Gator:
I dont mind an intense nerd since I am like that. One thing that you fail to realize is how skewed the ratio is. Asians, here in CA, dominate the college scene. I wish I had a bit of that yellow fever but I simply dont feel anything for them. Frankly, I should be offended that you imply I'm racist (blond > brunette), but I'm not going to fake indignation since I know myself.
Give me someone who is passionate about learning, thin frame, and open-minded who loves me, and I'm a happy man. I dont think you guys realize how difficult it is to find that since the US doesnt have a culture that promotes education for women. When I would go to conferences, you had these beautiful Slavic women cover topics on semiconductor lasers and non-linear optics. I spoke to a few and they seemed very cool. It would be dumb of me to ignore this pattern and continue hitting the club and bar scene looking for my girl. Like I said before, I'll continue looking in alumni events, but I'm also trying this MOB thing out. I really dont want to be 40 and single, and then realize I should have expanded my search.
Take care and be careful with those nymphos
Youngbuck,
Why a nerd?
A real nerd tends to be intense and single minded. Are you sure that is what you want?
I also am attracted to "brains and beauty," and I met several attractive RW interested in technology, science, etc. You could call them nerds, but I really relish 1) their high level of intellectual curiosity, 2) their disregard for conformity, and their intensity.
If that is what you seek, you can find such RW. I met several, older than what you seek but they were the same when younger. None were what I would call model quality, drop dead gorgeous, etc. The "10s" tend to choose a different path.
The best was a professor but too sexual for me. To give you some idea, she could not ride the train when young because the movement would turn her on too much, making her crazy. She now rides trains because she has learned how to masturbate in public without being obvious. I will not disclose some other facets of her sexuality as they may disturb some readers.
