess we AM just might not be quite as clueless as you would think (young beautiful wives with a pre-nup).

It'd better for you not to know what I think about AM:P:P:PМеньше знаешь - лучше спишь

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« Reply #59 on: April 06, 2005, 04:35:00 AM »
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It'd better for you not to know what I think about AM:P:P:PМеньше знаешь - лучше спишь

It is not necessary for you to answer Elen most of the AM on the forum already know what you think from your postings.

 

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« Reply #60 on: April 06, 2005, 04:57:41 AM »
Nope You NEVER know what's there in female's brains:P

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« Reply #61 on: April 06, 2005, 09:35:37 AM »
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Nope You NEVER know what's there in female's brains:P
LoL.... That is all too true, most men wonder if there is ANYTHING in there sometimes. ;)

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« Reply #62 on: April 06, 2005, 09:49:30 AM »
Elen, I'd still like to hear your explanation why some Russian women are looking for Western guys.  I would not mind hearing Fiorella and Kvinia's opinion on this issue as well.  So, what is so good about us in your countryladies eyes???
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« Reply #63 on: April 06, 2005, 10:07:50 AM »
My explanation???:? Now...

After you cross some "ages line" (let say 25) the majority of males around you just disappears no one know where:? (some married, some "clean snow in Siberia" some complete alcogolics, some already dead, others are just morons) So it's really a matter of disproportion in population especially in small towns coz males from those places moves to big cities , making things even worse for local girls .

That's what I'm aware about.  There are other reasons as well such as money, more higher livel of life and others "material" things.

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« Reply #64 on: April 06, 2005, 10:11:32 AM »
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LoL.... That is all too true, most men wonder if there is ANYTHING in there sometimes

:D Tiger there is ANYTHING even in vacuum:P:P:P (didn't study that in your school?

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« Reply #65 on: April 06, 2005, 10:29:08 AM »
Female brain

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« Reply #66 on: April 06, 2005, 10:32:43 AM »
comparing to man's brain

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« Reply #67 on: April 06, 2005, 10:34:49 AM »
:D :D:D

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« Reply #68 on: April 06, 2005, 12:05:07 PM »
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 Tiger there is ANYTHING even in vacuum:P:P:P (didn't study that in your school?

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Elen if you knew ANYTHING about physics you would know that even in a perfect vacuum their exists energy at the Quantum level, Have you every heard of Quantum Vacuum?

 As a matter if fact one of my advanced degrees in in physics, so I studied this far more than you can imagine as well as being a published author on the subject.

 

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« Reply #69 on: April 06, 2005, 12:12:30 PM »
Good for you !

but for the case you didn't understand from the first time I was speaking about the same thing - even vacuum is not empty

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« Reply #70 on: April 06, 2005, 03:45:57 PM »
Fiorella thank you for the pictures, however the man brain picture is incorrect.  There must be more space for sex somewhere..  Just kidding..  Don't yell at me.  

I will give to all my thoughts on why at least for me I look to Russia and Ukraine to meet hopefully my future wife.  I have met some very wonderful AW since my divorce.  Unfortunately most of them already have children and do not want any more.  Some do not want children, and the rest either I am not interested or they are not intersted.  At least on RW web sites many of the women are interested in creating families and talk of lifetimes together.  Maybe I am different but that appeals to me.  However I will suggest that is the reason many of us AM are here.  We want to find a woman who will be the love of our lives.  A woman we can have children with and spend the rest of our lives with.  However I will say from the statistics I read the odds are against us.  I have wrote this thought in personal letters but I will post it here and receive whatrever ridicule that may come from it.

Men and women are different.  At least for me I do not want a woman who is dependent on me for everything.  I also do not want such an independent woman that makes me feel unneeded.  At some basic level I want to marry a woman and take care of her.  I want to return home every night and spend my "me" time with her.  ( Me time = time I don't have to spend working to be able to live ) I also feel at some basic level most women want a man to take care of her.  Most AW are extremely independent.  They resemble AM 20 years ago hell maybe AM since 40 years ago.  I prefer my woman to be a little more on the feminine / tender side.  

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« Reply #71 on: April 07, 2005, 09:34:25 AM »
Quote from: Elen
Nope You NEVER know what's there in female's brains:P
I found a scientific chart that should help us guys :D:D
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