Hello. I'm ukrainian woman, does anybody wants to ask something? :))

[GregfromGa]

Girl, the way you write is just teasing, AM are not accustomed to this "style"
(free lesson from Doll  )

Now Doll, you know we have a few ole boys here that would like to be teased,tickled,tied up and saddled up and lathered down with motor oil and the use of a set of jumper cables. I'm not going to call names but we know who you are.LOL

[Doll]

Doll,  you mean that I shoud not write anymore, because their eyes will break from my style?

No, it takes time to start writing ( and speaking) with less emotions.
Right now all the members are a little bit shocked with your manner of writing (reacting), but it is ok- Americans are very tolerant.
 Ladies, break!

[Assamena]

Also, Doll.
I think I write English the same funny style, as your younger son speaks and write in Russian. You mentioned that in chat. So, probably, you are not the best teacher, and I no need your free lessons.

Am I doing isult?
NO!
Just it was first person, which made comment to my English 'style', in that time when all men were quiet about that. And what a surprise, it was Russian woman Again

[GregfromGa]

Also, Doll.
I think I write English the same funny style, as your younger son speaks and write in Russian. You mentioned that in chat. So, probably, you are not the best teacher, and I no need your free lessons.

Am I doing isult?
NO!
Just it was first person, which made comment to my English 'style', in that time when all men were quiet about that. And what a surprise, it was Russian woman Again

I think Doll is trying to help you here a little. I dont see how you can change or why you would change your writing style. It is what it is but Doll looks to be one of your friends here. Sometimes things gets lost in translation.

[Doll]

Also, Doll.
I think I write English the same funny style, as your younger son speaks and write in Russian. You mentioned that in chat. So, probably, you are not the best teacher, and I no need your free lessons.

Am I doing isult?
NO!
Just it was first person, which made comment to my English 'style', in that time when all men were quiet about that. And what a surprise, it was Russian woman Again

A word for my son: he is an extremely well balanced and polite young man(regardless languages)
Am I attacking now?
Ok, Assa, ignore when you don't like. This person wanted your attention and she is getting it real juicy.
Just skip it.

[Doll]

So, probably, you are not the best teacher, and I no need your free lessons.

Ешкин коготь!
 I have to follow my own advise- ignore.
Hey, Assa, good luck- you'll need it. 

[Gylden]

I think this thread got way off topic, if I am not mistaken.
 If I understand correctly you want to be of help to the men here in their quest to find a woman from Ukraine/Russia. I will be honest with you and say that you seem quite young and from what you have posted have only met two foreign men and dated a third, so I am wondering what is it about your experiences which you think could be helpful? In your opinion. Can you tell us a little more about your experience, so we can get a better idea about how maybe you could help?
spasibo!  

[Assamena]

As I see, here so many expirienced people, especially women, that I shoud just go away.
How to help? Nobody needs here my help, and here enough advisers, which are trying to help me, when I did not ask to.
But I think I will not go away from here, just will engoy mostly reading or sometimes coming to chat to speak about weather

But, really, some advice for me were very helpfull, for example Elena's models I will join in future.

Doll: Sorry me, I misunderstood you.

[greg2654]

Actually, Doll-- the majority of men here like Assemena and her style just fine.

It must be a women thing.

Assamena is writing in a flirty style which is no problem. What seems to be driving some of R/UW totally nuts is all the attention that the guys here are giving her.

Like I said in another thread, jealousy is like a cancer to RU/W and can eat them up.

[GregfromGa]

My dear, I think you are more than welcome here and I know your insight will be appreciated by most. Dont let the fact that you have a beautiful face and are more than amply capable of swimming the English Channel and those factors make others a little jealous be a determent for you stopping by here and posting away. We have several posters here that have traveled to Kharkov in the past and there will be others in the future. It will be good for those to have a friendly face there in the future. You are ok with me but then again I am rather partial to ladies from Kharkov since I'm married to one.

[RussianWind]

Women...

Just some specific women think the world is turning around them.
Can you finally ask Assamena some questions, so she can calm down with other nonsence in this thread  

[SMS60]

Just some specific women think the world is turning around them.
Can you finally ask Assamena some questions, so she can calm down with other nonsence in this thread  

 But dont expect an answer, unless it involves poking. I dont see her answering any questions. She has the questioners on ignore.

But, yes carry on with the nonsense.......................................

[Simoni]

I think this thread got way off topic, if I am not mistaken.
 If I understand correctly you want to be of help to the men here in their quest to find a woman from Ukraine/Russia. I will be honest with you and say that you seem quite young and from what you have posted have only met two foreign men and dated a third, so I am wondering what is it about your experiences which you think could be helpful? In your opinion. Can you tell us a little more about your experience, so we can get a better idea about how maybe you could help?
spasibo!  

Glyeen, the point of the thread, before one poster took it off track with an insult to Assemena and the the English language at the same time, was the opportunity for people to ask about life in Ukraine from the perspective of the female.  Without that diversion, we could be getting answers to questions like:
~ When does the typical Ukrainian girl finish college?
~ Why most impresses a girl about men who write?
~ How do most Ukrainians feel about the elections?

Sadly, the thread was ruined by someone who wanted to feel "clever."    Perhaps we can get it back on track?

[acrzybear]

Assamena

 You stated previously that you have had 3 relationships of some degree with foreign men and you were not "happy" with them. Was there a common trait that you disliked? Certain mannerisms? Habits?  I'm not talking about what you specifically disliked (such as if he chewed gum and you disliked it) but more of the cultural aspects of it.

  Also I am curious, if you didn't find these guys appealing for whatever reason, why are you still interested in foreign men? After three tries with a particular nationality most people would say to hell with it and go back to what they are comfortable with.

  

[Blues Fairy]

Sadly, the thread was ruined by someone who wanted to feel "clever."   

Ruined?  I think it was incredibly beefed up and energized, seeing how many people seized on the opportunity to jump on their high horse and blow the incident way out of proportions.    

[Simoni]

Assamena

 You stated previously that you have had 3 relationships of some degree with foreign men and you were not "happy" with them. Was there a common trait that you disliked? Certain mannerisms? Habits?  I'm not talking about what you specifically disliked (such as if he chewed gum and you disliked it) but more of the cultural aspects of it.

 

She did say that the guy she was most serious about did not want children.  That is a VERY important thing for men to know-- Women want children.  I know of at least three marriages that have failed because the man wanted fun and games and the woman wanted a family.

Guys--if you marry a woman under 35, she WILL want children.

[Assamena]

I reply on questions, but sometimes in private messages, because questions about my modeling can make women here more angry then they are now.
And also, remember about time difference, when you ask I sleep.

And in the same time I sit in chat here

I will reply on all questions, be sure.

Just I'm not so fast as you are guys.

[Assamena]

~ When does the typical Ukrainian girl finish college?
~ Why most impresses a girl about men who write?
~ How do most Ukrainians feel about the elections?

1. I'm a nurse. I finished studying at age 19. But it's not higher education. If I'd like to be a doctor it took me more 7 years. If I'd like to be smb another (except medicine) it's more 5 years.

2. Did not understood questions, because of my bad English

3. All around TV speaks about this elections. But I did not go on it, so can't tell a lot, I'm sick now

[acrzybear]

She did say that the guy she was most serious about did not want children.  That is a VERY important thing for men to know-- Women want children.  I know of at least three marriages that have failed because the man wanted fun and games and the woman wanted a family.

Guys--if you marry a woman under 35, she WILL want children.

Hey I want kids But I would feel like a pervert if I was with a 21 year old since I'm 40. 

[Simoni]

Hey I want kids But I would feel like a pervert if I was with a 21 year old since I'm 40. 

Well, most guys here would agree that a girl needs to be 28 or so to be mature enough for an international marriage.  But a less than 20 year old age gap is not an issue, IMO.  But still, I'd recommend a 28 year old for you Bear, and a 12 year age difference.

BTW-- I know one couple that were married when she was 21.    He is 15 years older.  Now, 8 years later, they have three children.

[sunandsail]

Just some specific women think the world is turning around them.
Can you finally ask Assamena some questions, so she can calm down with other nonsence in this thread  

I agree, a question would be in order.

<b>What's for dinner?</b>

[Simoni]

~ Why most impresses a girl about men who write?


2. Did not understood question, because of my bad English

In other words, what can a man say in a letter that makes you like him?

[Simoni]

I agree, a question would be in order.

What's for dinner?

Sun-- are you a male or female or transexual?  Your post does not show gender???

[Boethius]

I reply on questions, but sometimes in private messages, because questions about my modeling can make women here more angry then they are now.
And also, remember about time difference, when you ask I sleep.

And in the same time I sit in chat here

I will reply on all questions, be sure.

Just I'm not so fast as you are guys.

No woman here is jealous of your modelling, or anything about you, Assamena.  In fact, Doll's post to you was her attempt to try to help you.  However, your snotty response thereto about Doll's son was way over the line.  She likely was saying something to the effect that his Russian is not as native speaking fluent as she'd like it to be.  Nothing more.  But you turned it into a putdown.  

[acrzybear]

Well, most guys here would agree that a girl needs to be 28 or so to be mature enough for an international marriage.  But a less than 20 year old age gap is not an issue, IMO.  But still, I'd recommend a 28 year old for you Bear, and a 12 year age difference.

BTW-- I know one couple that were married when she was 21.    He is 15 years older.  Now, 8 years later, they have three children.

 Simoni

 28 would be the lowest age I would consider, I would just have to many problems with a bigger age gap.  Only time will tell :noidea: