What are you looking for in a women from FSU?

[Doll]

Doll-

Had Innakrug asked 'why instead of 'what', then I can say I agree with both Faux Paus and Ravens...The 'what' part is what got me posting what I did. As a commercial member, I thought maybe Innakrug would have a better perspective on this subject by now...

In this case "why" and "what" are same, Raven answered sincerely. Not sure if it is what Inna wants to hear.

[Faux Pas]

Doll-

Had Innakrug asked 'why instead of 'what', then I can say I agree with both Faux Paus and Ravens...The 'what' part is what got me posting what I did. As a commercial member, I thought maybe Innakrug would have a better perspective on this subject by now...

I agree with Doll here. The what and the why dovetail into the same thing. Only my assumption but, I would wager Kentucky, Pittsburgh, Ohio St and Villanova in the FF that Inna is relatively new in the commercial terp bidnezz and looking for as much info as she can find as to what makes men like you and I tick.

[GQBlues]

Hah! I see you on that and raise you a Gonzaga going to the Elite8 that the OP really want to know the what and not necessarily the why. 

[Doll]

What- prettier and younger wives.
Why- because AM want prettier and younger wives.
It is same in this case.

[Seeker]

I agree with Doll here. The what and the why dovetail into the same thing. Only my assumption but, I would wager Kentucky, Pittsburgh, Ohio St and Villanova in the FF that Inna is relatively new in the commercial terp bidnezz and looking for as much info as she can find as to what makes men like you and I tick.

Probably true, but I see no harm in asking.  I never felt mislead by the questions.

[innakrug]

What is FF?

[Faux Pas]

What is FF?

The Final Four NCAA Basketball Tournament

[Seeker]

The Final Four NCAA Basketball Tournament

I was wondering that too.  Thanks. 

[innakrug]

Another reason I asked the question After 10 years in America I do not see that AW that much different from RW.
From my experience I know that if some of AM who married RW wouldn't stand a chance, if they would be Russians. I understand physical attraction, but what about character (you probably, laughting now)   I am not trying to spy and find out information to use it in my business. I think I already heard everything (remember I am in USA 10 years . It is just so manycouples end up in divorce just because RW didn't want to wait for right one and AM was interested in youth and beauty. I can not preach to you on this topic. I just want to help somehow. At some point I even started to work on a book about  marriages. So if you have any questions ask.

[innakrug]

Inna,
IMO there are a wide array of reasons why western men go to the FSU. They could be in one of three categories and then a category for "all others".

Probably the most common is that they can get a much younger, more attractive woman than they are able to get back home. These desire the younger tight bodies than those of their own age/eligibility.

Then there are those that are fed up with emasculation of the western male. This type also complains of the rituals and games played by western women.

A third type have other reasons. They are social leppers and or just unattractive themselves and unable to date or bed local women. FSU women respond to these where local women will not.

As you may can tell, submissive women do not seem to be a factor among these probably most common reasons.FWIW

The AM I talk too were married and after couple of years were very unhappy with there choice. One of the reasons - stubbornness of RW and unwillingness to submit.

[Faux Pas]

Another reason I asked the question After 10 years in America I do not see that AW that much different from RW.

We agree on this. But that is your, now americanized RW point of view. That view is much different from most AM

From my experience I know that if some of AM who married RW wouldn't stand a chance, if they would be Russians. I understand physical attraction, but what about character (you probably, laughting now)  

Character and taking the time to discover that character is the mantra many members here preach on a regular basis. Unfortunately, many men in this pursuit and the women they pursue have more immediate needs than taking one's time for the discovery. For those, his are likely of the more physical sexual nature while hers might be immediate need to improve her station in life. Some of those unions work out. Most do not.

I am not trying to spy and find out information to use it in my business. I think I already heard everything (remember I am in USA 10 years . It is just so manycouples end up in divorce just because RW didn't want to wait for right one and AM was interested in youth and beauty. I can not preach to you on this topic. I just want to help somehow. At some point I even started to work on a book about  marriages. So if you have any questions ask.

It wasn't my intention to imply you were spying or that it was unwelcome. Quite the contrary. Most come to RWD seeking information for their own reasons and that is quite acceptable. RW, the discussion of RW and the information about FSUW are what draws most members here. You obviously fit all the criteria. Welcome to RWD by the way and we hope you stick around and become a contributing member. Ask any question and give any advice you feel pertinent.  

[Faux Pas]

The AM I talk too were married and after couple of years were very unhappy with there choice. One of the reasons - stubbornness of RW and unwillingness to submit.

Unwillingness to submit to being totally submissive or something more specific? Would you agree these couples perhaps did not "know" each other to the extent they could have in order to make a marriage work?

[innakrug]

Thank you so much You are such a nice person:) I really would like to help somebody. I am just so seek and tired of so many unhappiness in cross-culture marriages. RW do not really have realistic view on America. Most of knowledge we have coming from Hollywood pictures (houses, clothe). Most of us think that money grow on a tree in America And all what you guys do is vacationing and having fun. When I came to America I was very surprised how hard American people are working (very hard). And you guys think that if we are from FSU we will be satisfied with just a little bit. And when your (now) wife byes sunglasses or shoes for $500 (not me, but I know examples) you are not ready for this. I just wish people would try to put more effort to know each other before make a commitment.

[innakrug]

Unwillingness to submit to being totally submissive or something more specific? Would you agree these couples perhaps did not "know" each other to the extent they could have in order to make a marriage work?

I would say things would start developing slow. RW would be stubborn or unwilling to submit in one thing, then another. AM would try to break the pattern (and here is the first mistake - the more you pressure us more stubborn we become - survivor's instinct And soon you have a man who wants totall submissiveness and woman who totally refuses to submit husband's will. Of course, you understand that I cannot speak for each and everyone, but it is very common situation (did you here about Mr.King and his wife   Very sad story  

[innakrug]

By the way about spying I wanted to add if gentlemen would chose me to interpret for him I would not convince him that RW is okay, if she is not. On another hand, if I will be sure that AM lying, I would tell RW about that and credit money back to AM for this particular conversation. Even, if it would hurt my business, I want AM know about it right away. We want to play fare. Don't we? I need money to support myself and my daughter, but I am not going to get fat on somebodies possible unhappiness. Even if I wouldn't be able to get any clients - it's okey God will provide in His own way. Is it to hursh. I am sorry, my English is not perfect, and some times it is possible to offend people without attention to do so So forgive me, and know that I mean only good (in this particular situation. I can be ugly too sometimes )

[innakrug]

When you guys are sleeping? it is so late now I am not working till 7 PM tommorow, so I have time to rest

[Seeker]

By the way about spying I wanted to add if gentlemen would chose me to interpret for him I would not convince him that RW is okay, if she is not. On another hand, if I will be sure that AM lying, I would tell RW about that and credit money back to AM for this particular conversation. Even, if it would hurt my business, I want AM know about it right away. We want to play fare. Don't we? I need money to support myself and my daughter, but I am not going to get fat on somebodies possible unhappiness. Even if I wouldn't be able to get any clients - it's okey God will provide in His own way. Is it to hursh. I am sorry, my English is not perfect, and some times it is possible to offend people without attention to do so So forgive me, and know that I mean only good (in this particular situation. I can be ugly too sometimes )

If those are your ethics and how you plan to do business, I hope you are around here for a long time.  Both in business and RWD.  I admire those that yearn for truth.  I am not sure how easy it will be to provide though.  There are a lot of variables in all of this.  But I wish you luck on trying to be true to your purpose and beliefs.  It is the best any of us can do, even if we are wrong sometimes.  And I am not saying you are wrong... but I know I have been sometimes.   

[innakrug]

Thanks I will try

[innakrug]

Hah! I see you on that and raise you a Gonzaga going to the Elite8 that the OP really want to know the what and not necessarily the why.  

Are you from Spokane,WA?

[I/O]

believe most men can't or won't answer this question honestly

Oh yeah.......? My answer, she's got legs going all they way down to her feet (Not that I tend to look at the feet when she walks away from me), 5'9" and you couldn't scape enough fat off her to fry an egg with, an arse to die for, flowing blonde locks, puts out like there is no tomorrow...............you know, all that deep an meaningful stuff that really causes a guy to think through what he is doing when entering an international relationship.

And...........that, after going to Baikal on a fishing trip of all things years ago. Funny how they never told me what sort of fish were biting and how good they looked, just took me a couple of years and another trip or 3 to figure it out............................I think. Now what was it I was figuring out?

[Lily]

  she's got legs going all they way down to her feet (Not that I tend to look at the feet when she walks away from me), 5'9" and you couldn't scape enough fat off her to fry an egg with, an arse to die for, flowing blonde locks, puts out like there is no tomorrow...............

I/O, are you describing the woman on your avatar?

In the Americas, there is also a number of women who are able to deliver all that, inluding women in older age groups. The issue is, however, that this number is way smaller than it is in the FSU.

[I/O]

I/O, are you describing the woman on your avatar?

The very same, the one I've been waking up with every morning with for a few years now.

In the Americas, there is also a number of women who are able to deliver all that, inluding women in older age groups.

I don't live in the Americas, although I've done some "time" there and can attest to what you say.

The issue is, however, that this number is way smaller than it is in the FSU.

Is it? If one takes the "Americas" into account I can't agree there is a significant difference. Take the USA vs Russia and I still challenge the number difference but I will concede a percentage difference.

Anyway, that wasn't the point of my post. The point was to make light of men who will trot out every barrow of diabolical bullsc!t in answer to such a question when the real answer is they go chasing skirt they have no hope of catching at home in the hope that a different coloured passport on foreign turf will give them a "leg up" (Yes, two meanings) and the sad reflection on both sides is it often does.