Dating AW AND RW at same time??

[rjd400]

I see a lot of the "AW vs. RW" posts, but I'm curious, how many here are or have dated AW and RW at the same time?

Obviously, I'm curious for my own knowledge, as I'm currently dating AW, but have also started to correspond with a couple of FSU women again as well, and was wondering how many of you have dated both at the same time, and what additional challenges you found (if any).

Thanks,
Bob

[berkough]

Bob,

I imagine it is just as difficult as dating 2 AW at the same time. As long as they don't know about each other you should be fine, I guess the good news is that they can't team up on you... Assuming of course one is in one country, the other is in another.

Personally, I dated a Polish girl here in the states, she might have only been 5'2" at 100lbs, but no way would I have fooled around on her... We never got serious, but if we had, I could see that she was a feisty one and would've thought twice about giving her a chance to be vindictive for a reason.

That's any woman though really.

[rjd400]

Thanks Berkough,
LOL, I don't live that dangerously!
When I said dating both, I didn't mean fooling around on either.  I mean, dating is just that, dating, and I think it's not uncommon for people, in the early stages, to date more than one person.  As long as you are upfront about it.

I guess I meant more of how an AW might have taken the fact that someone she was dating was also dating RW/FSUW, or vice versa, how the RW/FSUW might take the fact you are "dating" AW.

Thanks again.

[Al_C]

Here is the way I see it:  It is one thing if you are engaged to a RW and waiting for the visa.  In that case, you owe her fidelity.  But if you are not engaged, especially if you popped the question and she said no, i.e. she is choosing to be in Russia and therefore choosing to not be with you, then you may choose to be with someone else.

[berkough]

Heh, it's not as dangerous as you may think!
I was surprised when I introduced an old flame to a new one, but like you said, I don't see anything wrong with dating more than one woman at a time as long as both girls are clear on the fact there are no serious feelings or emotions developing.

[JR]

Hell yes I date women locally!!! Just because I write letters to women who live thousands of miles away and I have never met doesn't mean I can't search here too.

[Shadow]

No sense in limiting yourself.

Until you find someone you wish to be mutual exclusive with, you are free to date the whole world.   

[Avum]

Hell yes I date women locally!!! Just because I write letters to women who live thousands of miles away and I have never met doesn't mean I can't search here too.

JR - Do you find that YOU are different with the different women? In other words, do you feel that a different part of you comes out with RW vs AW? If so, how would you describe the differences?

[JR]

JR - Do you find that YOU are different with the different women? In other words, do you feel that a different part of you comes out with RW vs AW? If so, how would you describe the differences?

There is a difference. But it is not in me so much as in what I will display. I like to laugh. I like to make fun of things. I don't belittle people but I enjoy making lite of situations and circumstances. Humor is difficult to translate. The meaning is almost always lost. So I tend to not joke around as much when I am with a RW as I do when I am with an AW.

[myrddin]

Humor is difficult to translate. The meaning is almost always lost. So I tend to not joke around as much when I am with a RW as I do when I am with an AW.

That must be tough for you, Joe 

I did the same thingwith RW.  As my lady and I grow closer, we can understand each other's humor more and more.