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Offline LanaRUS

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Wish good luck for me
« on: August 15, 2010, 03:43:27 AM »
Greetings ladies and gentlemen!!! :flowers:
 I am very pleased to join your community
 I hope I can count  on your help and kind support.
 I believe that thanks to your advices my dating will be more successful.
 In my turn I am ready to share with my own knowledge, experience and ideas.
Wish good luck for me!!!
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #1 on: August 15, 2010, 04:03:00 AM »
Greetings & Welcome Aboard!  :D

Tell us a little bit about yourself and what you look for in a potential partner so that we can steer you in the right direction..
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #2 on: August 15, 2010, 04:31:07 AM »
If it is possible, could you please share with me the information, which dating sites are more preferable?
 On which sites my registration will be more fruitful?
 I have met here the information about Elenamodels.
 But during the half a year when I am registered on this site I haven't received a single letter.
 While on the other sites I receive many letter, unfortunately with not serious offers. :cluebat:
 Your advice would help me a lot.
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« Reply #3 on: August 15, 2010, 04:57:40 AM »
If it is possible, could you please share with me the information, which dating sites are more preferable?
 On which sites my registration will be more fruitful?
 I have met here the information about Elenamodels.
 But during the half a year when I am registered on this site I haven't received a single letter.
 While on the other sites I receive many letter, unfortunately with not serious offers. :cluebat:
 Your advice would help me a lot.

Elena's is the most reputable site out there, but it's not affiliated with any agency that I know of, so you're on your own there.. Have you sent any letters yourself?. What were the responses like?

Some will tell you to register on free dating websites like Mamba or singles.ru.. I can't tell you much about singles.ru, but mamba is a waste of time.. It's for perverts and local hookups.. :D If you think you've received inappropriate offers on foreign sites, sing up on mamba and you'll get bombarded daily with offers of free oral sex and the like from 19 year old boys..LOL I say: stick with sites that are designed specifically for international dating, but avoid agencies because they are evil.. :D  There's a European site whose name escapes me at the moment.. I'm sure others will know what I'm talking about it.. It' called EURO something...
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #4 on: August 15, 2010, 05:02:29 AM »
Greetings ladies and gentlemen!!! :flowers:
 I am very pleased to join your community
 I hope I can count  on your help and kind support.
 I believe that thanks to your advices my dating will be more successful.
 In my turn I am ready to share with my own knowledge, experience and ideas.
Wish good luck for me!!!

Lana, welcome aboard :) Great to see another cute smiling face on the forum!

Elenas Models is a good site, however, you would face huge competition there among women.

Have you ever considered independent immigration?
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #5 on: August 15, 2010, 06:10:53 AM »
Hello, Lily! Thanks.
I have never  considered independent immigration. Honestly, I just want to meet my right man. Nothing more.
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #6 on: August 15, 2010, 06:19:41 AM »
Elena's is the most reputable site out there, but it's not affiliated with any agency that I know of, so you're on your own there.. Have you sent any letters yourself?. What were the responses like?

Some will tell you to register on free dating websites like Mamba or singles.ru.. I can't tell you much about singles.ru, but mamba is a waste of time.. It's for perverts and local hookups.. :D If you think you've received inappropriate offers on foreign sites, sing up on mamba and you'll get bombarded daily with offers of free oral sex and the like from 19 year old boys..LOL I say: stick with sites that are designed specifically for international dating, but avoid agencies because they are evil.. :D  There's a European site whose name escapes me at the moment.. I'm sure others will know what I'm talking about it.. It' called EURO something...

Thanks for your opinion. I see, my way is very hard  :selfharm:
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #7 on: August 15, 2010, 06:30:57 AM »
Thanks for your opinion. I see, my way is very hard  :selfharm:

There is no easy way to do it.. You just have to be patient. ;D
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #8 on: August 15, 2010, 06:52:39 AM »
Welcome can you tell the city you live in that will help on which agency.  If you live in Russia I cannot help, but if Ukraine and near Kiev, Donetsk, Kharkiv, or Sevastopol I can help.

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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #9 on: August 15, 2010, 07:43:15 AM »
There is no easy way to do it.. You just have to be patient. ;D

I will try my best  :blowkiss:
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« Reply #10 on: August 15, 2010, 07:50:49 AM »
I will try my best  :blowkiss:

You should have registered a few days ago when a number of our forum members were in St Peter looking for wives.. ;D
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #11 on: August 15, 2010, 07:56:55 AM »
You should have registered a few days ago when a number of our forum members were in St Peter looking for wives.. ;D

 Ohh I was late :sad:
But i hope, they  are successful in S-Petersburg.
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« Reply #12 on: August 15, 2010, 08:02:51 AM »
Ohh I was late :sad:
But i hope, they  are successful in S-Petersburg.

I guess we'll find out.. :)

Guys, is everyone back from St Pete yet?
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #13 on: August 15, 2010, 08:16:38 AM »
There's a European site whose name escapes me at the moment..
I'm sure others will know what I'm talking about it.. It' called EURO something...

RussianEuro.Com maybe?

Actually the best European site is, IMO, Meetic.com  :rolleyes2:
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« Reply #14 on: August 15, 2010, 08:19:16 AM »
Why get a ball and chain when you can get the milk for free?

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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #15 on: August 15, 2010, 08:54:20 AM »
I think the main difference is a dating website will not have a facilitator on the ground for when you go meet your lady..  :) Elenas is just a popular site with profiles where all of the women are looking for foreign partners and are willing to move abroad.. Unlike with an agency, people don't get screwed as much.. At least that's what I'm hearing..

Forgot to mention that it's common for agencies to have girls "on staff" who pose as women in the profiles during the correspondence stage and beyond..

Thanks, Possum!  :)

And as for the "girls on staff" bit, please see my posting about "Dream-Marriage and SCAMS" on this board ...

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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #16 on: August 15, 2010, 09:10:33 AM »
Hello, Lily! Thanks.
I have never  considered independent immigration. Honestly, I just want to meet my right man. Nothing more.

This is what I meant Lana :) If you want to meet a right man, it would be always better to look in places where the men are ;)

For any man, it is not easy to look on the other part of earth, and devote a big chunk of their resources and time to make a visit. They wouldn't want to mail order a bride, right? They would want to see her in life, meet her family and friends, and then make a decision. The pursuit involves huge costs, both in terms of time and money, which may not be attainable for many quality men in the West. And the few lucky men who actually are in the position to afford it, are therefore very very picky in terms of age, appearance, and other qualities of a potential bride. They look for best among the best.

That's why my point would be that if a Russian woman wants to maximize her chances for finding a right man, she should try her best to move to the West by herself first, and then to start looking. That would change her life completely, not only dating-wise.
« Last Edit: August 15, 2010, 09:19:33 AM by Lily »
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #17 on: August 15, 2010, 09:52:27 AM »
This is what I meant Lana :) If you want to meet a right man, it would be always better to look in places where the men are ;)

For any man, it is not easy to look on the other part of earth, and devote a big chunk of their resources and time to make a visit. They wouldn't want to mail order a bride, right? They would want to see her in life, meet her family and friends, and then make a decision. The pursuit involves huge costs, both in terms of time and money, which may not be attainable for many quality men in the West. And the few lucky men who actually are in the position to afford it, are therefore very very picky in terms of age, appearance, and other qualities of a potential bride. They look for best among the best.

That's why my point would be that if a Russian woman wants to maximize her chances for finding a right man, she should try her best to move to the West by herself first, and then to start looking. That would change her life completely, not only dating-wise.

Thanks, very interesting opinion...  Maybe you are right...
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #18 on: August 15, 2010, 10:01:05 AM »
By the way Lana, I have to compliment your great sunny smile on your avatar :) Keep it by any means when photographing yourself for your profile!

Nice wide smile is not often to see among Russian women profiles, and Western men truly appreciate that!! :)
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« Reply #19 on: August 15, 2010, 10:07:32 AM »
By the way Lana, I have to compliment your great sunny smile on your avatar :) Keep it by any means when photographing yourself for your profile!

Nice wide smile is not often to see among Russian women profiles, and Western men truly appreciate that!! :)

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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #20 on: August 15, 2010, 10:19:25 AM »
I could not say a lot about reputation of EM, though. Nevertheless, their verification of the members, and early disclosure of their home addresses (those of men members to the other party (to women members) looks good. Other than that, men on EM look like credible relationships seeker.
Just a note on a recent change in payment policy at Elena's Models.

Until a couple of months ago, in addition to their Gold and Platinum memberships (3 months minimum, now $99 and $259, respectively), they also offered a convenient $10 alternative to correspond with 1 woman at a time only, which I thought I'd use to learn more about this 40 y.o. Moscow logotherapist who wrote me:

Now it's no longer offered :(.
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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #21 on: August 15, 2010, 11:14:52 AM »
Hi Lana. I wish you the best of luck. You sound like a very nice woman. Listen to Lily. She has good advice. Keep your wonderful smile!!!
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« Reply #22 on: August 15, 2010, 01:33:49 PM »
Kevin,

One of the more important differences between a "site" like EM and an agency is how they make their money. EM makes their money from subscriptions. The ladies contact information is available if she chooses to give it to you. If she chooses to give it to you then the two of you are free to communicate in any way you chose. EM has no financial stake in how you communicate and no further profit from your in person meeting. On the other hand agencies profit primarily from correspondence. They go to great lengths to keep you corresponding through the agency because they charge for the correspondence. They have a vested interest in you writing lots of letters so there is great motivation for to entice you to write to their women. They make much less of their income from introductions and meetings because not that many men make the trip. For some of them the meetings are a "front" of sorts. They pay the girls to show up for a couple of well chaperoned "dates" to maintain the "legitimacy" of the agency. For the guy unlucky to use one of these agencies and makes the trip he thinks he met the "real girl" and knows he wasn't just writing to a picture. It doesn't work out past a couple of dates, but he goes away feeling satisfied he wasn't  scammed; it just didn't work out. It boils down to how they make their money; EM doesn't make any more if you write one or a hundred letters and meetings are arranged totally by the individuals. Agencies are pretty much the exact opposite.

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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #23 on: August 15, 2010, 06:29:01 PM »
If it is possible, could you please share with me the information, which dating sites are more preferable?   On which sites my registration will be more fruitful?   I have met here the information about Elenamodels.   But during the half a year when I am registered on this site I haven't received a single letter.   While on the other sites I receive many letter, unfortunately with not serious offers. :cluebat:   Your advice would help me a lot.
Lana:
In my opinion, an agency with a good local office in your city is best.  Get on good terms with the managers there.  They know which men are serious and which ones are players.  There are many men who will stop in at the agency on short notice after there WOVO lady doesn't show up or doesn't work out.  Don't be afraid to meet someone on short notice.

The international dating sites work very well for the beauty queens, as Lily mentioned, but others can be lost in the crowd sometimes.  What city are you from?

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Re: Wish good luck for me
« Reply #24 on: August 15, 2010, 06:39:00 PM »
The question is.. if you were to meet girls of such beauty.. do you have enough game to woo them and make them interested in you? 

Perhaps we should let the OP regain control of her thread?  This thread is about Lana.. not Kevin.  :)

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Carry on, Lana! :)

 

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