What can I ask the Russian Woman that writes to me?

[BC]

as usually - yes. But this isn't what Cacke wants.
His three questions in his first post were:
1) how do I know that woman will pay for the phone to call me?
2) how do I know that woman will pay for her trip to visit me and I am not just wasting my time writing to her?
3) what questions should I ask to make sure she isn't a scammer?

Just a shot in the dark, but is Cacke being asked to provide money..

Add 'If I send money..' to the beginning of each question..

Does that make sense?

[mies]

Just a shot in the dark, but is Cacke being asked to provide money..

Add 'If I send money..' to the beginning of each question..

Does that make sense?

ok - that does make sense. But i understood him differently.
He said "I dont want to waste my time and powers to write long letters and then it ends because she can not afford to have telephone contact with me or even travel to me."

as for Cacke's questions - i join the "gong group"
speaking of double standards - the first two are the questions that women usually ask on women's forums. now when man, Cacke, asks these questions - they look a bit strange.

[Vaughn]

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[Rina_G]

Rina, that's one hellava list of questions! I hope when you write a man you don't shower them with these questions!

lol - of course no - lol

amn't I looking so stupid? 
but when you have many questions you can choise two-three for letter or talking.
my daughter asked guys when she was talking on skype and I understood that it work!

[BrightDawn]

A good list of questions Rina. Not stupid at all.