Name a few good agencies for a lady friend to join

[Dave13]

One of the major problems in this process, is the large percentage of keyboard Romeo's.  I have a insiders view, because my wife Anna worked for LTP an agency, almost 90% of the guys never visit the ladies, they just talk and talk.

Dave

[ladyR]

Thus they set their requirements much too high, and likely will end up with the other babushkas who gather at the parks in evening and weekends.

What requirements in general do you recommend to set? Of course everyone has their own criteria, but, for example while setting the "search" parameters in dating sites?

I think that it is better to know what you want and be a babushka in the park than to spoil your own life and a life of your "wrong" partner who  you picked up just not to be alone.

[kievstar]

Her age range is not going to be the problem with her current age.  The problem is she is a 7.  However most men in her criteria should be with a 7 and they try to be with a 8.5 or higher. Men can trade up in Ukraine / Russia on women and get away with it but trading up more than 1 point is dangerous and once she relocates to foreign country the point gradually disappears.  Having children is like a 3 pointer.  Why so many 5's marry 8's and it lasts.  Having children together really helps.

She should not get to excited with men at first.  Need to play a little hard to get or the guy is going to be bored after 1 visit.  Many men especially what she is looking for like a challenge.  She is targetting men with no marriage experience and may have commitment issues.  Showing to much attention with these type of men generally is a disaster.   

[JR]

What requirements in general do you recommend to set? Of course everyone has their own criteria, but, for example while setting the "search" parameters in dating sites?

I think that it is better to know what you want and be a babushka in the park than to spoil your own life and a life of your "wrong" partner who  you picked up just not to be alone.

If a woman of say, 31 sets her acceptable age range at 27 to 32 she is going have very few takers. Especially if she isn't hot as hell   One of the primary reasons men do this is to get a younger woman. From what I have seen the majority of men seeking FSUW are more advanced in years. I have asked several FSUW women who were less than 25 and looking for a max of 28 y.o. men if they were having any luck and they all said almost none.

Seems to me that most men younger than about 25 are going to have trouble with financing a venture like this. They just haven't had the time in the work force to collect vacation time,climb the pay scale and save some money. Most are going to have college debts to pay off, a car loan, various credit card bills and maybe an apartment to pay for. And usually they'd rather party and find some instant gratification instead of court someone from long distance without the benefits of actually touching another human being. Much easier to just hit the bar scene and take home what you can catch that night.

[ambach123]

United States has over 57 million unattached women over the age of 25, they come in all types, sizes, shapes, tempraments, and every color and ethnicity known to mankind. American women for the most part are comparatively honest and very hard working.

I would not know why a man under 40 would want to go to the other side of the world to look for a mdiocre woman of 31.
For a young man, there is no shortage of women here, go to any bar in any major city on a weekend night, young men don't need to spend thousands of dollars to go to FSU and bring back a woman who is tough to communicate with and cannot even find a decent job, at least for a while.
When a FSU woman complains that she cannot find a " quality man "; who do they think goes to FSU, brings them here and supports them, knowing the huge risks involved?  It certainly is not Brad Pitt.
They want Brad Pitt types? More power to them, just look into your own country. I have nothing against any woman ( or man) having high standards; hooray for them, just look into the right places which is their own backyard, not the foreign men.

[Show Time]

I think that it is better to know what you want and be a babushka in the park than to spoil your own life and a life of your "wrong" partner who  you picked up just not to be alone.

Well said, LadyR.  Now please stop reading.  You gonna hate the rest of this.   

Couple things, Guys.

First, let's remember that the "7" score is one man's assessment.  A man who also said

She is 30, cute as hell, great body, sincere and vulnerable, she is a real catch.

Not trying to slam MatryoshkaMan, but remember that the 1 - 10 scale is a sliding scale based on the judging individual's taste.

Using my own criteria, I would give a 10 to the girl that has the cute face, with the stripper's body.  (I asked you to stop reading, LadyR.)  That's just me.  Since I'm already in the shallow end of the pool, I'll go ahead and confess that's the primary reason I'm looking for someone that has a child.  I don't have to worry about her not losing the "baby weight" or the stretch marks, etc.  (I warned you, LadyR.)

I've been to the EM site and done a search for this mystery lady.  Assuming I found the right one, I would rate her higher than a 7.  Of course if I found the right one, there's only one photo and it's a head shot, so I can't give a full score.

The age thing.............Well I know I'm in the minority here, but I'm not necessarily looking for someone younger.  Granted, I don't see me going 40ish considering my age, but 35 is very possible assuming all the other shallow, stringent requirements are met.

My $0.02 

[Faux Pas]

United States has over 57 million unattached women over the age of 25, they come in all types, sizes, shapes, tempraments, and every color and ethnicity known to mankind. American women for the most part are comparatively honest and very hard working.

I would not know why a man under 40 would want to go to the other side of the world to look for a mdiocre woman of 31.
For a young man, there is no shortage of women here, go to any bar in any major city on a weekend night, young men don't need to spend thousands of dollars to go to FSU and bring back a woman who is tough to communicate with and cannot even find a decent job, at least for a while.
When a FSU woman complains that she cannot find a " quality man "; who do they think goes to FSU, brings them here and supports them, knowing the huge risks involved?  It certainly is not Brad Pitt.
They want Brad Pitt types? More power to them, just look into your own country. I have nothing against any woman ( or man) having high standards; hooray for them, just look into the right places which is their own backyard, not the foreign men.

ambach...it doesn't take a young man to pick up the women you are describing here. These AW young and old are there for the taking for anyone with a modicum of game. Some disposable cash is also an asset but no more than it takes to drench the target in alcohol. The more you post the more you reveal. I've heard from reliable sources you are actually a pretty good guy but, from all indications but here, from postings here you seem to be a social leper. Quisimoto can pick up a hot young woman in most American bars with a little cash and some flash. It really isn't that difficult. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure out what that is about but, is that the woman you seek?

[ladyR]

If a woman of say, 31 sets her acceptable age range at 27 to 32 she is going have very few takers.

I agree completely. I think that I have more "psychological" criteria than age/weight and other social-demographic characteristics. But sometimes I think that they are more "strict" in fact than any age/weight range

Well said, LadyR.  Now please stop reading.  You gonna hate the rest of this.   

I don't hate people who pay too much attention to the "scale" things - I just sometimes feel sorry for them. Speaking about long term relationship and especially marriage I think that they are just like those who pick a car according to their shoes color. The second even more "strategical" in the long run from my point of view

[Billgreen54]

It's a good idea to imagine the perfect woman and know that no person is perfect.  Just remember that what you see is what you get.  Hopefully you have the skills to see whats inside as well as outside.  It's impossible to attempt to change a person after the fact.  I think that some physical attributes should be considered, but not as an absolute reason for loving or not loving someone.

[Simoni]

In terms of the "10" thing, it is all so subjective.  There is beautiful and there is sexy and many other aspects, but the good thing is that we are all attracted to different types of women.  My friend Rivardo likes brunettes; I prefer blonds (just one, mind you! LOL).

Marina actually points out sexy girls to me...she is noticing there clothes or their "look," and BTW, that is the difference between AW and FSU women.  FSU women KNOW how to make themselves alluring.

One last point-- a pic does not do it in terms of a 7-10 rating.  That comes in person. When I was dating, my 8s often became 10s in real life, and the 10s might become 7s.   It's in the soul, the personality.

BTW-- my wife is a "10" to me, and that is all that matters, is it not?