Why are y'all really looking for RW?

[veritas]

On the fabled Island of Barenaked Beach Bunnies. I think it's in the Black Sea.

Yeah, I've heard of it, too -- I b'leeve it's right off the coast of Odessa ...

Kevin

[Ranetka]

  Well for one thing FSU women prefer a well endowed man.

Oh yes, absolutely. He he.

[veritas]

Oh yes, absolutely. He he.

I was WONDERING how long it would take for someone to comment on that ... 

Kevin

[LanaRUS]

  As I get older all of my fantasys have been destroyed. Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy and now this one....Docile Russian Women

 

[JR]

Pretty blunt there, JR -- thanks ...

Kevin

U R Velkomen.

Deluding oneself leads to all kinds of trouble)))) Better to admit why you are doing something and concentrate on not stepping on any landmines than to live in a fantasy and buy yourself a one-way ticket your own train wreck.

[veritas]

U R Velkomen.

Deluding oneself leads to all kinds of trouble)))) Better to admit why you are doing something and concentrate on not stepping on any landmines than to live in a fantasy and buy yourself a one-way ticket your own train wreck.

Danken Sie schon, mein Herr ...

Kevin

[veritas]

Well, *this* is why *I'm* looking for a RW:
____________________

Hello, kitty Kevin!

you just do not go out of my head! I always think about you! You are so sweet and kind, honest and sincere, open and romantic man! " but you're just perfect man!

You just have not met, that his only girl that you understand and agree with all of your cockroaches in my head, who will love you like, not because she wants a new pair of shoes or a trip to the sea, but just for fun and for you without asking anything in return! You know what I mean? (Well, on that, too?)
_____________________

Those adorable, zany Ukrainian chicks!! 

Kevin

[facetrock]

Kevin.....You need a hobby.

[veritas]

Kevin.....You need a hobby.

Who, ME??  What did I say?? 

All in good fun, facetrock ... 

Kevin

[JR]

Danken Sie schon, mein Herr ...

Kevin

Huh?

Speaky Ruskie Damnit!!!

[Doll]

  As I get older all of my fantasys have been destroyed. Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy and now this one....Docile Russian Women

[remiel6]

I am usually late in replying to these threads so take this for what its worth. I can only speak from my own perspective. I started looking for 2 reasons 1) chasing a mistake of the past and 2) I got tired of trying everything else.
I have continued because my wife is great and well
I am nuts )))

[Doll]

Pretty blunt there, JR -- thanks ...

Kevin

This is true though (what JR said).

[Daveman]

On the fabled Island of Barenaked Beach Bunnies. I think it's in the Black Sea.

LoL!  I think all of us who do this are from the Island of Misfit Toys ... 

Maybe Rudolph and Santa will show up and rescue us...

  As I get older all of my fantasys have been destroyed. Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy and now this one....Docile Russian Women

Hah! yeah... the docile RW.. it's funny, sometimes they are the most docile, tender, easy women in the world.. and then without much warning,,, all hell breaks loose..  That's when I'm thankful for Piva, any mode of transportation (taxi, bus, marshrutka), and Russian Billiards...

[veritas]

U R Velkomen.

Huh?

Deutsch, mein Freund ... "Guten Tag"?  "Wellkommen Sie"?  "Sprechen Sie Deutsch?"

Speaky Ruskie Damnit!!!

Вы шутка??  Я не могу поставить вместе два слова на русском языке без помощи Интернета!!

Кевин

[veritas]

1. Most of the men in this endeavor are social mis-fits, incapable of successful dating in their own back yards.

This is true though (what JR said).

I'm curious about his reason #1, then ... How prevalent and/or significant do y'all think that reason is?

I am nuts )))

I think we have a consensus here ...  

Kevin

[veritas]

BTW, do y'all know of a better (free) Internet translator than "Google Translate"?


Original text in English, as composed by my (married) British friend Linda:

Hi Kevin ... let's just see if you can figure out what i am saying to you ...
you are a very nice friend ...
do you like to hold bottle near to heart?  you drink fine and fast?
you love men or women best?
how you like to drive?  you drive people round bend quick or slow?
my breasts are like melons.  when in Rome do like the Norwegians do!!! ...
he he he!


To Russian and back again, using http://translate.google.com:

Привет Кевин ... Посмотрим, если вы можете понять, что я говорю тебе ...
Вы очень хороший друг ...
Вы хотели бы держать бутылку рядом с сердцем? Вы пьете штрафа и быстро?
Вы любите мужчин или женщин больше всего?
как вы хотели бы ездить? вы водите людей вокруг изгиба быстро или медленно?
моя грудь, как арбузы. , когда в Риме нравится норвежцы! ...
хе-хе хе!

Hi Kevin ... Let's see if you can understand what I'm talking to you ...
You are a very good friend ...
Would you like to keep a bottle near the heart? Do you drink a fine and fast?
Do you like men or women the most?
as you would like to go? you drive people around the bend fast or slow?
my chest, like watermelons. When at Rome like the Norwegians! ...
heh heh heh!


To Russian and back again, using http://www.worldlingo.com/en/products_services/worldlingo_translator.html:

Hi Кевин… препятствуйте нам как раз увидеть если вы можете вычислять вне, то я говорю к вам…
вы будете очень славным другом ...
сделайте вы полюбите держать бутылку приблизить к к сердцу?  вы выпиваете отлично и голодаете?
вы любите людей или женщин наиболее наилучшим образом?
как вы любите управлять?  вы управляете людьми округляете загиб быстро или медленный?
мои груди как дыни.  когда в Rome полюбите норвежцы сделайте!!! ...
он он он!

Hi Kevin… prevent us exactly to see if you can calculate outside, then I do speak to you…
you will be very glorious friend…
make you you will fall in love to hold bottle to draw nearer [k] the heart?  you do drink excellently and you do starve?
you do love people or women most in the best way?
how you do love to govern?  you do govern people you do round off bend rapidly or slow?
my breasts as melons.  when into Rome you fall in love Norwegians make!!! ...
it it it!


Кевин

[fishkeeper008]

part of it, for myself at least is the adventrue of going to a different country to look for  a wife.  my best friend was in russia and met his wife on accident while he was on vacation. yeah most of us here could probly find a woman in the states, yeah some would have to look a little harder lol but it could be done. thats my idea anyway
everyone else had valid points as well though, and its already been said each person usually has thier own idea of why they themself are going. mine happens to be that id like to see another county at the same time lol, i have other reasons as well but that s one of the biggest

[veritas]

part of it, for myself at least is the adventrue of going to a different country to look for  a wife.  my best friend was in russia and met his wife on accident while he was on vacation. yeah most of us here could probly find a woman in the states, yeah some would have to look a little harder lol but it could be done. thats my idea anyway
everyone else had valid points as well though, and its already been said each person usually has thier own idea of why they themself are going. mine happens to be that id like to see another county at the same time lol, i have other reasons as well but that s one of the biggest

Thanks, fishkeeper ... So then you don't think that JR's reason #1 is the case for most guys here?

How 'bout the rest of y'all?

Kevin

P.S.  I'm saying "reason #1" instead of "#1 reason" because the latter implies a certain degree of significance ...

[fishkeeper008]

i agree totally with his first reason, could probly apply it to myself. but a misfit could meet a woman in the states too, although it may actually be more of a pain than flying to ruassia and doing it there lol. i dont think that there is any 'one' reason tho, even per person its probly a long list of many reasons i just feel that a person without any sense of adventure could never attempt this so its the most important reason to me imo.

[Handycam72]

For me, its a case of why the hell not, but not just keeping it within FSU, but anywhere. Hell I experienced how the AW love a well spoken English gent 

[Daveman]

Thanks, fishkeeper ... So then you don't think that JR's reason #1 is the case for most guys here?

How 'bout the rest of y'all?

Kevin

P.S.  I'm saying "reason #1" instead of "#1 reason" because the latter implies a certain degree of significance ...

For most guys? Well it could be, but I doubt most... I think many are simply dissatisfied with what they see around them and choose the "grass in greener" approach. which then becomes a habit or a challenge, or a combination of both.

I'd say the individual reasons are varied but can all be filed under certain categories.  The most common being "The Hot Wife". The second would be fantasy of finding "The Traditional Wife" (under the fantasyland auspice - I'm a real man, RW want a real man, so she'll be the submissive wife I want).  Okay, that is somewhat true to an extent.  There's a Russian Adage which goes something like this "The man is the head, until the woman broke his neck".. heh... volumes could probably be written on that particular interaction, but the "June Cleaver" attitude is mostly myth (I say mostly because I did meet one very traditional, submissive, type Ukrainian woman in Kharkov... long before I found RWD.  

Anyway, I assert, as do many others, that if a man put in the time, effort, money, etc., into finding a woman in his own country that he does in chasing skirts in the FSU, he would undoubtedly find her... young, beautiful, thin, etc.. but there's the Creepy Old Guy stigma to deal with here, that doesn't exist on the same level there.  I think probably what drives us more than anything else is The Allure of the Exotic.  

Believe it or not, the ladies I dated in the USA are actually physically not much different at all than the FSU ladies I've dated. Here in the south is the largest Baborama Genepool in the country... from Texas to Virginia.  If one cannot find a beautiful babe here, then one really must be an idiot.  I admit to being an idiot, because I am addicted to FSUW! hehehe

For me, I am looking for a very specific woman to share my life with. I love being single. I have no problem being alone. There is one woman (okay, just for SMS60.. let's say type of woman) whom I would love and cherish more than being single,and for her I'd move the world. Just absolutely will not be married for the sake of being married or out of some misguided fear of being alone. That would be the epitome of "social misfit" in my book.

This process is adventurous; it's unknown; it's an enigma; it's a challenge... people define relationships differently based on a number of personal criteria -- but at the end of he day what you have left is just a boy and a girl standing before each other asking a simple silent question "could you really love me and I you?" ...

If you find that girl, or boy.. and the answer is yes... that's the elusive treasure we all seek, wherever it's found.

[veritas]

"Why are y'all really looking for RW?"

The answer is three-fold with varying amounts of the basic ingredients.

1. Most of the men in this endeavor are social mis-fits, incapable of successful dating in their own back yards.

i agree totally with his first reason, could probly apply it to myself. but a misfit could meet a woman in the states too, although it may actually be more of a pain than flying to ruassia and doing it there lol.

Still doesn't sound like you agree totally, though ... Sorry, not tryin' to bust yer chops here ...

For me, its a case of why the hell not, but not just keeping it within FSU, but anywhere. Hell I experienced how the AW love a well spoken English gent 

Are you the same Handycam72 who started that long, five-star-rated thread about "Meeting with a Pro-Dater"?

For most guys? Well it could be, but I doubt most... I think many are simply dissatisfied with what they see around them and choose the "grass in greener" approach. which then becomes a habit or a challenge, or a combination of both.

I'd say the individual reasons are varied but can all be filed under certain categories.  The most common being "The Hot Wife". The second would be fantasy of finding "The Traditional Wife" (under the fantasyland auspice - I'm a real man, RW want a real man, so she'll be the submissive wife I want).  Okay, that is somewhat true to an extent.  There's a Russian Adage which goes something like this "The man is the head, until the woman broke his neck".. heh... volumes could probably be written on that particular interaction, but the "June Cleaver" attitude is mostly myth (I say mostly because I did meet one very traditional, submissive, type Ukrainian woman in Kharkov... long before I found RWD. 

Anyway, I assert, as do many others, that if a man put in the time, effort, money, etc., into finding a woman in his own country that he does in chasing skirts in the FSU, he would undoubtedly find her... young, beautiful, thin, etc.. but there's the Creepy Old Guy stigma to deal with here, that doesn't exist on the same level there.  I think probably what drives us more than anything else is The Allure of the Exotic. 

Believe it or not, the ladies I dated in the USA are actually physically not much different at all than the FSU ladies I've dated. Here in the south is the largest Baborama Genepool in the country... from Texas to Virginia.  If one cannot find a beautiful babe here, then one really must be an idiot.  I admit to being an idiot, because I am addicted to FSUW! hehehe

For me, I am looking for a very specific woman to share my life with. I love being single. I have no problem being alone. There is one woman (okay, just for SMS60.. let's say type of woman) whom I would love and cherish more than being single,and for her I'd move the world. Just absolutely will not be married for the sake of being married or out of some misguided fear of being alone. That would be the epitome of "social misfit" in my book.

This process is adventurous; it's unknown; it's an enigma; it's a challenge... people define relationships differently based on a number of personal criteria -- but at the end of he day what you have left is just a boy and a girl standing before each other asking a simple silent question "could you really love me and I you?" ...

If you find that girl, or boy.. and the answer is yes... that's the elusive treasure we all seek, wherever it's found.

Thanks, Dave, for a very interesting and useful post ...

BTW, do ya consider Central Florida to be part of the TRUE South?

Kevin

[fishkeeper008]

very nice post dave.
i agree totally thats its a good reason on why we do this
however i dont believe that they are incapable of finding a lady in the states, they are just fed up with AW and dont want one anymore or tell themselves that because they are misfits they will never be able to find a woman in the states
and i put myself in this group, i could probly find a woman in the states i just dont want to lol

[Doll]

I'm curious about his reason #1, then ... How prevalent and/or significant do y'all think that reason is?

I think we have a consensus here ...  

Kevin

How significant  is "1. Most of the men in this endeavor are social mis-fits, incapable of successful dating in their own back yards." ?
Well, depends how we define "successful dating". If a man dreams about pretty intelligent woman then I think this is a big chunk of "want to marry FSU woman. Due to some very important fact it IS possible over seas and impossible in the States (Europe).
 Expectations, sir!