It is taking me more energy to get a woman's guard down and BEGIN to have a normal human relationship, than it would take for me to get laid in any city in the world.
Chivo gave you the correct answer about the VM dating process. How else would a quality woman behave knowing that you are meeting several women in her city? And "intimacy" is more than sex. You do want to share private thoughts such as secrets and dreams.
It will change when you tell a particular woman that you want to spend the rest of your time just meeting her and no others. Sorry for the negative thought, but what will you do if she says she has little time available? This could be true given her job, dacha time on the weekend, etc.
Sex is not my objective here.
As Chivo said, " Oh she wants the physical, make no mistake. But, you're definitely going to have to earn it."
It is more than suspicious for me to consider someone going on a "tour" and having multiple sex partners after meeting a woman for only hours? (And I am very very good at such things) Only "transactions" work in that manner.
Not true about "transactions." Some women want to claim you, and they believe sex is the method to at least monopolize your limited time. Avoid them.
I did one trip when I was meeting 2-3 women per day over a few days. Most women were friendly but reserved, knowing the VM game. Some women were coy and revealed little (maybe they did not like me). OTOH, two women near the end of our meeting showed me very revealing bikini photos of themselves. And one other women told me it was a tradition in Ukraine to kiss when saying goodbye and proceeded to check my tonsils. The hormonal response is distracting from the VM mission. So do your best to avoid them.
Tim, you may want to try an experiment and go to one city to meet only one woman for a long weekend. You must of course be convinced about her beforehand by having a number of long and enlightening Skype conversations. I say this because meeting just one woman is received far better than meeting several.
