Hi everybody! I'm Russian Scammer!

[Mars]

If you want to know - did I give money for someone - I want to ask you.
Look my pics and say am I looking as woman without head?
I never gave any money, I won't make this in future any men (exept my son) - Western, Russian or Eastern.
for me there are no men who ask money from women.

As used in these dating forums, the concept of 'scammer' refers to FSU women who seek money (one way or the other) from Western men.

So, as I understand you, in the reverse situation, you have never been scammed or attempted to be scammed (seeking money from you) by a genuine Western man.  

[edited by Mod2 Last sentence removed- Mars, racial ethnic and religious slurs are not tolerated at RWD]

 Ethnic/racial slurs

[Rina_G]

Hi Mars
I don't understand why you ask me such questions?
it seems to me we was diccussed this before.
you want me to repeat - OK
yes you're absolutely right
1. I'm in searshing 16 monthes
2. I never ask money from foreing men
3. I never got money from foreing men
As desert - lol - I never saw any foreing man in real :ohbrother:
I don't know why - maybe this is destiny
 

[mirrror]

I don't know why - maybe this is destiny
 

Your man is somewhere looking for you so don't loose your patience...you will find each other.You look great and sound wise.

Good luck.

[Rina_G]

Hi Mirror!
many thanks.
I apreciate you cause you are Mirror and cause it's your first post here.
I know how it's hard - to begin any way.
Good luck for you too

[NJ]

2. Internet husbands

Oh, this is the most dangerous type of scammers. They are real people, intelligent and interesting conversationalist. They send you the actual photos, they will switch to Skype and MSN. They may even call you at first, to strengthen your faith in their reality and authenticity.
They are successful people with money and status. They may even look like an ideal choice, and as such can be very, very long time. Until a woman has the patience to swallow his constant «tomorrow».
They have the status, education, stable jobs, real estate for life and recreation, friends, relatives and a little free time for pleasant conversation with an intelligent and beautiful woman after evening tea.
He has a lot of positive qualities, he hasn’t only one thing - the desire to make a real virtual acquaintance. He may even meet you one day if he comes to work in your country. But you will never find a place in his real life.
I paid for this valuable experience 3 and a half months of my life. Some women hang on such acquaintance for years. But even for a couple of months she gets used to the man, his constant presence in her life. Every night is a pleasant conversation. And you become internet wife.
He promised to teach me Italian, every night for 15 minutes. He spoke of the feelings (or rather wrote). He talks about a possible meeting in a couple of weeks of dating. You plan a date. But then it is delayed - initially for a month, then two, then up to Christmas or the summer, then to the summer or Christmas.
When it was all over, I’m strong woman, but I gathered myself in parts of three days. And he still sits on the site and looking for new women.

Rina you just described my "ex internet husband". You are more experienced then me so you ran away from the hook 2-3 times sooner then I did.

As for your doubts about results: corresponding with my ex I was 100% sure he is the best man I could ever ever meet. Past 2-3 months after restarting my search I've met at least 4 guys that suited me better and that were\are ready to get to plain. Just this time I'm more picky. If you have a profile on a EM, have you ever noticed that there are so many profiles of good looking men that can't be opened because "they have already met someone", "are engaged to be married" etc? Have you noticed that so many guys on this board are ready to invest their affords, time and (yes) money to meet a RW or have already done it? Open a "success stories" page of any international dating site with real marriage pictures and testimonials.

So many decent, educated and intelligent WM are in search for their RW. The same as many decent, educated and intelligent RW are in search for their Western second halves. Of cause there are scammers from both sides and other difficulties in finding a good decent man, but IMHO it's definitely worth trying.     

[Rina_G]

Many thanks for the post.
Fortunately, I do not doubt the correctness of the chosen my path. Every woman who begins a similar search, many times confronted with typical situations.
Yes, AM think scammers those who take their money. I think scammers who take women time and confidence in success. We are not going to argue who is right of us.
My search did not begin yesterday, I bought a lot and found many interesting people and things in this process. I have the patience and not hurry the result. I am looking for not just a man, I'm looking for a husband for all life. I'm going to live long, so do not see the point to hurry.
I have been on many dating sites and I know many stories of living with happy end. Hopefully, someday my story will have happy end too.
I won’t conduct comparative analysis of sites, it is difficult for my English and may not be interested in the community. We have another point – men and women/
Some days ago I found man from Ukrain. We was talking about Russian dating sites and I sent him one charter from my book about Russian sites. I thought it was the most funny charter and I wanted to make him smile and laugh.
Wow - he became thinking very very and sadly. And he asked me – send more.
I say – no, never. This is book for women. I think – men have to read this - lol

[mirrror]

I have the patience and not hurry the result.

Hello,Rina

There is only 1 man (whom you are looking for) in "a sea of men" so it is hard and long job to find him.If to understand that then it is easier to be patient. You look like a cheerful lady on your avatar and maybe you are a succesfull lady in your life so you need similar (not a looser) man in your life.

[Rina_G]

to Mirror
thanks for reply
you're right - every has their time and luck.
and really I never wanted to collect men harem - just one.
as say Russains - will live - will see

[mirrror]

I hope you know that many girls look for a Mister Right and they share their experiences with each other on forum.antidate.org.Put www in front of and you will see a site name.

Good luck.

[Rina_G]

thanks I know this forum and I was reading this before.
I'm writing on another women forum and found them many many good smart and beauty women, which relly became my friends.
I don't want to say negative things about men and to read the same.
we can't be on all forums - we have a work and any business also.

[mirrror]

I don't want to say negative things about men and to read the same.
we can't be on all forums - we have a work and any business also.

Any advice can be appreciated when it needs especially from women who are succesfull already or from expericenced friends...it is why I told you about those forum,simple that.

[Rina_G]

lol maybe I'm experienced
but success
i'm successful in unsuccess - lol.

[Rina_G]

Hi guys!
I need in your help now
I was registered on one interest dating site last tonight.
but this morting I can't come in it - look

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I would like to check scam black list and to know that I amn't there now.
Maybe those guys who are in searching and have possible to look this blacklists can help me in it?
Hope and wait
Rina

[Shadow]

Hi guys!
I need in your help now
I was registered on one interest dating site last tonight.
but this morting I can't come in it - look

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Account Suspended

It has been suspended due to possible violations of our Service Agreement or account irregularities. Possible reasons include:

Creating fake / low quality profile
Uploading unacceptable content
Sending spam or other "junk" email to other members
Suspicious account activity(registration, login, etc...)
Advertising other websites on our service
If you believe that you have received this message in error then please contact ***

I would like to check scam black list and to know that I amn't there now.
Maybe those guys who are in searching and have possible to look this blacklists can help me in it?
Hope and wait
Rina

If you feel they blocked your profile without reason then send them an e-mail.

[Rina_G]

I sent this question to admin of the site already
but I feel I never get reply on it
will see