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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #75 on: October 31, 2009, 05:24:20 AM »
I am sorry to hear about this turn of events for you.  :( I am sure you are emotionally drained right now, but you are trying at least to get back on the horse as they say. I would agree that as hard as it is it is best to discover problems now rather than later. I hope your search goes well and you at least are able to salvage some of the trip.

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #76 on: October 31, 2009, 09:28:07 AM »
But, if after a couple of days I just can't get into it, I may save the money for the next adventure and blow on outta here.

But won't the cost of changing your tickets and possible lost rent already paid, etc., wipe out any 'savings' that you refer to?
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #77 on: October 31, 2009, 10:11:28 AM »
Home now, long ass journey!

Daveman, before you leave I expect you to take Natasha to the Planetarium :)

I'll post more laterz, now it's time to hang with my little girl.
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #78 on: October 31, 2009, 01:43:29 PM »
JR,
Welcome home!

Daveman,
Sorry to read that Euphoria II never materialized.  It is not easy to find love.  So when it happens, we should do our best to nurture it and keep it.  Wishing you the best of luck from here.

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #79 on: October 31, 2009, 09:07:57 PM »
Better Luck next time?
JR, nice you got home in time to bring your little girl out for Halloween :)



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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #80 on: October 31, 2009, 09:11:45 PM »
@JR - Welcome back! Fill us in when you have a few minutes and have recovered from the time difference.

@Daveman - Sorry it didn't work out so far BUT there are a lot of fish in that sea. Hopefully you'll get a nibble that you can reel in next time...
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #81 on: November 01, 2009, 05:14:09 PM »
Its in the trenches that battles are fought and you both were out on the battlefield. Kudos. Daveman sorry about what happened. I guess better now that later. I hope the same thing doesn't happen to me on my second visit to L. There are always warning signs on the horizon. The challenge is knowing which ones to dismiss and which ones are deal-breakers. I will try to keep my radar in tune....
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #82 on: November 01, 2009, 09:16:42 PM »
BUT there are a lot of fish in that sea.

You'd better think of not how many fish in the sea but how to catch it.
I would advice Dave to think why it didn't work and what was wrong from his side. The story can recur.
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #83 on: November 02, 2009, 04:52:53 AM »
Yep, and introspective is always a good idea.  Thanks for all the words of encouragement.  At this point, I have no plans to come home early.  I've met several ladies so far just walking around and chatting -- fun, yes, but unfortunately, none really speak English well so fun was all it was (wishing now that I had kept up with my Russian studies..)

I may also see what local agencies are here and check out some possibilities there.  Anyway, it's all good. Stuff happens.  My mind is in a good place and I'm just going to have fun for a week.  I did finally go to a local salon and get my shaggy hair chopped off.  That was a very interesting experience.  The lady took like 2 hours to get everything just perfect.  I told her to just cut it in any style she thinks looks good on me. I'll post a pic of the new bizarre me tomorrow... no facial hair, Ukrainian looking haircut... geez I look different.. lol... Very cute lady too, very little English, but did at least make another contact for some fun.  Also, at the salon just happened to walk into the toilet with a woman inside who, of course, immediately began screaming at me in Russian.  Just more crazy stuff that happens... She didn't appear overly impressed with my suggestion to lock the freakin' door next time, like I should have known she was in there.  Hey, if I could see through walls my venue of observation would be quite different for sure.

So that's the update of the moment..

And yeah, JR, I haven't forgotten about Natasha and the planetarium...
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #84 on: November 02, 2009, 01:32:13 PM »
Dave.. go to Scorpians.  You will have a blast there.  I will also try to contact my friend and see if she is in town.. her English is perfect and she knows some ladies that would be willing to meet a foreign man and who are not with any agency or on any dating sites.  MY PM isnt working so if she responds quickly we will have to find some other way to communicate out of the public view.

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #85 on: November 03, 2009, 04:57:13 AM »
Hey 2012,
Just click on the 'send email' option in my profile and that should work just fine. Thanks for checking.

Man, what a difference a day or two makes... I may give some details later, but this has become pretty darn cool to say the least.

The duty of a true patriot is to protect his country from its government. -- Thomas Paine

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #86 on: November 03, 2009, 11:10:12 AM »
I have not read the topic, but i thought i 'd tell you that photo number 2 on the first page which was posted by JollyRats under the name of Alina is actually not Alina it is some ukrainian low profile singer called Annie Lorak

I hope it helps them both, if it is not too late

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #87 on: November 03, 2009, 11:13:37 AM »
Here are her pics and the website in case

http://lorak.com.ua/

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #88 on: November 03, 2009, 12:24:38 PM »
JollyRats, How many days were you there?

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #89 on: November 03, 2009, 12:35:08 PM »
Hey 2012,
Just click on the 'send email' option in my profile and that should work just fine. Thanks for checking.

Man, what a difference a day or two makes... I may give some details later, but this has become pretty darn cool to say the least.



Dave.. its turned off .. contact Vaughn if you have facebook and I will get you the details.

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #90 on: November 03, 2009, 03:23:49 PM »
That picture is not Lorak.  I met her and her husband several times in Kiev and that is not her.  She is a very famous singer actually and placed second in Eurovision.  Husband is Turkish and son of a very rich man who owns several resorts in Antalya area.  She married him in past year. Her husband had a restaurant in Kiev.  She is very short.

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #91 on: November 03, 2009, 10:43:10 PM »

Man, what a difference a day or two makes... I may give some details later, but this has become pretty darn cool to say the least.


Glad things are looking up, you must have finally caved in and used that AXE cologne I left you :)
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #92 on: November 04, 2009, 07:47:09 AM »
That picture is not Lorak.  I met her and her husband several times in Kiev and that is not her.  She is a very famous singer actually and placed second in Eurovision.  Husband is Turkish and son of a very rich man who owns several resorts in Antalya area.  She married him in past year. Her husband had a restaurant in Kiev.  She is very short.

Look attentively it is the same person from the pic posted by JR on the first page of this topic
And what the term "short" has to do with the pic,nobody can tell how short she is according to the photo

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #93 on: November 05, 2009, 06:21:22 AM »
Glad things are looking up, you must have finally caved in and used that AXE cologne I left you :)

Yep that Axe mixed with Eye of Newt and Caviar behind the ears has worked miracles.  ;D  Really, I've done a 180. I'm seriously considering extending my visit for a couple of weeks or so.  Pretty amazing journey after all. We'll see.

Eric, I don't have a facebook account yet.  I'll check into it. 




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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #94 on: November 05, 2009, 09:51:07 AM »
Jazzy, have you ever spoken to her in person?  Have you ever meet her?  How would you know.  It is not her.  But this is side tracking the thread.  If you want to continue - PM me. 

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #95 on: November 05, 2009, 03:01:42 PM »
Yep that Axe mixed with Eye of Newt and Caviar behind the ears has worked miracles.  ;D  Really, I've done a 180. I'm seriously considering extending my visit for a couple of weeks or so.  Pretty amazing journey after all. We'll see.

Eric, I don't have a facebook account yet.  I'll check into it. 


Dave I am glad things are looking up over there.  My friend is in Odessa right now with her boyfriend.  She will be back the beginning of next week. 

Where have you been hanging out?

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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #96 on: November 06, 2009, 01:02:55 PM »
Wow, thanks for the trip report - it's been very interesting for me, because I live in Donetsk! :) Guys, you can't imagine how many times I was walking past couples in Pushkina boulevard, hearing them speaking English, and I thought - wow, they can be people from RWD :) It's so... weired :) Internet is a big village :)
Btw, as far as I remember, earlier people who were looking for a wife didn't tend to come to our city - what has changed? ;)
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #97 on: November 06, 2009, 01:52:20 PM »
Don't worry Nat, next time they will have t-shirts with their names printed, you will recognize 'em  :P
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Re: JollyRats and Daveman's Most Excellent Adventure ! ! !
« Reply #98 on: November 06, 2009, 02:37:01 PM »
Hey Daveman

Is this the 6th or maybe the 8th relationship that wend south at second visit after a brilliant first visit?
Maybe you should drop the second visit and go straight for the third visit after the first :)

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« Reply #99 on: November 06, 2009, 04:21:21 PM »

Btw, as far as I remember, earlier people who were looking for a wife didn't tend to come to our city - what has changed? ;)


We found out you live there :)
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