timothy,. sorry for aging you. prematurely
(i thought you had posted a different age,,but i see it was 41)
I think the thing you need to keep in mind is:
that if she liked you, and has spoken to you on the phone,, SHE would have asked for your number and email.
if you currently lost contact,and she had real interest, odds are SHE would text you or email independently you to see what was up,or look on social networkin sires for your photos ,or profiles ,
RW are quite intelligent, and if even slightly motivated will track you down to get closure at the least
granted my experience is quite old,,and was a limited time,
,but not once did any RW that was interested in me, have any trouble calling me or emailing me,
or asking for that information.
internet cafe's where everywhere even back 8 to 10 years ago.
i've had return visits since then ,, (not *searching* , as i was married visiting extended family)
but things have progressed quite a bit in Ukraine,,
to find ANY single 25 yo RW ,
with a "decent " job, that doesnt have a cell phone that's permanently attached to the side of her head,
who cant type , or have internet cafe access or a social profile somewhere who doesnt have a digital camera and 5,001 pictures of herself, would be quite a feat!
you CAN find someone genuine.
There are thousands that would probably be a better match anyway..
the odds she is even the one writing you are slim..
Still i doubt she's a *pro dater* in the classic sense.
shes someone that may or may not have even listed with the agency at some point in time,, and they may continue to use her photos and profile. or she may still be active with them,,but the interpreters do the email answering wether she knows this or not.
i want to tell you something.
In 2001 I met my and married my (recently ex) wife..
YEARS after were were married, (and keep in mind we dated 2 years before marriage)
There were still profiles out there on dozens of sites she never signed up for.
some very big name agencies by the way,, and depsite me asking them to remove the profiles,, most did not..
I received an anastasia catalog in 04?,,no idea why,mayb ei had registered with them in 98 for month before realizing the sillyness? cant recall...
,but they sent me catalogs regularly.. over the years..
well i'm about to toss it,, and ha! on the front cover.. theres a smaller inset photo of,. my wife ! LOL
,, we both had a great laugh about the things said in the profile as well.
(i think something silly line, like 'i'd love to bake you cookies,would you like to taste them?"
(which while she is a great cook ,it's hardly anything she would EVER write in a profile)
The key is she never listed with anastasia ,or any of its affiliates!!!
she had long ago joined a small local agency along with a girlfriend,, on a whim.. and its long been defunct and out of business.it had never sold its profiles, (never got the chance) as we still know the owners well
(they livei in the same apartment building as her mother)
but its a reality that many agencies swipe profiles..
You know what? I never followed thru with writing her or calling her through those agencies,,i guess it would have been fun to see who,,and how they answered.. ? what phone number they might give(if their business model allowed it)
and whom might answer that phone..
but i bet many guys did.. what do you think?.
they did drop her profile after a few more complaints from me,
( truthfully i really dint care either way,but wanted one less *Ghost profile * for guys looking)
remember this old axiom between the nations during the cold war?
TRUST BUT VERIFY.
i'm not trying to dissuade you from an *adventure*..
i'm just trying to make sure you keep your eyes wide open,
and NOT get emotionally invested in a few photos of some 25 RW ,
that may or may not exist in the sense you think she does ,
(she could be married with a family by now for all you can know at this point)
somehow proving she actually exists seems important to you,
you do need to ask yourself WHY?
that some ukrainian girl ,that is certainly at the age gap edge,, (sorry)
and that you have never met,, is important to you
In this light -the specific questions about her,
are not nearly as important as the question to yourself of "WHY" she is important at this point.
answer yourself honestly, i think that's the most important part of this venture for both the men and the women..
*shrugs*
