Bikini Photos

[BillyB]

I got to have the complete package and how can I get it if I can't see it!!!!

I've written to women who have bikini photos in their profile but it so happens the RW I did visit never had bikini pics in their profile. A woman's beauty is important to me but for me to visit her, she's got to have brains, good manners, and be genuinely interested in me throughout correspondence.

Lily, I like your way of thinking. IMO beauty is a strength woman possess and it's not a bad thing for good men to have.

If I'm not attracted to a woman, it would be difficult for me to make love to her, period. It's not good for me and it certainly is not good for the woman if a man is not excited about her body.

[Aloe]

But would you put those same pictures in your profile on a public site?

no no no
i would put up bikini shots tho if i had any, but i didnt when i was looking

[viking]

I enjoy confident women.  So confident about themselves that they feel no need to show flesh to attract the attention of the type of man they want. 

I am turned on more by a shapely woman in loosely fitting clothing made of fine material than if she were in a bikini (especially if she whispered she wasn't wearing panties  ).  In fact, I would have trouble restraining myself. 

I can agree here. Sometimes a very shapley dress can be more sexy than a bathing suit. Sometimes leaving things to the imagination can be very exciting. And if her eyes can say she can be a bit naughty at the same time......

[Jumper]

I also agree a beautiful dress can be more attractive than a bikini....

i was just answering the question of the poll itself

yes i would meet someone , i found interesting,
that used  bikini shot in their profile
( yes it depends on how the shot  is done) 

reasons:
1. I am a bit open minded about such things,and it wouldn't bother me in the first place.
(everyone has different tastes and different levels of acceptance)

2.I simply try not to judge much off of this.
in the big picture of things it probably doesn't indicate as much about her personality as is given credence here!
Some women are just uninhibited and dont mind ..why not?
Not all, but some women, for many of the reasons listed, would agree to a photo shoot for  a
profile that they wouldn't do so without pressure from the agency,r peers,or  from other proflies.
it's a numbers game slanted against them .

To  try a few decent photo's, makes sense. if she chooses not to ,that's perfectly fine as well.
The odds that it speaks volumes about her, are slim at best, as it's a more accepting culture to begin with.



olga- funny!
as it is the speedo brand,
 but not a speedo!!
 

AND

i think this hints quite well at the subtle difference of acceptance!!??!!

When I go to our local beach, the odds of seeing a man in a speedo are slim to none!!!!!!!!

In european beaches,or beaches with a large percentage of european or FSU tourists,
it would be common place,or certainly not rare.

such a simple thing as swimsuit design ,and a very great difference in cultural acceptance.

My take is - there is no reason to  expect ones western cultural norms , to be exactly the same on profiles put up by people from a different and more accepting culture.

[GQBlues]

dunno, I'm still for the that whole inner beauty babble myself. I simply can never read enough profiles to quench my primal thirst. I get a hard-on just reading about her hobbies and interests, then reach serious climax when I get to her Language proficiency segment. oohh-la-lah!

Heck, even Hugh Hefner knew enough to hire the very best writers to staff his magazine because he knew where men's interest really is.

btw, there's a valid point made in preferring to look at a woman's picture clothed as oppose to a revealing swimsuit. Those Babushka's would appear more palatable with their clothes on with sexy stockings rolled up to their knees than a flesh-revealing bikini-clad ones...

[Serious]

Every agency would recommend bikini photos. For them its sales. Girls are their product and they simply want to increase the chance of possible marri... merchandize. LOL.
Personally I believe that unless pictures are lewd there is no need to get fixated on a bit of flesh that you get to see, right?
Do a lil dance before judging. ( Meaning try to actually talk to a girl... small talk can do wonders, you know...)

[berkough]

dunno, I'm still for the that whole inner beauty babble myself. I simply can never read enough profiles to quench my primal thirst. I get a hard-on just reading about her hobbies and interests, then reach serious climax when I get to her Language proficiency segment. oohh-la-lah!

Heck, even Hugh Hefner knew enough to hire the very best writers to staff his magazine because he knew where men's interest really is.

btw, there's a valid point made in preferring to look at a woman's picture clothed as oppose to a revealing swimsuit. Those Babushka's would appear more palatable with their clothes on with sexy stockings rolled up to their knees than a flesh-revealing bikini-clad ones...

I don't think I'm nearly as misogynist, but I totally digg the posts you do. And I agree with a lot that you have to say. I just can't conduct myself in that way, in everyday life.



As a side note, not in reference to the post I quoted, I love how this thread has really just become about personal fetishes. Though I think my first comment still stands. I digg the whole bikini thing with the idea that she's down to go to the beach and go surfing. The 50's pinup style says more "sex" to me than a bikini does.

[Al_C]

If she has a good enough bod for it, why not?

Of course brains are more important than a great bod, but if she has that great bod, using it to bolster her profile sounds like a brainy thing to me.

[Aloe]

I also agree a beautiful dress can be more attractive than a bikini....

how about a slutty skin colored dress? haha

[I/O]

Why, is this not a naturally normal way of thinking, I wonder?

What otherwise a female beauty is needed for, if not to make a great supplement to a man who is on her side, in order to let him shine even brighter than if he 'd be alone?

And................then we still have people trying to tell us women are women.

[JR]

how about a slutty skin colored dress? haha

Does your hubby make you vaccuum in that dress?

[greg2654]

how about a slutty skin colored dress? haha

WAAHOOOO!!!
Now I know what to get the wife for Valentines Day.  

[Jumper]

how about a slutty skin colored dress? haha

sure!
and buy a roooomba to go with it