Best city to live in for having fun in Ukraine....

[salsero]

I have opportunity to take some time off and also work remotely. I am currently in Kiev for last 1 month. The girls here are challenging but fun to talk to. Not so easy to get into bed since they have options.

I am looking for 2 things. A long term girl friend and while I find her, I would like to have fun.

I am 33, good looking guy, originally from California, speak beginning russian.

Question:
- Do I have better chances of easily meeting hot girls in Nikolaev or Lugask or Odessa or I should stay put in Kiev?

[ECOCKS]

I would say Kyiv or Odessa are your best bets.

Maybe Odessa is a bit younger crowd and a bit more energetic activity, but that is counter-balanced by Kyiv being larger and offering more civersity in old world cultural activities.

Most important of all though would be finding a good woman but that sounds a bit lower on your priority scale so pick your location first, then have at it!

[Turboguy]

Personally I would avoid Odessa like the plague.  I have heard too many horror stories and too few success stories to recommend it for anything other than tourism.

I would suggest visiting two cities.  Kiev for one and the others I would suggest would include Lugansk, Dnepr, Zap, Kharkov, Kherson or Nikolaev. 

[Turboguy]

Let me add a little more.  If having fun is the only object then Odessa might be a good choice.  If you are interested in meeting a good woman too then I would say no.  If you want to combine a fun city and reasonable chances for romance then of the cities I mentioned Dnepr would be my choice.  If meeting a good woman is the only priority I would flip a coin between Zap and Lugansk. 

I think if I were in your shoes what I would do in reality is to get on a good site or two and contact women in the cities you are interested in and pick the city where you end up with the most good prospects or the prospect that seems to hold the most promise.

[Gator]

Welcome Salsero!

What is your definition of fun?

Are you having fun now?

Something you said puzzles me:

I am 33, good looking guy,.... speak beginning russian.  The girls here are challenging but fun to talk to. Not so easy to get into bed since they have options.

Based on my experience with UW somewhat older than you, this should not happen.  And this happens to you again and again. 

What is your goal (time from meeting to jumping into bed)?   What are you telling the Kiev women?  Perhaps you need to retool your game.   Send a PM TwoBitBandit, Chivo and Rivardco for advice.

[Ravens9273]

To sum it all up you are a sex tourist. Considering the fact Kiev has regular protests and demonstrations by its citizens concerning men just like you it may be wise to avoid Kiev.

At that point what city does not matter. However since you said you have been having a hard time reaching your goal a different city is not going to make things easier for you. Truth be told UW are not hard. They do not have the hangups about sex as in the USA. If you are having problems then it is in you. Either you are coming off as a sex tourist or your personality and game plane need some work. Which ever it is there is something about you personally these Women do not want to sleep with. These Women are use to sex tourists coming and will avoid them at all costs. They can smell a sex tourist a mile away. At this point the only Women you will meet will have a much better game then you and when all is said and done your wallet will be empty while she has her fun. Just remember, the fun you are looking for will come at a price.

[ML]

For the best women, I would recommend Kharkiv and Dnipropetrosk.

[Stirlitz]

Lugansk is good for parting with your money by being fooled Kiev is also good but this time you just pay the normal rates. I would suggest Nikolayev. Odessa is also possible.

[brian131]

These Women are use to sex tourists coming and will avoid them at all costs. They can smell a sex tourist a mile away.

Tell me more...
How do you meet someone without coming off like a sex tourist?  I have this great fear that I'll go looking for a nice girl and have no decent girl willing to even talk to me because of the way others have behaved.

[Muzh]

Oye Salsero, las mujeres de Kharkiv le gusta bailar salsa. Te apuesto que un par de salsas y tienes para escoger.
 
In short, go dance some salsa and have your pick.
 
Regarding the preachers above, don't pay any attention. I was talking today to my nephew who spent a week in Odesa for a film festival. He lives in Kharkiv. He was saying that he and his buddy were at a store and 3 dyevs started flirting with them. Suddenly his buddy said "We have to go." Why? He really had to poop. So now he is bbeing harass mercilessly that he pooped 3 babes away.
 
Point is that you are relatively young and they will eventually chase you.
 
Enjoy.
 
P.S. I believe that all the pure and chaste virgins in UA are already gone.

[SANDRO43]

P.S. I believe that all the pure and chaste virgins in UA are already gone.

Gone where ? Please provide accurate directions to the UA Chastity Conservation Park .

[Muzh]

Gone where ?
 

To a better place. 

[Natasha1]

The place is doesn't matter. The good and bad girls could be anywhere. Kiev, Lugansk etc. If you want just sex, you can looking for just sex, and you will get it. If you want something else you have to try.

[LAman]

Muzh.... .....I don't think salsero will be reading your post....been gone for 14 months now!!!
 
My how things have changed in a year!!! BUT I will be asking some advice about Kharkov from you.....coming up is my first trip there!! And I WILL be dancing some salsita at Bolero!!!

[JR]

Tell me more...
How do you meet someone without coming off like a sex tourist?  I have this great fear that I'll go looking for a nice girl and have no decent girl willing to even talk to me because of the way others have behaved.

Your reputation precedes you

[Muzh]

Muzh.... .....I don't think salsero will be reading your post....been gone for 14 months now!!!
 
My how things have changed in a year!!! BUT I will be asking some advice about Kharkov from you.....coming up is my first trip there!! And I WILL be dancing some salsita at Bolero!!!

In that case you don't need help from anyone. You'll be all set after the first dance. 
 
Anyway, let me know if you need some help and I'll try to oblige.