What can I ask the Russian Woman that writes to me?

[Cacke]

What can I ask the Russian Woman that writes to me?

I dont want to waste my time and powers to write long letters and then it ends because she can not afford to have telephone contact with me or even travel to me.

I have russian origin and my mother told me to find me a russian woman because .................

But I am tired to write many letters and then it ends

and how do i see if it is a real honest woman because many sends my 100s of pretty pictures, many answer my letter to fast, others fall in love

Please give me advice how i can find right in all russian womens that is writting to me.

I am on Russianeuro. I have paid that and 3 other sites.

Is there any site that can garantie that dos not have scammers or frauds?

[SANDRO43]

Cacke, welcome to RWD. However, a poll is irrelevant for the answers you're seeking .

What can I ask the Russian Woman that writes to me?

Do you want to know ANYTHING about her ?

I have russian origin and my mother told me to find me a russian woman because .................

Because?

But I am tired to write many letters and then it ends

Part of this game .

and how do i see if it is a real honest woman because many sends my 100s of pretty pictures, many answer my letter to fast, others fall in love

Please give me advice how i can find right in all russian womens that is writting to me.

If we had that knowledge, we'd sell it VERY dearly . Anyway, you might want to have a look at our Scam Card  - in the Scam Avoidance menu at left - for a few points to ponder over.

Is there any site that can garantie that dos not have scammers or frauds?

None. However, some have less than others.

Since you seem knew at this, you might also consider getting and reading our E-book - in Featured at top right.

[Cacke]

Thank you!

(((Do you want to know ANYTHING about her  ?)))

I was thinking about something but I didn’t write it. I mean can I ask the woman’s that may reveal that they are scammers / frauds ? 

(((Because?)))

I want know about my history, many are not so spoiled as we are in my country and I like languages and cultures. grandmother was a Russian woman

(((Part of this game)))

Can I ask if they afford to call abroad in the beginning of the contact? Or is it to fast? i ask for advices.

[ECOCKS]

I'd suggest you look over the 10 Commandments and the archives.

You will find good advice as well as stories of both good and bad experiences which you can learn from if you wish to do so.

Take the time to think about what you are doing, assess your resources and apply them in the best way possible if this is what YOU want to do in searching for a new relationship.

Ask direct questions about the things that you wonder or wish guidance with, the more detailed the question, the better the answer(s) will probably be.

Best of Luck!

[SANDRO43]

Can I ask if they afford to call abroad in the beginning of the contact? Or is it to fast?

We always recommend moving on to direct communications as quickly as possible, once one has established some mutual liking, to bypass agency interference .

However, that's no guarantee you're not dealing with a scammer, even when video chats are involved. You''ll have to develop your own 'sense of smell' for that .

[ECOCKS]

You should get in direct communications as quickly as possible, but most women will expect you to call them. Get the agencies out of the picture as quickly as possible.

Read the stories on the board from those who continued to send letters for a few dollars each and pay for translation and gift services.

If this is beyond your financial means, you should do two things:

1. get Skype on your PC.

2. look over the expenses involved in building a relationship with a Rw and then getting her here for marriage and life

[Blues Fairy]

Can I ask if they afford to call abroad in the beginning of the contact? Or is it to fast? i ask for advices.

Incoming calls are usually free of charge, so yes they can.  Unless, of course, you prefer HER to call YOU - which she may not like very much since it's the gentleman's role to take initiative and pay for such things, especially in the beginning.  You can also ask for her Skype or ICQ account name - this will warrant some more writing (which you are obviously not very good at), but in a more interactive way and possibly some video conferencing.  Seeing a face is one way to filter possible liars, especially if you are good at reading facial expressions and body language.

my mother told me to find me a russian woman because ...........

...because she always tells you to do things and you always listen?.. 

[I/O]

I dont want to waste my time and powers to write long letters and then it ends because she can not afford to have telephone contact with me or even travel to me.

Gong!!!! Next pretender....................

[Cacke]

many answers but thank you all for that.

What "next pretender" ?

[I/O]

What "next pretender" ?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pretender

[Vaughn]

What "next pretender" ?

Cacke, welcome. I'd like to hear why a Swedish woman would want a Russian woman to travel
to her, etc...  or have you incorrectly entered information on your profile?

[Doll]

I want know about my history, many are not so spoiled as we are in my country and I like languages and cultures.

The OP is a woman 

[Rina_G]

Hi Cacke!
you will never find one magic question that will allow you to understand the true purpose and value of women (and just for the person). Relationship - it does not flash and no fireworks. You need to be able to find and lose, lose trust and faith. This is a normal process by which you will learn to read between the lines, ask the right questions in the correct order, move from one type of connection to another. confidence will grow, the word will be warmer welcome meeting. The rest will be in a real meeting.
Rina

[JR]

The OP is a woman 

The OP is a woman....

Her mother is telling her to find a Russian woman...

She (a Russian woman) has to come to me (a Russian woman)

I'm with I/O.....GONG!

[Cacke]

I am a male.
I might have filled my profile wrong.
Hi Rina
Thanks for all your answer even those who just playing with me here.

[mies]

how old are you?
how attractive are you?

[Rina_G]

If we talk about questions I can offer you questions which I ask men. you can change or remove wrong.
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What is the status of your marriage and how many kids did you have?
What are you doing for a living?
Do you exercise regularly?
Are you considerate and thoughtful of others?
Do you treat others as you would like to be treated?
How often do you lose your temper?
What do you do when you're alone?
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?
What are your three favorite states?
Do you have any pets?
Do you enjoy cooking?.
Are you patient?
Are you romantic?
Do you love unconditionally?
What's more important to you, love or money?
Have you ever been unfaithful to your mate?.
When you go anywhere are you usually on time?
How often do you like to go out?
When dining out what food do you enjoy?
How much do you enjoy a walk on the beach?
How much do you like reading?
How do you feel about World Politics?
What type of TV shows do you like?
You best describe yourself as being?
Do you like to cook?
Do you want to have more children?
What type of exercise do you do the most?
How often do you cook?
Are you an Athletic person?
How much time do you spend watching TV each day?
How many times have you been married?
Do you travel to other places in your Country?
What is your highest level of education completed?
What is the most important thing in your relationship?
Do you use illegal drugs?
On a scale of 1 to 5, with 5 the best, how do you rate your looks?
How do you deal with conflict?
How much time do you spend with your friends each week?
Are you comfortable with your present income to debt ratio?
What are your thoughts about religion?
Do you smoke?
Are you flexible in your thinking about life?
How important are good looks to you?
Are you generous with your time and money?
Do you drink?
Are you an honest & caring person?
What types of books do you read?
How many children do you have?
Have you ever been physically violent with someone you love?
How many pets do you own?
Do you have a lot of close friends?
Do you enjoy eating healthy foods?
Do you travel outside of your Country?
Do you exercise?
What level of health am you now in?
Do you like your job/work?
What is your Religion?
What type of movies do you like?
How often do you listen to music?
What are your spending habits like?
Are you a forgiving person?
What types of food do you cook?
What is the first thing that attracts you to me?
What is your favorite type of music?
How is your relationship with your parents & siblings?
Do you like doing things outdoors?
What are your favorite hobbies?
How do you describe your daily diet?
How do you feel about pets?
What do you do for fun?
How do you feel about Our Environment?

[Cacke]

oj that was many questions that i could use, thanks.

thank you very much.

[mies]

if the major two questions that interest you are:
1) whether she is ready to pay for calling you to Sweden
2) whether she is ready to pay for her trip to visit you in Sweden, soon

why don't you ask those two questions? most women will disappear after you ask, but maybe 1-2 will agree to visit you.

[Rina_G]

to mies

as ussually - first man arrives in FSU - it's easer for man and his money.

I don't know women who wanted to come to man with her money.
   

[GoodOlBoy]

Read the stories on the board from those who continued to send letters for a few dollars each and pay for translation and gift services.
If this is beyond your financial means, you should do two things:
1. get Skype on your PC.
2. look over the expenses involved in building a relationship with a Rw and then getting her here for marriage and life

If anybody's finances are that "tight", they might want to look locally for a wife.

Dating RW is not a cheap adventure.


GOB


BTW....I almost forgot, welcome to RWD Cacke.

[mies]

to mies

as ussually - first man arrives in FSU - it's easer for man and his money.
I don't know women who wanted to come to man with her money.

as usually - yes. But this isn't what Cacke wants.
His three questions in his first post were:
1) how do I know that woman will pay for the phone to call me?
2) how do I know that woman will pay for her trip to visit me and I am not just wasting my time writing to her?
3) what questions should I ask to make sure she isn't a scammer?

[Rina_G]

I see.
OK
iI think this questions are ussually for beginning of dating.
.

[boaterguy]

Rina, that's one hellava list of questions! I hope when you write a man you don't shower them with these questions! IMHO the majority of these questions should answer themselves in the course of exchanging letters. Some of them should only be asked when a relationship has become quite serious...perhaps even after the 1st meeting or 2. A couple probably only until an offer of marriage has been made!

Good Luck!

[Faux Pas]

It would seem abundantly clear to me that Cacke has quite a few questions he should be asking himself before bothering an FSUW or even entertaining the thought of a local woman. Something definitely ain't right here. I second the GONG!